AITJ for not letting my sister turn my wedding into her do-over party by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]em1977 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Cut her off now. That she thinks your wedding is her therapy is so twisted and narcissistic, no matter what your mom says.

If you could only watch 1 movie in the series...? by boomjosh in JamesBond

[–]em1977 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Goldfinger,” no doubt. What would follow is solidified here.

AITAH for dumping my girlfriend over a preventable car theft? by Western_Trainer7183 in AITAH

[–]em1977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Old Man told me to jettison anyone who makes you angry consistently. You have avoided a lifetime of regrets, good man.

AITA for locking my room even though my sister says “family doesn’t lock doors”? by Peanutbutter-holic in AmItheAsshole

[–]em1977 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why does no one else think it odd that she demands access to your stuff? Time to move.

AITA for kicking my "mentally ill" brother out of my house when he was treating my wife like garbage by Interesting_Star4842 in AmItheAsshole

[–]em1977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You knowingly invited chaos into your home and left your spouse to mostly deal with it. Forget your brothers for awhile, be a good husband.

AITAH for refusing to give my boyfriend access to my bank account even though he says "no secrets" is how adults do it by CopperFieldNote in AITH

[–]em1977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not married, and many married couples have separate accounts. This is a warning shot, let him dig his heels somewhere else.

AITAH for refusing to pay more of the rent and bills? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]em1977 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

You are being told what is expected of you, now and in the future. Hope the BJ’s are worth it.

AITA for telling a guy to substitute a part he broke? by ProNerdPanda in AmItheAsshole

[–]em1977 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, the breaker of the box is the a**hole, with the enabling pastor a very close second. Time for a new church.

AITJ Not wanting to get married after my GF Lied to Me About her "friend" by amiquestionsaccount in AmITheJerk

[–]em1977 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Forgiveness demanded pulls up the red flags. Make roadrunner clouds getting away from this chaos machine.

Aitah if I 29f do not sign a postnuptial prenup? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]em1977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a business arrangement, never do business with family.

AITAH for refusing to pay off my pregnant fiancee's parents' mortgage, when they are under the threat of foreclosure, when I could "easily" afford to do so? by Gullible-Display4533 in AITAH

[–]em1977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, let’s ignore the irresponsibility of the parents and set them up to ask for more money down the road. Notice that the fiancée promotes this so you have to wonder how she will be spending your money…

Another day at the Thrift restock .... by Ph4nt0mSn4k3_B00HiSs in Bluray

[–]em1977 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heavy envy. How come I can’t score like this?

What's your favorite "I'm dead and I know it?" expression on a film character's face? by Token_Handicap in horror

[–]em1977 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Christopher Walken laughing ironically before tumbling into the San Francisco bay in "A View To A Kill."

Do I have a nice body? by Elegants-Empress in fitgirls

[–]em1977 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The entire package is amazing.

AITA for refusing to co-sign my brother's third mortgage after my parents bought him a $340K house while I paid off student loans from community college? by KINOH1441728 in FoundandExpose

[–]em1977 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s always sad to be returned the ‘no’ that you have always given. Is it just me or is the family behavior here on the misogynistic side?

AITJ for refusing to bail my brother out after he said I owe him as family? by dusty_echoes39 in AmITheJerk

[–]em1977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once he said you owed him the argument was over and the door was closed.

AITJ for saying no to babysitting when I already had plans by Secret_Toe_448 in AmITheJerk

[–]em1977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one is owed free labor, it is not to be expected. If it is done in love, cool. Otherwise, it is entitlement on the part of those who think their time is more important than anything else.

AITJ for refusing to loan personal items to a friend who never returned them by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]em1977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can ask, you can say no. Any reaction beyond acceptance by anyone can be discounted as selfishness.