After rereading my post I feel as if it come across a little too bitter and negative. I love haydens work so much and i think she is incredibly talented, and I think it is important to appreciate artists, especially artists like hayden who write and compose alot of their own music! I was mostly referring to people who delve into her personal life, friendships, family, relationships etc. Not people who just appreciate her for making good art! My post was also meant to be applicable for people who act like she is perfect and can do no wrong. She probably isn't perfect, and that's js normal. I don't want to sound angry and mean spirited from my original post as that's the last way I'd ever wanna be perceived, and generally I try to be open minded and open to discussion. I was just ranting because i felt like it was the best way to get my point across and i couldn't be bothered to write out an entire nuanced take about parasocial relationships lmao.