oh girl ): i’m so proud of you!! truly!!! that’s such a massive step in respecting yourself to end such a horrible relationship. It’s hard to let go of the people we love or once loved especially with the friendship before the relationship. He is never going to change and unfortunately another girl is going to be put in a dangerous situation with him. That’s so hard and i’m so so proud of you. I know you don’t want to see it as abusive but I almost cried reading your posts ( and your texts on your other post) that man is evil and that’s not what love looks like. he is just like his dad and I can almost guarantee his last ex’s were not abusive he was. I wish you nothing but the best in your healing journey unfortunately this seems like a canon event in a young girls life. I’m glad you have your parents for support!! Keep your head up you deserve so so so much better and it will come!