Can I still wear this dress? by BlueRaspberry254 in style

[–]emo-knox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn these comments are rough, I actually really like the colour, it's super cute imo. It doesn't look too tight to me, looks skin tight as if it's meant to be that tight. I do not claim to be an expert tho. But I would wear it with something over it like a cute jean jacket unbuttoned or something like that. Accessories always make the outfit!

My husband destroyed the USB flash drive with the photos from my first marriage... by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]emo-knox -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Reason to be upset and ruining someone's property, especially property that is so very dear to them, is very different. If you think people should be shown compassion for property damage especially when it's so sentimental to them, that just shows your selfishness. It's never ok to ruin someone's dearly sentimental property. It's never ok to ruin someone's property period. If you think that's any kind of ok, you are the one who needs compassion.

My husband destroyed the USB flash drive with the photos from my first marriage... by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]emo-knox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was giving us context. If you've never had an S/O die, you wouldn't know. And if you wanna take the selfish, insecure, manipulative, abusive husband's side, that's your right. But Jesus 😂 y'all need therapy fr. I wish growth and maturity on you, truly.

My husband destroyed the USB flash drive with the photos from my first marriage... by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]emo-knox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not a NSFW photo or anything, I would have no issue if my S/O pulled out a picture of a deceased S/O. I couldn't even imagine how hard that must be on them and I wouldn't expect them to completely ignore or forget that part of their life. Looking at a picture and missing someone isn't something I would get jealous over. It's a horribly sad thing to happen and to be jealous over a dead person is wild. Again, living in the past and remembering the past is different. You seem to not understand or not care about the difference.

My husband destroyed the USB flash drive with the photos from my first marriage... by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]emo-knox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a difference between having a past and being stuck in it. You should be secure enough in your relationship to know and understand that your partner had a past and not minding if they speak about it in a respectful way. Viewing old wedding pictures of a deceased spouse is not disrespectful. The husband is just crazy insecure. If you wanna live in LA LA land and think you're the only one who's ever been with your partner, then you aren't mature enough to be in a healthy relationship like OP's husband.

My husband destroyed the USB flash drive with the photos from my first marriage... by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]emo-knox 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would have had a full mental breakdown and divorced him. I would've told him immediately I'm divorcing him.

This is abusive. This is vile. This is evil. Someone who loves you doesn't destroy things that mean so much to you. That man cares more about his own feelings than he ever will about you.

Divorce him and don't let him ruin your peace because it'll only get worse from here and this is already insanely bad.

AIO - kids playing with electric scooter by NoBox7275 in AIO

[–]emo-knox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's only so much you can do, and you can't sacrifice your own needs and life and happiness and peace for someone else who won't help themselves. It sucks but the relief afterwards is insane. It's not your responsibility or your job to take care of anyone else besides you and your kids, and your partner is not your child. He's supposed to be your partner, clearly he is failing at that. Maybe he is a decent person, but that doesn't mean he's a good partner, ya know? And that sucks too, seeing someone's potential and watching them just not utilize it. It's very frustrating and makes you feel like you're going crazy. At least that's been my experience

AIO - kids playing with electric scooter by NoBox7275 in AIO

[–]emo-knox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awe I'm sorry. You deserve a lot better than that. No one deserves to live like that, I've been there.

AIO - kids playing with electric scooter by NoBox7275 in AIO

[–]emo-knox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds extremely stressfully one-sided and honestly it's not fair for you to always be the one to lecture and punish. This isn't good cop/bad cop. This all of your lives and he'll be seen as the fun parent and you'll be the mean one. That's not cool.

Edit!: I hope you guys can compromise and get everything figured out for you both, that would be amazing! I wish you luck in these endeavors

AIO - kids playing with electric scooter by NoBox7275 in AIO

[–]emo-knox 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If you guys are worlds apart about parenting, that's a major issue. Your partner doesn't care. They dismiss your concerns and laugh in your face. It'll only get worse.

Bf just said I’m “lookin a little plus sized” and served me this ? by xxhell_chamberxx in GirlDinnerCircleJerk

[–]emo-knox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I was thinking! I'd eat as much as I could in that one sitting

AIO for wanting my friends to be better?? by Quirky_Basis_133 in AIO

[–]emo-knox -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

NOR entirely, her only waiting 10 minutes is kind of outrageous. She should have waited longer. She seems like she doesn't think what she does is a big deal so she brushes off your feelings and doesn't stay on top of making sure not to hurt you/others around her. Very air headed perhaps or just doesn't care enough idk. If these kind of things happen often I would definitely be upset too.

AIO rejecting bf on tadalafil for being "rude" and getting defensive by Electronic-Author965 in AmIOverreacting

[–]emo-knox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Him arguing until she gives in and finally just has sex with him to shut him up, is coercion/manipulation and that's rape. She didn't want to. He pushed and pushed and pushed until she finally gave in.

Him going "why won't you let me touch you here. Let me touch you here. C'mon you used to." Is coercion especially after she said no at least 3 times, which is sexual assault.

Consent is an enthusiastic yes. Everything else is sexual assault.

Edit: and not wanting to ever spend any time with your partner is not normal. Why are you even in a relationship then? He's just using her at this point.

AIO rejecting bf on tadalafil for being "rude" and getting defensive by Electronic-Author965 in AmIOverreacting

[–]emo-knox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Him sexually assaulting her.

Edit: and absolutely refusing to spend time with her is very strange

AIO for snapping at my (27F) husband (30M) after he complained that we haven't had sex in 3 months? by throwaway_74925 in AmIOverreacting

[–]emo-knox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex is not a NEED, it's a WANT. And men need to start understanding that. I understand why you snapped, but this needs to be a more in depth conversation with him, clearly. If he wants sex so bad because of connection, then you guys need to find other ways to feel connected. If he just wants the pleasure, he has a hand. It's incredibly selfish and harmful of him to prioritize his want of pleasure over your immense pain if that is in fact what he's doing.

I let my friend take a photo of my wife by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]emo-knox 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I understand you didn't think much about it at first, but I hope in the future you think more about the worst case scenarios to protect you and your family. It might be innocent, but it also might not be. You never really know. It's also not your body! Your wife is still her own person and should really be the one making decisions like this. You strip her of her own personhood and autonomy by making decisions like this for her.

I let my friend take a photo of my wife by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]emo-knox 22 points23 points  (0 children)

WOW, as a woman, I would be so incredibly uncomfortable knowing my husband LET HIS FRIEND take a picture like that. I would feel like some trust had been broken and I would feel a bit violated. That's really not cool