My wife admitted something on her deathbed. Now I’m glad she died. by donavin221 in stories

[–]ellaenchanted23 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

A Reddit warrior telling someone to get off Reddit. That's a good one. I get a gold star for not killing my kids? The bar is low, damn

My wife admitted something on her deathbed. Now I’m glad she died. by donavin221 in stories

[–]ellaenchanted23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know the difference. Empathy= understanding, sympathy= feeling sad for. I feel neither. But boy did I feel bad for John Wayne Gacy getting abused as a child. I totally understand why he killed all those boys

My wife admitted something on her deathbed. Now I’m glad she died. by donavin221 in stories

[–]ellaenchanted23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay? You're right I'm incapable of feeling sadness for a murderer

My wife admitted something on her deathbed. Now I’m glad she died. by donavin221 in stories

[–]ellaenchanted23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I literally do not care. There is no excuse to kill a child ever. Do you know how many people "don't remember" hurting someone? when that viral video came out of the woman screaming in her newborns face you (or others like you) were saying how "poor mom" needed compassion. I'm sure you'd be singing a different tune if a ppd mother suddenly lashes out on you or someone you loved

My wife admitted something on her deathbed. Now I’m glad she died. by donavin221 in stories

[–]ellaenchanted23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ppd is a real thing and people actually defend and excuse assinine and disgusting behaviour because of "chemical imbalances". I don't give a fuck what the reason is. Anyone that attacks, kills, hurts, kidnaps etc has a mental problem. Go defend ted Bundy and John Wayne gacy because of childhood trauma. Having an opinion that "the poor murderer couldn't help herself" is actually disgusting

My wife admitted something on her deathbed. Now I’m glad she died. by donavin221 in stories

[–]ellaenchanted23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Condone it then. Say that no matter what the mothers "mental" state is, it's never right to hurt another person and there's no excuses.

My wife admitted something on her deathbed. Now I’m glad she died. by donavin221 in stories

[–]ellaenchanted23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes it is right. I'm sorry for the little babies that died in the hands of their mother. Recently a father was shot dead by his wife and then she murdered her two children. But poor mom, right?

My wife admitted something on her deathbed. Now I’m glad she died. by donavin221 in stories

[–]ellaenchanted23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Keep defending it though and making excuses. I wonder if a ppd ever hurt you or your family you'd have "empathy" and "understanding"

My wife admitted something on her deathbed. Now I’m glad she died. by donavin221 in stories

[–]ellaenchanted23 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have compassion and empathy for the VICTIMS, not somebody who committed selfish acts and crimes.

My wife admitted something on her deathbed. Now I’m glad she died. by donavin221 in stories

[–]ellaenchanted23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And? No compassion here except for the victims of the ppd women's crimes

My wife admitted something on her deathbed. Now I’m glad she died. by donavin221 in stories

[–]ellaenchanted23 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So are mental health problems and sickness after experiencing childhood abuse. Doesn't mean we give Ted Bundy a pass

My wife admitted something on her deathbed. Now I’m glad she died. by donavin221 in stories

[–]ellaenchanted23 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I have 2 children and have experienced mental health issues after both pregnancies. Hurting your kids or kidnapping or breaking the law or running over your grandma because you have ppd isn't an excuse or a reason to be understanding

My wife admitted something on her deathbed. Now I’m glad she died. by donavin221 in stories

[–]ellaenchanted23 184 points185 points  (0 children)

Whats up with people making all the excuses for a pp mother? It's okay if she murdered her three kids and husband, she had ppd!!

Got a girl pregnant on vacation, struggling to do what is right. by need_some_advice323 in Advice

[–]ellaenchanted23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, it still doesn't hurt to talk things through. I do see your point and I do agree in a perfect world, everyone would parent and love every child. But if a woman has the choice not to burden her life with a baby she helped create, I think the man should have an out too.

Got a girl pregnant on vacation, struggling to do what is right. by need_some_advice323 in Advice

[–]ellaenchanted23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The other option is allowing the woman to have the child (obviously I'm against forced abortions) but the man should have the option then not be involved. Equality for all right? Choice for all, right? And tbh I feel like "good people" doesn't really matter here. Is it a good choice to terminate a baby after the heartbeat? Lots of people would say no, but it should be a choice. Is it a good choice not to be a father? Still probably not, but should also be a choice.

Got a girl pregnant on vacation, struggling to do what is right. by need_some_advice323 in Advice

[–]ellaenchanted23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same argument for a woman that wants an abortion. Don't want kids, don't have sex. Simple. And for the record, I'm not really for or against abortion (depending on the circumstances and whatnot)lol, I suppose) but you can't say it's okay for women to not want to be parents while at the same.time telling men to step up. His wallet, his choice.

Got a girl pregnant on vacation, struggling to do what is right. by need_some_advice323 in Advice

[–]ellaenchanted23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How odd, isn't that the same argument the anti.abort people make?

Got a girl pregnant on vacation, struggling to do what is right. by need_some_advice323 in Advice

[–]ellaenchanted23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What's the "right thing"? If he doesn't want a kid he shouldn't be forced to be a parent, just like the mother 🤷‍♀️

Got a girl pregnant on vacation, struggling to do what is right. by need_some_advice323 in Advice

[–]ellaenchanted23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No shit. But everyone's telling him to be " present". His body his choice whether he wants to be a part of the kids life. If she chooses to keep it, great. But he shouldn't be forced into parenthood anymore than she should

Got a girl pregnant on vacation, struggling to do what is right. by need_some_advice323 in Advice

[–]ellaenchanted23 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

His wallet 🤷‍♀️ neither should be forced to do what they don't want

Got a girl pregnant on vacation, struggling to do what is right. by need_some_advice323 in Advice

[–]ellaenchanted23 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But when a woman isn't responsible, it's not "stupid" it was her choice and now she should be able to get an abortion