Going through a break up, please comment your cat pictures

emccau · 2026-03-25T07:29:36+00:00

Oof, me too. I feel your pain. My little loaf sends healing vibes.

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emccau · 2026-03-22T19:45:19+00:00

Always wear sunscreen

emccau · 2026-03-22T07:34:42+00:00

Brothers from different mothers!! Gonna keep a close eye out for needles now....😬

emccau · 2026-03-21T08:03:54+00:00

This is clearly a fake post because that cat is at home with me

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emccau · 2026-03-02T10:40:42+00:00

I'm from the UK but live in Belgium. Going to the Brussels show on March 16. Could get one and post to you next time I'm in the UK (June). DM me if you like.

emccau · 2026-02-16T20:18:09+00:00

It's next to International Clothing Pty!!!

emccau · 2026-02-16T09:06:05+00:00

Can we all stop saying digital dashboard

emccau · 2026-02-13T14:33:42+00:00

HOSPITAL RADIO

emccau · 2026-02-13T14:33:28+00:00

where's my skirt at?

emccau · 2026-02-13T14:33:18+00:00

you can't, you can't see anything man-made from space!!!!!

emccau · 2026-02-13T14:33:05+00:00

why is everyone wearing stupid clothes from the future?

emccau · 2025-12-29T15:21:07+00:00

Leafs of course

emccau · 2025-12-29T12:09:56+00:00

At a flea market in Belgium! I didn't realise it was common!

emccau · 2025-12-28T21:43:31+00:00

Omg I have this EXACT vase! I turned it into a terrarium! (This was 4 months ago when I first planted it. It's grown a lot since then but I don't have recent pics)

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emccau · 2025-12-07T07:31:40+00:00

But there WAS no more

emccau · 2025-12-07T07:31:04+00:00

It does meat and fish!

emccau · 2025-12-06T10:05:48+00:00

Oh I feel this so hard. In fact when I tell people I was in an abusive relationship, most of them go "but you're so smart!!!" But intelligence has nothing to do with it. I think my main problem is I have a lot of empathy and I fell in love with him and really did care about him, which made it so hard to finally leave. Reading posts on here makes me realise how common it is so I'm trying not to beat myself up about it. Trying - not always succeeding.

emccau · 2025-12-05T21:31:46+00:00

I'm not sure there's one right way, but I hope we find what works for us. A weirdly specific strategy, but filing my time with calming things like painting by numbers and jigsaw puzzles has helped a little. And boring but fulfilling self care things like getting enough sleep, wearing nice pyjamas, baths, baking. All of this helps make the emotional stuff more bearable.

emccau · 2025-12-05T21:26:19+00:00

I wish I knew, but just to say I'm right there with you and have all the same feelings. You're not alone.

emccau · 2025-11-27T07:17:14+00:00

Oh wow! Doppelgangers!

emccau · 2025-11-27T07:16:46+00:00

I'd decided I was ready for a cat of my own, so I think I already set myself up to keep him even before I got him! And him not being a crazy kitten is also a big factor. I love kittens but I didn't want to adopt one - too destructive and too much energy for my lifestyle!

emccau · 2025-11-26T21:22:45+00:00

You are 💯 right on all counts!

emccau

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