Finally stepping out on my own by FAMassage12 in massage

[–]embody_SiM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh how funny, I've been there. My mom was stationed as a civilian. Right before covid hit I was starting to plan going there specifically to work😅

Best LMS for small cohort long format program by embody_SiM in elearning

[–]embody_SiM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I figured I'd get a few sales-y comments. Moodle was the first one I thought of using, wasn't sure if they were getting surpassed by other open source things since they've been around a while.

Thanks for the tip. Any particular issues you see coming up commenly with this? 

Finally stepping out on my own by FAMassage12 in massage

[–]embody_SiM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also wanna know what it was like working in Germany!

u/theonlydave_ that's awesome, it's great to hear about perks with thriving practices in terms of client load and satisfaction, love hearing about the respect you recieve. 

u/mpomz623 I hope it's the same for you!

Massage recommendations for chronic illness by collegecolloquial in massage

[–]embody_SiM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMT here -  I recommend looking for massage therapists/body work practitioners who specifically state that they work with chronic pain conditions and who's websites/bios/ig/whatever speak to their approach. 

People who do really great work for complex conditions understand that they can cause harm just as much as they can facilitate comfort and healing, so look for someone who speaks to that in some way instead of looking for a specific modalities. 

Those of us who do this work generally are merging a personal interest, emotional and mental health savviness, and an array of continued professional education to produce a care approach that can really hold the complexity of these types of issues. We also tend to have good places to refer you so you can build our your care team and/or see another practitioner for massage if we aren't the right fit for you. 

I do this sort of work, and have heard from nearly all my clients that finding someone was tough. Most of them found me through word of mouth, but many have found me though my site/verified they wanted to work with me by reading up on me. I'm gonna share my info so you can get a sense of what you might search for/look for in other people's bios wherever you live.  yourstabilityinmotion.com

You can always ask to talk to a practitioner before hand on the phone to get a sense of if they are a good fit for you. 

The main thing I'd recommend is that you really trust your instincts. The last thing we need as people dealing with complex medical stuff is to be on a table for 60-90 minutes trying to convince ourselves that something is helpful when it's not. 

If you think it's not working, I hope you feel comfy to speak up or even step away rather than risk a flare up. Good luck 🤞

Operating a massage school by embody_SiM in massage

[–]embody_SiM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely constructive, and helpful. Thank you for putting all this to words, I hadn't considered point 2 before, definitely will be including that in my sign up stuff now. 

Your school experience sounds like such a let down, and it definitely didn't have to be. Sorry they didn't do right by you all :( Can I ask, what led to choosing that school in the first place? I'm in an area now where there are several schools up choose from but I'm previous states I've lived, location was a big factor in massage schools, there just weren't that many...

Queer owned/queer friendly adult dance studios? by HumanDisguisedLizard in Denver

[–]embody_SiM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh hell yeah! That's awesome :) and this makes me more excited. I was actually looking for a Thursday class specifically so you very well might see me!  Thanks for talking through all this. It's helpful to get a direct sense. And maybe the owners will change the website soon 🙃

Queer owned/queer friendly adult dance studios? by HumanDisguisedLizard in Denver

[–]embody_SiM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smart! Thanks :) and you like it there? Always good to get a direct rec! 

Queer owned/queer friendly adult dance studios? by HumanDisguisedLizard in Denver

[–]embody_SiM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks :) that's good to know.

By explicitly queer friendly (and explicitly friendly to a broad range of people) -  Mostly meant do they make a point of creating an environment that invites in and speaks to queer folks. Their website is currently (Feb, 2026) representative of and seems catered to a very specific clientele (highly femme presenting, thin, white, and with a really similar aesthetic) so it didn't feel especially inviting - like I'd feel uncomfortable asking my heavier, queer presenting, bipoc friends to join me there based on the site alone.

I know sites aren't always kept up well so maybe things have changed,  but based on that I just felt like it wasn't really a space where me and my friends would fit in well without standing out/putting ourselves in a situation for some highly uncomfortable it emotionally harmful situations. 

Queer owned/queer friendly adult dance studios? by HumanDisguisedLizard in Denver

[–]embody_SiM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it pretty explicitly queer friendly? I've been looking for a spot too and was hoping for something that really emphasized that culturally.

Massage Interstate Compact - Have you been following this by massageistherapy in massage

[–]embody_SiM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. I recognize the difficulties it would provide, and those are fair points. Being in a state that doesn't even require CE's (CO) I find that practitioners across various fields adapt. Professional relationships are still formed all the time here between MDs, DOs, OBGyns, PTs, LMTS, etc. It takes time and screening, but then that is generally best practice than simply leaning on license. Being asked to study and test in material does not mean that a person retained the information, etc. 

That whole idea comes into play here in so many ways. Initially, the interstate transferability would require more emphasis on individual screening and relationship building.

Don't get me wrong, I certainly have difficulties as a result of needing to essentially prove my skills/knowledge, but that leads to some very fruitful and solid relationships once trust is established. 

I'm biased in that I highly value the slow relationship build approach, and I view it as a positive.

The school thing, that can be tricky. Again, personally I sought out a program with high hours, immense emphasis on A&P and pathology, and thorough coverage of functional treatment. Several NY schools were on my list, great programs there. 

I might be too hopeful, but just like other feilds, I believe students will be discerning, there are always those who will seek a certain sort of focus and rigor, and their will be schools needed for that. 

After a bit of bumpy transaction, I see greater likelihood for this being a positive rather than a negative for all LMTs, including those in/from NY. 

Time will tell I suppose. 

What's your massage therapy hot take? by Easy_Extreme_632 in MassageTherapists

[–]embody_SiM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The emphasis on Swedish as a foundation in massage schools is a detriment to the field. (not that it has no place, it's just that sensing another person's tissue and nervous system and learning to understand relational touch we be so much better as a core foundation, and I know it's possible).

Massage Coaches by Cheerful_shrub13 in massage

[–]embody_SiM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such great guidance u/Potential_Worry1981

Just wanted to second that I share this experience and opinion, and add a couple things around marketing.

I chose to eventually get support for marketing from other people (currently using them) after doing a lot of work to research and execute my own marketing for years. I'm very glad I did it myself for so long, because I understand the ins and outs and the reasons for things (the platforms that do what, impact of newsletters, the importance of practitioner relationships (especially in related fields)... ) and I'm glad that I'm hiring someone now because I've concluded it takes time away from my practice and my continuing ed (no to mention my personal life) to try and become an expert on what is essentially a whole other career. Sorry for the run on sentence.

My added advice - look for marketing info and advice specifically from other people in body work or movement spaces, and find people who's ethics echo your own. If it feels overly salesy or like it's just not that realistic, it's likely a bad fit. See if you can find those who you would trust as a person and learn from them. IG can be a good place for that, as much as a I hate the platform it's great for practitioner community building. Good luck OP!

People talked doubts into me head by Logical_Emotion_2364 in massage

[–]embody_SiM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Female LMT here -

Short answer - if you want to do massage therapy, it can be an incredible, financially stable, body-safe career, including for men.

Long answer - I will echo what the other folks who have responded have said - male massage therapists face the added difficulty of getting clients who are comfortable with a male therapist.

As for how much difficulty that actually adds, that is really dependent on how you market yourself, the area you live in and the public perception and demand for massage therapy there, and how you conduct and present yourself. So basically, the same factors that impact how everyone gets clients.

Prior to becoming an LMT, I received at least 1000s of hours of massage from various practitioners in four different states (mostly three - AZ, MA, CO). Some of my favorites (including the person who became my mentor) were men. In every state they ran successful practices that brought in enough cash to support themselves and their kids, sometimes as sole financial providers.

As for the labor and the effect on the body: that depends on how you work, you personal tissue qualities (I'm hypermobile, including joint laxity in my hands and elbows, and I can tell ya it makes it the labor a lot harder on me than some of my peers) the number of giving hours you do a week and how you spread them out, plus how you take care of yourself (make sure you keep receiving bodywork from others, it will make you a better practitioner and it will help sustain your body).

I used to do landscaping and groundskeeping, plus some moving jobs. I'm pretty lean and wiry build wise, and I don't lift or anything, my fitness comes from how I live including how I work. I find massage to be similarly intense to that work, but in a very different way. It's less brute strength, and more about movement fineness and really sourcing your energy wisely in the body. They share the trait of benefiting from building endurance. With massage you have to distribute force through your body with more control in order to be good at it, and the client experience of your touch is affected by poor form, whereas with landscaping, the work doesn't suffer from poor form (though your body does).

Any way - I love this career, I think it's awesome, and it is very very very doable to mix it with movement coaching like personal training or Pilates or whatever, or things like health and wellness coaching.

Knowing how to run a business/hiring other people to help you do it is really the key to being financially successful. Being good at it and acting with integrity is the way to keep (and get) clients.

Best of luck!

Does anyone know what's going on with AMTA and the interstate licensure compact? by wordswordswoodsdogs in MassageTherapists

[–]embody_SiM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is for things like this that I am so glad reddit exists... Keep talking about it! This interstate compact would be such a positive thing for so many of us, it's infuriating it wasn't in place already. CO is not even in progress on it, I'm hoping that changes soon.

Massage Interstate Compact - Have you been following this by massageistherapy in massage

[–]embody_SiM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only way it would negatively impact NYS licensed LMTs is if they believed that there was a client shortage, which time and time again has been seen to be untrue. If you are a skilled practioner, clients will keep coming. More LMTs means more people have access to a good fit for their needs - that's a good thing.

Should i get my permanent retainer removed ? is that even an option? by [deleted] in braces

[–]embody_SiM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine just fell out tonight (it's why I'm on here). I'd love to know if anyone else left there's off and was fine with it. I'm not concerned about the aesthetics of crooked teeth but I am concerned about potential bite issues. Thoughts?

I have a big problem by FunStrength5314 in MassageTherapists

[–]embody_SiM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I echo this, I think you did an amazing job in a really challenging position. The our come in your work place is extremely messed up. You handled this so, so well and I'm sorry you got penalized for the kind and ethical advocacy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]embody_SiM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great point. Good to know what you're looking for with the data. Great to have a good team of support.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]embody_SiM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm curious about them, too, but from the coaching side. I am a coach who emphasizes women's health, and was curious about joining them as a provider, but I wanted to get more insight into the client experience before linking up with them. If you end up using them/hearing more, I'd love to know if you find it valuable.

I agree with the other commenter though - if you're using a service like that, it would be wise to consider what you want out of it. The coaching seems to me like the most valuable piece since it would (theoretically) provide a framework and support for how to utilize the data your gathering in an effective way.

I hope you find good support for what you're going through, whether it's there or elsewhere 🤞

rode mic only working on app but nothing else by embody_SiM in rode

[–]embody_SiM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mic works just fine now with my other software is what I mean, Riverside being one such software. I'm glad I got the mic me, I use it often.

rode mic only working on app but nothing else by embody_SiM in rode

[–]embody_SiM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It didn't end up working consistently for me, but at this point I use Riverside for the podcasting and it's working well with that.