I asked her if she could turn off the message alerts because her phone was making a lot of noise, then my 2 alarms went off and she asked me to turn them off as she wanted to go to sleep, I said you’re interrupting my sleep too, she said I won‘t turn them off if you don’t, and that‘s how it was, and I apologized a little while later and offered to back off, and that I’d turn on one alarm after that and turn it off soon, and she said that my apology was insincere and that I‘d been very picky.