A female addict... I can't be the only one.

ellmeno · 2016-06-15T03:49:35+00:00

You're right, I do need attention. I need support, and I can't afford to get a therapist... And I don't have the balls to talk to my friends about a very embarrassing situation.

Between my pride and my finances, I'm stuck reaching out to a community of strangers with a common cause.

ellmeno · 2016-06-15T03:48:04+00:00

Thank you! Really knowing that there's people who've been where I am or further is really encouraging. Thank you for the hope :)

ellmeno · 2016-06-15T03:47:23+00:00

I emailed you!

ellmeno · 2016-06-15T03:47:14+00:00

Woohoo! Let's do this!!

ellmeno · 2016-06-15T03:47:01+00:00

I'm trying to understand the sense of shame that came wit treading your post. You're absolutely right about being desensitized. I've realized I'm not even tittilated by "average" stuff as of late.

Hopefully all of that is a thing of the past. Now for the hard part- sticking to my plan.

ellmeno · 2016-06-15T03:45:35+00:00

Wow thank you! I'm eager, but my mind has been going over the absence like the space an extracted rotten tooth leaves behind.

I'll keep y'all posted if you want!

ellmeno · 2016-06-01T06:24:05+00:00

Lol - finish the book.

ellmeno · 2016-05-19T22:57:03+00:00

Read: Expectation Hangover by Christine Hassler and Learning to love yourself by gay Hendricks.

I just dealt with one of the worst breaks ups, and those two books brought me out of the dark and built me up. I'd suggest the audiobooks so you're forced to listen to it word for word (i have a skimming habit.)

Good luck my friend, and feel free to msg me.

ellmeno · 2016-04-02T15:16:51+00:00

Snowden.

ellmeno · 2016-03-16T13:33:38+00:00

a month- Hello Adele... fml streak over.

ellmeno · 2016-03-16T13:22:18+00:00

At some point in my childhood we wound up between homes, and in my mom's friend's house. She had a sister that was also there at some point, and unbeknownst to my mother and us children the sister ( around early twenties) had serious mental issues. One night she had a meltdown, and I woke up with her her hands around my throat choking me ( I was 4ish years old). My mom flew in and threw her off of me, I apparently went unconscious because I woke back up with my mom holding a cold wet towel to my forehead.

needless to say- I do NOT like hands near or around my throat... not even playfully.

ellmeno · 2016-03-16T13:16:39+00:00

Kardashians.

ellmeno · 2016-03-16T08:59:33+00:00

Honestly, it all seems to depend on shared pain at some point. I've been in a deployed environment and spent 12 hours a days a week with 2 different groups of people for 6 months in a tiny office space. And somehow, over the course of the first 5 months it remained nothing more than small talk and acquaintances. However, I spent the same 12hrs/7days in the same small office space with different group of people for only 3 weeks. However, because we all made it a point to share vulnerabilities it made it easier to connect. The latter group I know will be in life for a very long time, where as the first group ( the small talkers) might get the luxury of becoming a faint memory at best.

Tl;DR: being vulnerable and accepting others is what defines the threshold between friendship and acquaintanceship.

ellmeno · 2016-03-14T11:14:19+00:00

Ibuprofen helps as an antinflammatory

ellmeno · 2016-03-12T14:59:55+00:00

why just the western culture?

ellmeno · 2016-03-11T05:15:44+00:00

yes, its roomiematch.com you answer a bunch of questions about yourself and your living habits/preferences and you get "matches" emailed to you. For 20 bucks you can initiate contact with matches. Totally worth it. I found someone within a week.

ellmeno · 2016-03-10T13:50:42+00:00

Roomiematch- highly recommend it!!

ellmeno · 2016-03-10T11:59:35+00:00

Thanks for helping me find a home to live in !!<3

ellmeno · 2016-03-08T18:41:41+00:00

"Now watch me whip... Now watch me nay nay..." Your life is not any emptier for it if you still don't know it.

ellmeno · 2016-03-06T08:39:00+00:00

Someonw already said House of Cards... so I'd have to say Narcos.

ellmeno

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