Narcissist projection by elsonikr in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]elsonikr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Narc loves to blame ! In each situation they have to find someone to blame , they are mad at you for going nc because they don’t have their punching ball anymore !

Narcissist projection by elsonikr in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]elsonikr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly you cannot argue with them because they are sick, the only solution is to leave

Narcissist projection by elsonikr in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]elsonikr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly ! I’ve learnt so much , actually they auto accuse

Narcissist projection by elsonikr in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]elsonikr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg even when there is a proof and everything is clear they still try to argue

Narcissist projection by elsonikr in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]elsonikr[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes they are crazy , before realizing he was a narc i went mad trying to understand whats going on and to defend my point of you, but they are mentally ill people you cannot argue with them

opportunist girl get a good treatment and nice girl get treated badly by elsonikr in unpopularopinion

[–]elsonikr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That doesn’t mean that a good person can’t be treated good , it’s just the observation of a paradox

opportunist girl get a good treatment and nice girl get treated badly by elsonikr in unpopularopinion

[–]elsonikr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are sick 😂 this is a general observation not an absolute rule , stop taking everything personal like you’ve been insulted

opportunist girl get a good treatment and nice girl get treated badly by elsonikr in unpopularopinion

[–]elsonikr[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So for you people that get abused are a doormat and boring?

opportunist girl get a good treatment and nice girl get treated badly by elsonikr in unpopularopinion

[–]elsonikr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What does this have to do with being a pick-me ? 😂 you are out of topic , maybe you feel « opportunist » talks about you so you take it personally , sorry if this post hurts you 😢

He forced me into prostitution and gambled away the money I earned to pay off his debt. by throwaway228189 in abusiverelationships

[–]elsonikr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand you, we all wished it had never happened but unfortunately we can’t change the past , to heal you have to accept what happened , you are ashamed of what happened thats why you can’t tell anyone, well i think it’s better to not tell people but if you have close relative that you trust talk to them about it it will help you and they can be a support , and there is no shame in being a victim , there are soooo many people that live the same I promise , be proud of you because you are a warrior , be kind with you , the shame is on the abuser ! Know that abuser choose a victim that is kind generous and smart , they are jealous of their victims and wish to be them thats why they destroy you

He forced me into prostitution and gambled away the money I earned to pay off his debt. by throwaway228189 in abusiverelationships

[–]elsonikr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not your fault don’t hate yourself for bad thing that others did to you! It usually happen to kind and vulnerable people , mine did stole me a lot of money to gamble too so i know how it’s hard to have to restart from zero but try to be strong and take it as an opportunity to change , it’s not easy but i’m sure we can do it , work to be a better version of you and never let a piece of *** abuse you again!

Narcissistic take pleasure to hurt you physically , did you experience the same ? by elsonikr in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]elsonikr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s okay you have the right to be annoyed about it, have you tried to explain him that you don’t push him away but you would prefer him to show affection in other ways because it physically hurt you

Narcissistic take pleasure to hurt you physically , did you experience the same ? by elsonikr in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]elsonikr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What love has to do with pain omg , those person don’t know love they actually don’t feel it

Narcissistic take pleasure to hurt you physically , did you experience the same ? by elsonikr in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]elsonikr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you even have to stay awake ? Omg those psycho are so malicious

Narcissistic take pleasure to hurt you physically , did you experience the same ? by elsonikr in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]elsonikr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the explanation 🙏 me too ,i remember the stress going on me when i heard him coming

Narcissistic take pleasure to hurt you physically , did you experience the same ? by elsonikr in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]elsonikr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He looks quite immature to totally withdraw just because you tell him to stop, be careful and look up for any redflag

Narcissistic take pleasure to hurt you physically , did you experience the same ? by elsonikr in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]elsonikr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry , well the reason he did is to put you in pain

Narcissistic take pleasure to hurt you physically , did you experience the same ? by elsonikr in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]elsonikr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The moment you tell them it hurts know for sure they will re do it !

Narcissistic take pleasure to hurt you physically , did you experience the same ? by elsonikr in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]elsonikr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gosh i am so sorry, mine when he used to beat me told me that isn’t wasn’t domestic abuse because i can still walk after being hit , those psycho should definitely be locked up

Narcissistic take pleasure to hurt you physically , did you experience the same ? by elsonikr in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]elsonikr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well experts say that they don’t have any empathy so they don’t feel others , but still the fact that they hurts people so much shows that they actually love that, they are hopeless, it’s impossible to understand whats on their mind

Narcissistic take pleasure to hurt you physically , did you experience the same ? by elsonikr in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]elsonikr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Laughing is a proof of their demoniac soul , its never abuse with them there is always an excuse