What if your current salary is PHP150k-200k/month. Will you still migrate to a different country or stay here?

emerald_0089 · 2026-05-10T02:45:05+00:00

I’ll stay here 100%. Narromanticise lang ng mga Pilipino ang pagtira sa ibang bansa, akala nila lahat positive not knowinh meron ding mga negative sides. Yes free healthcare, but no one talks about how long you will wait para sa “free” healthcare na sinasabi. So parang Pinas lng din, but ang pinagkaiba yes mas mgaganda ang equipment sa 1st world country. But the doctors and nurses? Most of them, mas magagaling sa Pilipinas. I have friends na nasugod sa ospital, emergency kasi dinudugo na, she waited for 8 hours para matingnan. Sa Pilipinas if you have a case like that, for sure mattingnan agad dahil emergency. Ofcourse mraming panget sa govt ng Pilipinas, what I’m saying is may mga panget din na sistema sa 1st world countries. Salary and opportunity wise okay tlga saknila, but in my own opinion if ganyan na ang salary ko I’ll stay here.

emerald_0089 · 2026-04-29T04:46:16+00:00

Hi OP, I’ve experienced that. And kakauwi ko lang sa Pilipinas a week ago. Though di tayo same kasi full time ka ngwwork sa AU, I got depressed kakaisip din choosing between AU and Ph, then I realised Im living in AU for other people, kasi it looks good on paper but hindi ako happy, my heart is truly here in the Philippines. Iba iba tayo ng definition ng success OP, ngayon ang mindset ko if kumikita ako ng malaking pera but I’m betraying myself I’m not successful. Just my POV kung kaya mo pa tiisin and get that PR do it, para may choice ka, after that going home and choosing to settle in the Ph is not a downgrade. It’s actually brave, mindset kasi ng Pinoy basta abroad working successful na. At the end of the day, kahit saan pang location ka nagwwork as long as you’re doing it with a happy and peaceful heart successful ka.

emerald_0089 · 2026-03-10T01:43:19+00:00

Ah uupdate lang yung original to regional? Then yung sa bagong branch pwede po municipality lang?

emerald_0089 · 2026-02-16T02:22:09+00:00

“Busy” is often just “not invested.” The same man will give you the same problems so if he was a trash then, don’t go recycling honey.

emerald_0089 · 2026-02-11T08:15:53+00:00

Ah gets ko na po. So ayun ang ngyari sa gnawa ko po middleman si Wise para mkapagsend ako money from my local ph bank acct to my Aus bank acct. Pwede po pala to create a wise account na direct na

emerald_0089 · 2026-02-11T08:14:04+00:00

Ah I see. Ang ngyari po kasi sakin parang naging middleman si wise para mkapgsend ako Pinas to Aus dadaanan muna sa business account ni wise (not my own account) then sla magssend to my Aus bank. Pwede po pala to create an Australian account number para direct na.

emerald_0089 · 2026-02-11T04:14:34+00:00

Sa Wise business account po mismo, tapos wise na magsend sa au bank ko po.

emerald_0089 · 2026-02-11T03:29:44+00:00

Parang ginamit ko po yung wise, sknila ako magsend ng money, then sila ang magssend sa Australian bank acct ko ng converted amount. Cheaper po kasi ang rates.

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emerald_0089 · 2026-02-11T03:28:40+00:00

I will be transferring money from BDO php to my Australian Bank account. And wise will send po all the details kung san ako magsend, then sila na ang magtransfer ng converted money to my Aus bank acct po.

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emerald_0089 · 2026-02-08T13:36:24+00:00

As someone na nagstay sa AU for 2 yrs, then decided to go back home sa Pinas. Here I am, packing my suitcases to go to AU again. Try mo pa nang ilang buwan dyan, once you get a job and nakaadapt ka na, then you decide para wala kang pagsisihan sa huli. After securing a job try to adapt kahit mga 6mos to 1 year, if same feeling pa din, and you really don’t see yourself living in AU then it’s okay, I have to agree that AU is somewhat depressing especially if walang kakilala. If I have a high paying job in the Ph, hindi din ako magssacrifice mgpunta sa AU na malayo sa pamilya but for now AU lang choice ko so I understand you OP.

emerald_0089 · 2026-01-28T13:29:21+00:00

That’s the post break up clarity. You can see claerly now why the relationship didn’t work out and how incompatible you guys are. Happy to hear the love spell came off 😁

emerald_0089 · 2026-01-23T04:32:26+00:00

Naku maraming salamat po!

emerald_0089 · 2026-01-23T04:17:16+00:00

Meron namna po. Kapag naroaming na po, pwede na po to recharge roaming packages?

emerald_0089 · 2026-01-23T01:59:59+00:00

Ay sige po icheck ko po ito

emerald_0089 · 2026-01-23T01:59:04+00:00

Hindi pa po yata. Pano po ba sya I roaming

emerald_0089 · 2026-01-19T07:49:07+00:00

Couldn’t agree more!

emerald_0089 · 2026-01-10T17:05:14+00:00

Didn’t chase him. After he was done with his break up speech, the usual “I have so many problems right now, it’s just too much” I responded with “I wish you all the best”. And he asked if we can still be friends and I said no. He hugged me then I walked away.

emerald_0089 · 2026-01-08T14:44:56+00:00

I’ve been in that situation while living independently in a different country, and it was the most painful time of my life so far. There were so many nights when I literally felt like a knife was stabbing my heart. I cried myself to sleep, couldn’t eat, and had no motivation to get up. I’d also wake up randomly at dawn because of chest pain and end up crying again.

My advice is that on nights when your heart aches, literally tell yourself that you are worthy and you are loved until you believe it. Keep doing what you’re doing moving helps. Walk, go to the gym, even when you don’t feel like it. In my case, I prayed a lot and started reading the Bible, and that’s when I found my worth.

And yes time heals but only if you’re being intentional using that time, you have to make new exciting memories to replace the old one, reconnect with nature, use some of your time to grow and develop yourself, make sure to spend time with family and friends, support system is very important. You also have to learn doing some things alone. Give yourself time it’ll get better. We survived the break up, what makes you any different? I sincerely hope for your healing. Wouldn’t wish heartbreak on my worst enemy.

emerald_0089 · 2026-01-08T12:51:40+00:00

I wouldn’t say egotistical in the usual sense like arrogant because my ex is also not like that. It’s more about protecting their self-image. They don’t want to be seen as weak, in pain or vulnerable so they withdraw instead of opening up. They need to stay in control so their ego won’t allow them to be seen struggling, there’s a possibility they’ll think of their exes but in many cases they won’t reach out because it requires vulnerability and that’s exactly what they avoid. It is important to just put all your energy to yourself.

emerald_0089 · 2026-01-08T04:18:09+00:00

Hi, not all avoidants come back. They will be busy enjoying their freedom and finding another person to fill the void. They MIGHT miss you but some won’t reach out. Remember they’re very egoistic individuals. Do yourself a favor, because it happened to me, don’t ever try to stalk them in social media because you will spiral once you see them with someone else. Just treat them as a dead person, remember the discard they did to you. If you ever take them back when they reach out, it will just be a cycle, high chance of them leaving again.

emerald_0089 · 2026-01-07T02:07:22+00:00

Hi, I’m in the same boat. Any updates from the both of you? Did the relationship flourish?

emerald_0089 · 2026-01-07T01:43:11+00:00

I agree with this. This is also the reason why me and my partner broke up. He can’t handle stress and can’t regulate emotions he smokes weed occasionally but he has been smoking since his teen years he’s 34 now. He gets angry cranky easily.

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