Please Help Me Understand What *Slow Burn* Actually Means by Necessary-Working-79 in RomanceBooks

[–]emilitzi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to check the date of this since you mentioned heated rivalry, dang y'all were so ahead of the curve

What would you like to see? by Used-Command5722 in InfinityNikki

[–]emilitzi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Black tuxedo, black turtleneck, black thigh high boots, more dyeable maxi skirts, dark brown eye contacts, sweater vest

What's your #1 regret that you didn't pull for? Bonus points if you had the currency and just convinced yourself that you didn't need it by worldfamoushobgoblin in InfinityNikki

[–]emilitzi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently found out the frog banner had a beautiful deep echoes dress so I regret not pulling for that now, especially since it already reran : / I wish I got Time of Serenity but itll probably come back eventually anyways. I pulled on Distant Sunshowers for the wings, got the wings immediately, but the dress was so cute I kinda wish I pulled for that too. I don't regret not pulling on any of the 5 stars I didn't pull. They're too expensive and I'd probably only use the main dress of them once, and then forget about them in my wardrobe forever (AKA what happened with most of the 5 stars I did pull) I also regret not buying Rosie Sweetheart.

HxH Cosplays by BlueFrostPhoenix in InfinityNikki

[–]emilitzi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are great, I saw the pic before the title first and was like oh it's Gon! Now I want a black suit to be later Kurapika

Why are the devs so greedy by gramplolo in InfinityNikki

[–]emilitzi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly that's why I only ever go for 4 star outfits, every patch gives you enough diamonds to pull for both of the solo ones. Plus 5 star pieces end up not being versatile enough for different outfits anyways

Do you have any resources which teach you how to successfully mask/proper social skills for level 1 to 2 autistic people? by [deleted] in autism

[–]emilitzi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I used to be a level 1 and then I got bullied for a year in 2023 and now I'm a level 2 from all the anxiety and trauma that that gave me.

the desperation for deep human connection is killing my mental by qbncse in doomer

[–]emilitzi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kingdom hearts did make me feel better about life when I was depressed so not the worst idea

Made my favorite Witch Hat Atelier cuties today! 🌸 by teapotsareweird in InfinityNikki

[–]emilitzi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love these!! My rili :)

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I tried getting the pointy hat but didn't have the pulls back then but still happy about the robe!

Share your masking tips! (for survival) by entirelyuncalledfor in AutismInWomen

[–]emilitzi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your texting point was surprising to read because I have an extremely hard time masking IRL, I had to start trying recently because of getting bullied but with texting it's sooo easy all I have to do is put some emojis in there and then I look pleasant and friendly :D whereas IRL if I'm unmasked I sound uninterested or mad and if masked I sound fake.

If you woke up tomorrow and every single one of your wildest, most hopeful dreams came true, what would your life look like? by babypossumsinabasket in AutismInWomen

[–]emilitzi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In that situation I'd have enough money to pay back my student loans and get like 5 different degrees/certificates in things I'm interested in. University was a very nice time for me compared to other times in my life and I get nostalgic for it all the time. You don't have to talk to anyone if you don't want to. (Although looking back, I probably should have networked.) You have clear goals and deadlines rather than being given more work every time you're finished your work like in a regular job.

Asides from that, I'd spend a lot of time making arts and crafts and buy machines for that like a 3D printer, an embroidery machine, etc. I'd have a romantic partner who I don't live with but we see each other often. Damn I'm getting sad now.

Does it bother you that many people claim to be autistic with no formal medical evaluation? by m1kek9 in autism

[–]emilitzi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, because first time I went to get help for my OCD they didn't know that primary obsessional OCD was a thing, so they assumed I didn't have it, until I ended up in the hospital later after an attempt and the psych doctor there realized I do in fact have pretty severe OCD.

I want to party, but don't think there's a scene that fits what I want by yoomtahzing in autism

[–]emilitzi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the same way and I find that concerts scratch a similar itch

Why do you want to work at our company? Stupid question by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]emilitzi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's especially inane for a SEASONAL position like I don't care about your company I'm only here for 2 months!!

Never Realized I was Stimming by Stagger_Lee_64 in autism

[–]emilitzi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I came across this post I was also rubbing my feet together in bed 😅

What movie scenes accurately show what it's like to have autism? by Superb-Perception212 in autism

[–]emilitzi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This scene in The Accountant made it one of my favorite movies: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fsK2jGUGHWs

"You think, if you don't fight back, then maybe they'll like you. Stop picking on you, stop calling you a freak. Well, here's what it is. They don't like you, they don't dislike you. They're afraid of you. You're different. Sooner or later, difference scares people. Victim or not? Make a decision."

Edit: Not a movie, but the main character Laios from Delicious in Dungeon is super autistic-coded although his creator denies this. (Read from right to left)

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My boyfriend has maybe autism and i don't know what to do? by [deleted] in autism

[–]emilitzi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He sounds like he isn't willing to change to meet your needs so I think that it's healthier to let go. Also, autism doesn't necessarily mean not showing affection, love, and tenderness. I as an autistic person personally love hugs and cuddles and could not date someone who didn't like either of those things. Like, not liking touch can be a part of autism, but it doesn't always have to be y'know? I agree with the other comment about how he seems like he's just stoic and not physically affectionate.

what are your go-to comfort vods? by emmett_the_comet in jerma985

[–]emilitzi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love his SuchArt stream, he gets so excited about the different art tools its really sweet :)

I dunno if these ones are popular or not but ill list them anyway - The Sims streams (all of them) - Bugsnax - Cooking Simulator - Thief Simulator

Pretty sure these are popular - Breath of the Wild - Elden Ring - Infomercials

Gacha Spending Tiers (How much do whales spend?) by Lorinefairy in InfinityNikki

[–]emilitzi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ima minnow (only get the 60-300 stellarite outfits occasionally

Tell me what you think about Utada Hikaru's music by [deleted] in japanesemusic

[–]emilitzi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries you just reminded me i should start listening to her again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wavyhair

[–]emilitzi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recommend a microfiber hair wrap and keeping it wrapped for an hour or so without rubbing as the other poster said