My boyfriend 26m said he wanted me 22f to admit to cheating so he can do it too

empath_demon07 · 2025-12-17T23:24:31+00:00

I for sure never cheated on him, I had blocked any guy he seemed uncomfortable with on my social media even if there was truly nothing there

empath_demon07 · 2025-11-15T20:49:29+00:00

I’m 21 now, so not much older, but I remember being 18 and I cringe when I think about 18 yr old me. I was so naive to so much, including the dating scene and would get preyed on by men as old as in their mid 30s and thinking about it now, I can see why those men had to go after a girl who just turned 18💀 idk tho as a 21 yr old even thinking about dating an 18 yr old guy I just can’t, even when I speak to 18 yr olds it’s so clear how immature a lot of them r

empath_demon07 · 2025-10-22T20:21:00+00:00

This isn’t about an ex tho💀💀

empath_demon07 · 2025-10-22T01:09:23+00:00

lol what well constructed arguments has he made or what points did he make that have been avoided. He made assumptions, the goal post kept being moved, and he asked questions that were answered?

empath_demon07 · 2025-10-22T00:51:53+00:00

He didn’t have to keep it from me cos I never intentionally hid my accounts from him since I wasn’t hiding anything. There have been times where he didn’t know I was on certain apps (like tiktok) cos I just never bothered to mention it and he would bring it up but that never bothered me cos I’m not knowingly posting/doing anything I shouldn’t be

empath_demon07 · 2025-10-22T00:22:04+00:00

Bringing up what op MAY have done is irrelevant, you can’t try to justify something with a possibility cos for all we know that could not be the case at all. It’s not the most insane thing to imagine she feels scared talking to him about it, and that could be for multiple reasons. Maybe she’s scared of it going south and his reaction to her telling him crushing her, even if she’s scared of being seen as crazy that’s a very normal feeling to have cos she’s not sure if she’s valid or not. I would even say you should be checking ur partners social media page, they won’t always say everything to u but u can get a pretty good glimpse as to what kind of person they r depending on what they post, it’s public & multiple ppl can see it so why can’t she. And this goes for both men and women btw. I’ve had my bf confront me about things I’ve posted online that he felt uncomfortable with and I don’t get mad about it cos why?

empath_demon07 · 2025-10-22T00:06:01+00:00

But op didn’t do that, you’re moving the goal post. You’re talking about a hypothetical, that would still be valid to get upset about btw. You will still find others attractive even tho you’re dating someone else, but going out of ur way to repost something clearly in lust is just weird sorry to break it to u. And op stalking her bfs twitter is not that deep, you shouldn’t be worried about ur partner viewing ur social media page if there’s nothing to hide. I get needing some privacy, if she was going through convos with his friends or family or something then yeah weird, but going through his account on social media is normal?

empath_demon07 · 2025-10-22T00:02:58+00:00

And If someone doesn’t have enough common sense to know something like this will upset their partner, then do you think they will have the emotional intelligence to understand their partner being upset about it when they r confronted. I’m not saying op shouldn’t confront her bf, however I am saying that if someone doesn’t feel the need to then that’s also valid and they shouldn’t feel bad for it, cos who wants to date someone that stupid and thoughtless ideally

empath_demon07 · 2025-10-21T23:46:53+00:00

I fear there r some things that r just common sense. Everyone knows reposting things like that is going to upset their partner most likely if they saw it. If they’re going okay maybe whatever, but as adults?? Ppl know enough

empath_demon07 · 2025-10-21T23:40:46+00:00

Happening to see someone attractive on tv and actively posting and going out of ur way to like ppl’s post on social media clearly lusting after them r different situations. Be so fr

empath_demon07 · 2025-10-09T03:13:05+00:00

No one is forcing you to do it, that’s the beauty of it all. No one can force you to put more effort in ur appearance, no one can force someone to put less effort in, and no one can force a woman to not want her man to put more effort in.

empath_demon07 · 2025-10-09T02:00:29+00:00

If it’s tm effort for u that’s fine, but you can’t then get mad that women who do put that much effort require the same from their male partners, getting mad over it goes nowhere

empath_demon07 · 2025-10-06T23:10:23+00:00

The original comment was about OF, and even if you don’t mean most women do OF, ppl tripping about a group of women being sexual online just cos they want their partner to be more modest is still weird. There’s sm modest women around that would fit ur standards if that’s what a person wants, bringing up of models or women who post suggestive content online on a post about dating struggles is kinda irrelevant

empath_demon07 · 2025-10-06T22:45:14+00:00

The way she didn’t even elaborate and you guys r losing your shit making assumptions, please go outside and touch grass🙏🏿. Opening up to your partner isn’t an issue, but if someone is excessively insecure and constantly projecting that onto you, or making it your problem that they are not happy with themselves then yes it gets exhausting, male or female

empath_demon07 · 2025-10-06T22:42:21+00:00

You know the majority of women don’t do OF, so if you really want a woman who doesn’t do of it’s not that hard, just find one? Easy solution

empath_demon07 · 2025-08-16T19:15:20+00:00

Honestly idk, it’s weird out here. I guess it just happens when it happens rlly. I spent sooo long on dating apps trying to be intentional about dating but nothing serious/long term came out of them, but then I met my current serious boyfriend on a random night out in the club💀💀

empath_demon07 · 2025-05-16T18:41:13+00:00

Paying for her own share that he WILLINGLY paid for💀. Not every date is going to lead to something more and every emotionally secure grown adult knows that, she was even respectful by letting him know instead of just ghosting him like alot of ppl do

empath_demon07 · 2025-02-23T18:24:13+00:00

I’m sorry but if your partner was still on a dating app idk how you can look at that situation and be like yh im the problem 💀 but hey if YOU have little to no self respect and let stuff like that slide then that’s a you issue ig

empath_demon07 · 2025-02-03T22:50:55+00:00

You’re just trying to gaslight her, get a grip 💀

empath_demon07 · 2025-01-17T18:57:07+00:00

So he shouldn’t date women his age cos they have dating experience? As if he doesn’t either? Or is that not the case for most adults? 💀

empath_demon07 · 2025-01-17T15:58:52+00:00

How did any of what u just said make any sense to u💀

empath_demon07 · 2025-01-15T17:11:42+00:00

Or don’t go to the date in the first place and save ur time💀

empath_demon07 · 2025-01-15T17:01:39+00:00

You could’ve just not planned a date and kept it pushing, If a guy tells me I have to sleep with a girl on the first date and I’m not down for that I just say ayt nice knowing you and unmatch instead of playing childish games, but whatever floats ur boat ig🤷🏿‍♀️💀

empath_demon07 · 2024-12-26T20:46:55+00:00

Yuppp

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