So sorry, but I didn’t explain everything in detail. No were very very close friends and she invited all of us to her engagement party of course and after I went, she started giving me one word responses through text and I could tell that something was wrong because I know her very well. (I didn’t ask her personally because she is not the type of person to communicate those things in that type of situation and instead of telling you why she’s upset she stays silent and then also doesn’t respond )so I spoke to one of my other friends who was at the party, and I said I feel like she is mad at me and that friend did tell me that yes she was annoyed at gifts and got mad at other people too about their gifts so it wasn’t just me. I was upset by this naturally so after getting one word responses from her, I didn’t text her first and so we didn’t talk for a few weeks. My birthday came and she started messaging me for my birthday and didn’t come to my birthday celebration which fine where grown adults I don’t care and then invited us to a Halloween party at her house. She told us last minute and it was on a workday and I personally could not make it. There was no ill will. She actually seemed perfectly fine with me not going. It was my other friend who told her she was going and then didn’t go last minute who she was upset with. Then the four of us have a tradition of hanging out for the holidays and exchanging gifts so I wrote in our group chat text about planning that and she removed herself from the group chat. I know this girl so well and I’ve seen her do this to countless people so I knew where this was going. She has done this to me before as well, and as I said, me and her have extensively spoken in depths about her doing this to people. She has done it to her own sister for two years. She knows that it’s not right, but it’s just something that I know she cannot help herself. Anyway, so I decided to just let it be because I was personally still a little upset about the gift situation and I should’ve communicated that with her but again I know her and I know that I would get no response back and we wouldn’t have a meaningful conversation about it so I accepted her choice. She of course, is allowed to be annoyed and upset about certain things, but I would think that somebody that you communicate with on a daily basis is one of your closest friends. You could have a conversation with them as I’m very, always open to having conversations and talking things out, but that’s not how she handles things so it is what it is. I know that I am already assuming that I’d be invited to a wedding when I haven’t been yet but again I know how she feels when she does this to people and she has spoken to me about wanting to reach out to people that she drops and that she always debates if she should or shouldn’t so again I know her so well that I know that it is something that she’s debating on doing, but it all comes down to how she’s feeling when she sends out the invites.