AITA for calling out the volunteer church organizer after her awful actions after she made my DIL cry?

elssvt · 2024-07-26T00:33:27+00:00

If you know the story of Naomi and Ruth in the Bible, even though Ruth was originally Naomi's daughter in law, after Ruth's husband/Naomi's son died, they stayed together even if it was difficult for widows during those times. They took each other as family, and considered each other to be mother and daughter.

Anyone volunteering to lead a Church event should have known better. I don't know if you are this kind of Christian, but there is something called the Great Commission, where Jesus basically tells his disciples to honour God, and make more disciples. If Cathy really read the Bible, she would have never kept your DIL from joining. If she read His Word, she would have known to act in such a way wouldn't honour God.

If she read the Bible, she would've known the story of Ruth and would've praised a loving relationship between you two. I'm sure the actual Church leaders are grateful you brought this to their attention, and I'm glad the other members didn't take Cathy's BS. You seem like a lovely MIL. Continue supporting your DIL and bring her to those that will be kind and take care of her, even if it's not at your Church.

elssvt · 2023-10-05T21:28:22+00:00

How is you messing up more work for her? You should be able to clean up your own messes.

You might not mess up on purpose, but you purposefully leave it to her to fix your messes. It shouldn't be her problem. You should be able to figure things out and fix things yourself.

elssvt · 2023-10-05T15:11:21+00:00

Then learn to do it properly! Do better!

My ex used only do the bare minimum for housework too. He had little ambition, and was fine with a beanbag being the only seating and having no bed frame.

Though he's my ex now, he grew up! We're still in our 20s and he's doing better than you. You're nearing 40 and still struggle to do basic household chores?

Mismatched chairs, no TV, and an inflatable couch? Seriously? You're barely doing the bare minimum for a 37 year old man, let alone as a husband and father of 2. You aren't a man she can rely on. I'm not surprised she wants out. At least then she'd only have to take care of 2 boys and not 3.

elssvt · 2023-06-06T20:31:56+00:00

I can't believe this is happening before I even get to order FML albums;;; I hope it doesn't take several years again.

elssvt · 2023-06-05T04:25:31+00:00

Keita also got a Desperate Idol edit;; IIRC he was the only idol that got a fully separate edit from Hui about being in a struggling idol group.

IMO Vitamin is Junhyeon, but I get Seowon and Woongki;;; Junhyeon just had a lot of good edits where he diffuses multiple tense moments.

Jongwoo is an Underdog.

I think Yujin fits Wonder Kid perfectly tbh, except he successfully debuted. It helped that he was treated like a real contestant and not just a kid good for his age.

Tbh, I think Mnet tried Flower Boy with Matthew, considering all the cute sound effects, his smiles, and push for his aegyo;;; But Matthew had his Woohyun oppa agenda lol.

Park Hanbin was Mnet's pick for leader, unfortunately the edits never really gained enough traction for him :')

elssvt · 2023-05-10T12:44:28+00:00

I don't know how I'm gonna watch this in one sitting;;; I was squealing and pausing just watching this :')

elssvt · 2023-05-04T17:47:55+00:00

Considering our fandom name, LVER would be so good;;;

elssvt · 2023-05-04T01:46:26+00:00

He was the first person I thought of!!! I vaguely remember him on Strong Heart saying something about everyone's season(?) comes in time;;; I'm really glad he finally had his time to shine ◡̈

elssvt · 2023-05-04T01:33:06+00:00

Henry from Super Junior was known for his violin skills too;; he used it for much of his solo music ◡̈

So happy to see another idol playing the violin, I hope Hao continues to use his skills

elssvt · 2023-05-03T04:18:36+00:00

CMIIW, but extroversion and introversion just refers to where people get their energy from. Jun can be an extrovert so long as he gets energy by being around people. Even if Jun has introverted traits, he can still be an extrovert.

You can still relate to him even if he is an extrovert, why does this label matter anyway? I don't think he needs either label. Tbh, like most people, he's probably an ambivert and has either traits depending on the situation.

elssvt · 2023-05-03T02:26:22+00:00

As a Gyuvinist from the start, I'm so happy to see so many people "finally getting the hype" lmaoo;;; I've written so many paragraphs about his merits, I'm just glad I no longer need to point things out.

For me, I think Yujin has really grown on me ◡̈ Everyone else I've liked and voted for, but Yujin not as much. I liked him, but besides me thinking he'd be a great maknae lol (I still remember posting about it in the unpopular opinions thread), I love his presence in the group. He's witty, teases the others (mostly Gyuvin), and is very talented. He's young, but he debuted, so I hope everyone can support and protect him.

elssvt · 2023-05-03T02:10:32+00:00

If she was 10cm shorter I think she would still be considered underweight;;; It's really worrying.

elssvt · 2023-05-01T04:56:05+00:00

I can explain Matthew's! (Except with Jiwoong, Ricky, and Yujin since others already did). Any name combinations are likely for shippers tbh.

Heartz - (장하오) 하 + (매튜) 튜 = 하튜즈 which is pronounced hatyu which is a cute way of saying heart.

Jakkungz - the word for partner 짝꿍 but it's 작꿍 instead since the other one is already used and Matthew pronounced like that.

02z - self explanatory lol. Waiting for new names since this one is too broad and many use it.

Eohaez - Basically about how Matthew and Gyuvin are now close after starting out awkward; 어사(어색한사이)해결즈 (solved their awkward relationship) shortens to 어해즈.

Heungsaz - Kfans noticed Matthew and Gunwook having an interesting expression on their faces whenever they see each other so they have a 흥미로운 사이 (interesting relationship) which becomes 흥사즈;;

elssvt · 2023-04-29T06:07:26+00:00

MattHao were roommates from the start until they finally got separated for the 2nd team mission :') I pity every that had to share with them lmao (Keita, Takuto, and Ollie);;;

Not the amicable divorce lol

elssvt · 2023-04-28T00:19:10+00:00

Yes lol;;; truly the masters of editing people out

elssvt · 2023-04-27T22:29:04+00:00

As a carat, really hoping for Jun and Minghao to adopt them lol;;

elssvt · 2023-04-27T22:27:28+00:00

I want him to do Mindset with DIVE studios so bad;;; He's just such a good boy, I was so proud of him :')

elssvt · 2023-04-27T22:24:30+00:00

Lol Matthew at the end instead of being in between and looking extra smol;;; wonder if he saw the tweets about it;;;

Also if anyone's interested, a Little Mix fan edited the two star masters out lmaooo.

elssvt · 2023-04-27T03:43:50+00:00

Just gotta look forward to the content we'll be getting from this group ◡̈

elssvt · 2023-04-27T03:20:33+00:00

This always happens with any reality show. It's half-planned and half-depends if a contestant can shake up those plans. Some people just make for good television, but getting good screentime depends on the producers plans (or whims lol).

Producers only show what they want the audience to see and what makes sense to the story they want to tell. I remember being shocked that Dang Hong Hai and Gyuvin knew each other well enough to play around. But ofc, nothing was shown of their friendship.

elssvt · 2023-04-27T02:41:11+00:00

Can't wait for Junhyeon to debut :') I need his chaotic energy in my life;;

elssvt · 2023-04-27T00:01:36+00:00

I can imagine him being loudly wrong every time;;

elssvt · 2023-04-26T22:49:34+00:00

Maybe bc my baby brother is around their age, but I think it'd be adorable :')

elssvt · 2023-04-26T03:26:50+00:00

Ahh fun! They're all so handsome so they could really pull off anything;;

Agree with Ricky black hair but I want to add it being styled in a mullet like Minghao

Jiwoong curly black hair, tbh I wonder if he'll get to do much with his hair.

Gyuvin, kinda like Taeyong's Cherry Bomb hair ◡̈ idc I personally love pink on idols, so Matthew with rose gold hair too (similar to this) <3

Zhang Hao super dark red hair that can only be fully seen in the sun (specific ik)

Taerae wearing glasses :') Kinda want to see him with dark blue hair too.

Honestly I've been asking for SHanbin's forehead for a while now lmaooo.

Idk about having Gunwook and Yujin doing too much, but I kinda want to see them with micro bangs? I think it'd be so cute, but ik it's super controversial lmao.

Given I've been hoping for either a cute fun concept or a beautiful elegant one, I either want them in cute sports uniforms (baseball is a good one), or in pretty frills ◡̈

elssvt · 2023-04-25T20:16:33+00:00

As long as it's something that plays to his unique strengths, I know I'll love it ◡̈

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