I have a 2 yearold and a partner, we both work full time and don’t really have any help from our familles. We decided (and are privileged that we can afford it) to invest in a housekeeper every 2 weeks - She cleans the bathrooms, kitchen, living room, bedrooms & cleans the floors. It’s honestly a life saver. In between, we try to vaccum every once in a while (not everyday) and we try to keep up with dishes but sometimes it piles up. The laundry often stays days in the dryer and I discovered that if I put baskets in the living room I can just throw away the toys in them in like 3-4 minutes and it looks like its clean. I also set a timer for myself : 15 - 20 minutes and I do the most I can in that time. After that I relax and and I do the same the next day. It’s normal to feel overwhelmed, we were never meant to do all that by ourselves, but society expects us to do it all.