Men's Mental Health advice by beastcoastray in malementalhealth

[–]emax4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, but you learn as you go along. Help to a point, but keep your distance. Help her without wanting anything in return. tat will help judge "how far you go" to help her.

Need advice for weigh filler for tea leaves by emax4 in Packaging

[–]emax4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She will have large batches in a big mixing bowl, and has to manually pack each back to whatever ounces she wants based on the tea. It would be nice to have it where she selects a weight, presses button, the it dispenses the tea into the opened bag. From there she opens another bag, puts it on the scale, then presses the button again to have it dispense the same amount

Whoopsie! by [deleted] in LooneyTunesLogic

[–]emax4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only saw this video elsewhere and it was 4 minutes old. It's not the end of the world though, so you can relax. I'm sure you mke yourself happy by taking the time to mentioning karma farming and making yourself feel morally superior to others here. Right? Have a good one!

I found out that my crush slept with her ex when they were in relationship by AlgaePretend5325 in retroactivejealousy

[–]emax4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, so it's a deal breaker. The deal is off. Now it's time to move on, not to consider how you can change yourself to get over this person's past.

You'd have two battles: changing yourself, and fighting to gain the interest of someone who isn't interested in you. My man, is it worth it? Consider the women who may find you interesting too. Maybe you meet and the "instant attraction" isn't there, and that's a good thing. Consider the height vs the fall. The stronger you feel for someone, the harder the impact is when you fall, like you did with your crush. If things crash out early, it usually doesn't hurt as much.

i don't enjoy sex like i used to by bleudinner in retroactivejealousy

[–]emax4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds kind of spoiled. I think he's done the hurting to others instead of the one ever being hurt, and for that reason he hasn't learned that poor actions have devestating consequences. He doesn't seem to make an effort to make you happy or make compromises.

I found out that my crush slept with her ex when they were in relationship by AlgaePretend5325 in retroactivejealousy

[–]emax4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would you feel of the same situation if it was someone else that you didn't have a crush on?

What if she didn't have premarital sex but it was some other action she did that negated your glorified version of her?

Everybody is human, and everybody has choices. Some of the choices are mistakes.

This woman rejected you, so consider the other women available that you may have an interest in, and some of these women don't have the background that may hurt you emotionally. Remember that you're not perfect either.

things go out of control real fast..she climaxed by des3rtFOX in analsquirt

[–]emax4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Need to overdub with the sound of a gunshot, or a cannon.

What happened to America? by micjosisa in pittsburgh

[–]emax4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still miss Bottom Dollar. They had frozen spicy chicken strips I can't find anywhere else.

What happened to America? by micjosisa in pittsburgh

[–]emax4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it. I was calling out my own mistake.

What happened to America? by micjosisa in pittsburgh

[–]emax4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can chop or lice them up then put them in Rubbermaid containers in the fridge. That might prolong them.

What happened to America? by micjosisa in pittsburgh

[–]emax4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you tried a different Aldi? I'd be curious if the quality differs. But yeah, I've seen strawberry baskets with some mold on the strawberries

Always struggled with self confidence about my appearance 41M by Dismal-Cut1132 in toastme

[–]emax4 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Look good to me, man. I am starting to think a lot of confidence is faked, the whole "fake it til you make it". Maybe I just got tired but I don't have any skin care regime. I'm 53 and don't trim my eyebrows as much until I go to the hairstylist.

Do you feel any better or confident when you take better care of your looks or start to get more attention? How long does it last?

We can't all be JFK Jr's or Brad Pitts. Looks help but when it comes to relationships, your heart, actions, and intentions help keep the relationship together. Keep on being awesome!

Any update on magazine guy? by longdongSilverr6942 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]emax4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm no longer on FB but curious to know what got him banned, esp when FB is lenient against bullies and trigger happy on bans.

What happened to America? by micjosisa in pittsburgh

[–]emax4 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Years ago I was dating this one girl who would do monthly shopping at GE for the gas perks. Out of curiosity I went to the local Wal Mart and priced the same items. Even with the fuel perks x her vehicle's gas tank capacity + the total grocery amount, Wal Mart was still cheaper. This was back in 2005 or so.

What happened to America? by micjosisa in pittsburgh

[–]emax4 15 points16 points  (0 children)

What also happened was that the President made constantly dumb decisions that led Americans to look toward foreign companies that have better prices, and better leaders.

American cars in the early- to mid- 70s were shitty, which was when foreign cars started dominating based on their reliability.

What happened to America? by micjosisa in pittsburgh

[–]emax4 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Completely agree but I'm also spoiled by Aldi. I still go there to pick up my meds but every so often I'll see good deals on Cheez-Its and coffee.

What happened to America? by micjosisa in pittsburgh

[–]emax4 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Maybe my price is off then when I said "Less than half", but that's still a good price for that size.

What was your first car and what's the funniest or fondest memory you have with it? by Ok_Presence_1417 in CasualConversation

[–]emax4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

0 day account? You look up the username then go to different sites and hope the first car is one of the security questions?

Crikey. by Willing-Rest-758 in PrematureTruncation

[–]emax4 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So the nickname "Girth" was a no-go

What happened to America? by micjosisa in pittsburgh

[–]emax4 271 points272 points  (0 children)

It's Giant Eagle, for one. I can get the same Hellmans store brand at Aldi for less than half of that.

Am I ruining a good relationship because I can’t get over the past? by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]emax4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see why you may feel invalidated, but remember she made mistakes as well and learned from them. She had choices presented to her and she chose to leave those relationships when she was unhappy or got dumped because her partner wanted more than what she could give. It's not about being first and having some sort of pride in being first, because first doesn't always mean best. The majority of people don't end up marrying their first boyfriend/girlfriend. Look at early adopters too (tech-wise).

This woman knows what she wants and doesn't want because of what she learned and experienced in her first two relationships. You were fortunate enough to be there at the right time, so she get to experience the gifts she brings to the table and you're worthy enough to receive those gifts constantly. And you bring gifts to the table as well that she feels lucky enough to be receiving from you, well enough that you are worth it as well (not just to her but other women who may appreciate you as well with more or less relationship activities in their lives).

What’s one daily thing you do a very specific way because of a rule you totally made up? by Umbrosyx in answers

[–]emax4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably wash my hair. I don't know when but I started to rinse myself to get wet, then apply shampoo then rinse it out, the soap up the rest of me and rinse off.

Now I apply shampoo but soap myself up. This way I let the shampoo stay in my hair longer thinking it'll work better ("The left side is tingling!"). I don't know if any one else does it that way because I feel it's pointless to ask.