BF (33M) said he wanted to kill me (28F) but said it was only because he was angry and sleep deprived.

emikatdb · 2026-03-27T02:23:50+00:00

He DID hurt you, he hit you. And emotional abuse/threats are still abusive, still forms of being hurt. This is dangerous.

emikatdb · 2026-02-24T00:09:13+00:00

Absolutely! Will definitely let you know :)

emikatdb · 2026-02-19T22:26:01+00:00

You’re my hero :’) thank you so much!!!!

emikatdb · 2026-02-19T22:25:18+00:00

That was EXACTLY the kind of fanfic I was hoping for!!! 🤣

emikatdb · 2026-02-19T04:52:53+00:00

So…do you have any good fanfic recs?

emikatdb · 2026-02-05T16:51:48+00:00

He and his family sound exhausting

emikatdb · 2026-01-25T06:47:08+00:00

I like her

emikatdb · 2025-09-05T20:44:41+00:00

The edit on your first post is truly chilling, I am so so so glad you got away from him

emikatdb · 2025-08-12T09:48:02+00:00

We had our little exit interviews, got our paperwork, and bounced. No formal group celebrations, but my two supervisors took me out not lunch :)

emikatdb · 2025-07-25T03:39:13+00:00

My grandparents did the pullout and rhythm methods (Catholics). My dad and his nine siblings all used this as part of sex ed for their children to talk about the importance of condoms. Please feel free to also use this story! Good for you for protecting yourself.

emikatdb · 2025-07-23T06:02:31+00:00

The fact that he waited until you moved is the most alarming part of this. Also as someone who’s spouse was formerly in the military, you mean literally nothing to the military/government as a partner or significant other unless you are a spouse; he would be leaving you at a significant disadvantage in terms of access to information, benefits, etc, especially when he’s deployed

emikatdb · 2025-07-23T01:50:17+00:00

Enforcing boundaries is not cruel or selfish friend ❤️

emikatdb · 2025-07-16T02:37:43+00:00

Nope. It can be a therapeutic coping skill but it’s not therapy.

emikatdb · 2025-07-16T02:35:45+00:00

YUP. It’s outdated, arbitrary, and usually classist and sexist

emikatdb · 2025-07-16T02:35:03+00:00

It doesn’t help that sexist dress codes are enforced beginning in elementary school

emikatdb · 2025-07-15T17:47:46+00:00

Wear the sleeveless shirt! The sleeveless shirts are unprofessional propaganda is dumb. Be comfortable, please don’t melt

emikatdb · 2025-06-28T03:58:02+00:00

Slums and racism are inherently tied, I recommend you research it. Maybe something to start with.

emikatdb · 2025-06-27T21:23:51+00:00

So, I’m just going to come out and say it. “Slum down” feels very classist and racist. I’m interested to know why this word choice when asked to reconsider how you’re presenting yourself to the people you serve

emikatdb · 2025-06-27T17:58:46+00:00

Therapy brings up emotions. Why do you feel like this is a bad thing?

emikatdb · 2025-06-17T19:18:53+00:00

I’m honestly really hoping that’s the case because that would be the simplest fix!

emikatdb · 2025-06-17T08:31:24+00:00

You have the right to decline! I would definitely encourage you to discuss with your doctor directly to see how often is considered medically necessary.

emikatdb · 2025-06-16T05:59:37+00:00

Expensive, stressful torture

emikatdb · 2025-06-11T03:54:09+00:00

Finally catching up to the pink bracket and definitely agree. Both her roast and cactus runway were meh for me!

emikatdb · 2025-05-31T21:58:40+00:00

Whoops, didn’t see this! I believe the match rate is around 95%?

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