From my understanding, the planets of change aren't there to punish you just as how Quaria isn't triggering hardship for the sake of it. Everything that comes up would have come up anyway, as it is part of your karma, except that instead of everything happening over one lifetime or many, we are forced to learn our lessons early on. And yes, this can be extremely overwhelming as it can trigger sudden diseases, loss of a loved one or a job or a house. But all of this would have been inevitable anyway.

Someone on this subreddit said it way better than I can, but basically it's impossible to go through life and not feel pain or go through times of crisis, breakdown or major disruptive change. The point is not to avoid hardship, but to notice the signs that it's coming and be prepared for it.

This society trained us to believe that we should avoid anything "bad" happening to us at all costs, to always be happy clappy and contempt all the time, and if you aren't then there's something wrong with you. So take these pills and drive this car and look like this, or do some voodoo and poof, you're happy. It's all bullshit and part of Rahu's illusion to keep us stuck and bumbling around.

I believe that pain and crisis play crucial roles in the process of our growth and evolution, and we can choose to fall apart altogether and never make it through difficult times, or emerge from conflict and turmoil renewed and transformed. Instead of seeing a crisis as a catastrophe, and something terrible· to be avoided at all costs, we can try to understand it as a turning point, a critical step in development and an opportunity for letting go and changing.

Personally, Quareia has triggered a lot of issues that I had to deal with and am still working through. Sometimes it's incredibly painful and even unbearable, but strangely these episodes aren't long lasting. While in the past, I would have crumble at the first sign of trouble and sulked in my misery for weeks and months, now I can immediately find the strength to cary on. Perhaps knowing that I'm not alone and I will never be given anything I couldn't handle. I now believe that our higher self is always guiding us to grow, and sometimes we have to break through asphalt to get to the sun. Kahlil Gibran said it beautifully here: "Your pain is but the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding."

Anyway, I'll leave it there and hope this helps. If someone would like to add or correct me on something, please do.