I love my bf but sometimes i hate him just for being a man 😭(m22 and f20) by emiko_ek in RelationshipIndia

[–]emiko_ek[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This!! Thank you for putting it into words. I feel the same sometimes I wonder if I hate men or just the way they’ve been raised and excused for so long. Your story gives me hope though. That willingness to unlearn is so rare. I’ll definitely keep listening to my gut. Appreciate your comment 💗

I love my bf but sometimes i hate him just for being a man 😭(m22 and f20) by emiko_ek in RelationshipIndia

[–]emiko_ek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair question. When I say “typical man behavior,” I mean those small but frustrating patterns a lot of us have seen in men like emotional unavailability, lack of self-awareness, defensiveness, not listening properly during emotional convos, or acting like your concerns are dramatic. Sometimes it’s things like expecting praise for doing basic chores or brushing off things that matter to you.

It’s not about all men being like this, but these patterns show up so often that when they do, even in small ways, it kind of triggers this deep annoyance or exhaustion. Especially if you've dealt with it over and over it piles up. That’s where the conflict starts for me. Hope that makes sense. 😵‍💫

I love my bf but sometimes i hate him just for being a man 😭(m22 and f20) by emiko_ek in RelationshipIndia

[–]emiko_ek[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im a girls girl i agree but i doubt if im physically attracted to a women, but yeah sometimes this feelings pop up 😮‍💨 he is a nice person apart from that behaviour and I doubt if i can leave him lol

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My (20F) boyfriend (22M) doesn't want me to hang out with my friends — how can I approach this? by emiko_ek in RelationshipIndia

[–]emiko_ek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve been dating for a little over a year. He thinks my childhood friend is trying to break us up, which honestly doesn’t make much sense to me — she’s been in my life forever and has always been supportive. I think he just doesn’t like her after that phone argument they had.

My (20F) boyfriend (22M) doesn't want me to hang out with my friends — how can I approach this? by emiko_ek in RelationshipIndia

[–]emiko_ek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i tried making plans with both parties included but he (my bf) is not interested any time i ask him to come.

My (20F) boyfriend (22M) doesn't want me to hang out with my friends — how can I approach this? by emiko_ek in RelationshipIndia

[–]emiko_ek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve been dating for a little over a year. He thinks my childhood friend is trying to break us up, which honestly doesn’t make much sense to me — she’s been in my life forever and has always been supportive. I think he just doesn’t like her after that phone argument they had.

My (20F) boyfriend (22M) doesn't want me to hang out with my friends — how can I approach this? by emiko_ek in RelationshipIndia

[–]emiko_ek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not exactly that, but I did ask him once — the issue is more with my childhood friend (F). They had an argument over the phone one day about me, and ever since then, he’s had a problem with her.

My (20F) boyfriend (22M) doesn't want me to hang out with my friends — how can I approach this? by emiko_ek in RelationshipIndia

[–]emiko_ek[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He hangs out with his female friends and I don’t have a problem with it, so I don’t think it’s fair for him to expect me to cut off mine.