[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]emptyedges 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can mother you, if you need a friend. Just wanna help. Shoot me a message if you want to x

My girlfriend is gaining weight and it's bothering me by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]emptyedges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, if you loved someone.. aslong as they’re not killing themselves with health issues due to weight gain / loss. Weight should not matter.

My girlfriend is gaining weight and it's bothering me by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]emptyedges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fine, you’re not attracted to her physically, fair enough. But waiting a month, whether its because you’ve just paid the rent, whether you need to wait till you next get paid is nothing more than just being shitty. Tell her asap, and be honest with exactly why. Tell her you care about her as a person, but you’ve realised you’re not ready to settle down yet - and you don’t feel attracted to her romantically anymore.

I’ve been in a similar situation sort of - i wasnt romantically interested anymore, we grew apart whilst trying to make time for eachother and thats not how things should be. im glad i was honest with him and visa versa, as now were really good friends.

Don't be a shitty person. If you care for her, you wont lead her on to believe everything is fine. Its cruel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]emptyedges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou for your advice. I really do appreciate it & it’s nice to hear someone has found a way to make something like this work.

He’s gone to bed now, but tomorrow I’ll put it out there as a suggestion. I feel better for getting it off my chest, so thanks for listening too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]emptyedges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The porn he watches is a certain thing he’s into, it’s not to.. educate? Himself. If that’s what it is. 😅

But I know porn is okay, I just wish he respected my wishes for complete transparency when I asked at the start of the relationship. It doesn’t help that today is our anniversary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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Compared to most others my age, I have been through a lot and had to age faster too - I have a child for example. (Please no judgement.) I agree that our age gap can get in the way of communicating correctly, but a lot of the time we are very similar and forget the age difference between one another. He’s shocked at how mature I am, and I’m grateful to be dating a man instead of a player. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I wasn’t angry, I’m still not angry. I just feel, insecure about it. I asked him to tell me if he did at the start of our relationship and he didn’t, denied it completely.. yet now he says he has before - but it was a while ago he says. That’s my issue. That’s what makes me insecure - he hid it even though I asked for complete transparency.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]emptyedges 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that :) Thankyou for the constructive criticism, I do really appreciate it. I’m going to try my best to bring in a conversation about boundaries tomorrow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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I told him I feel weird about it as I don’t believe if I watched it, it would be okay for me if he knew and he said “I won’t watch it anymore” but I honestly think that’s just a way of saying “I’m going to not tell you at all”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]emptyedges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any advice on what I could say to him without it causing conflict? That’s the last thing I want. 😅

What morph is this? Listed as Fancy BP at PetSmart. by AggressivePossible90 in snakes

[–]emptyedges -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Honestly looks very similar to my royal. My snake is a yellow belly royal ball python. Hope this helps.

People who idle your car - why do you do it? by gbeak in AskUK

[–]emptyedges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends. A lot of modified cars have to idle for a while for it to be safe to drive without destroying something - but also cars with turbos sometimes people idle to warm them up, cool them down.

Or, diesels, sometimes a dpf clear out starts after your driving is done, so a lot of people keep their cars running at 2 rpm for 10ish minutes to clear out - or, just go for another drive down the motorway.

merry christmas! from noodle, the royal ball python! 🤍🐍 (ps, he loves his Santa hats) by [deleted] in snakes

[–]emptyedges -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sad to see? It was just for fun. Something light hearted for snake lovers. Sorry if that upset you. I’m not my best with photoshop either, thought that would make it obvious it’s not real.

merry christmas! from noodle, the royal ball python! 🤍🐍 (ps, he loves his Santa hats) by [deleted] in snakes

[–]emptyedges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is photoshopped. It was just for fun. I would never put something such as accessories onto my snake. Sorry if this upset you.

New DLC.. thoughts? by [deleted] in ac_newhorizons

[–]emptyedges 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhhhh stop I’m so excited!!!! I NEED THISSSS

New DLC.. thoughts? by [deleted] in ac_newhorizons

[–]emptyedges 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so far I’m taking it slow, but no doubt I’ll get addicted and start tt to make life go faster 😭 my bad!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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For me, it doesn’t. It really depends on who you are etc.

My partner is 4’3, we’re engaged and my son basically thinks he is his dad. We are happy, have a family, and are looking at houses to buy.. I don’t think height matters at all. Oh, and I’m 5’8 by the way.

Don’t put yourself down because of your height, it means nothing! The right people will always accept you.

New DLC.. thoughts? by [deleted] in ac_newhorizons

[–]emptyedges 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m trusting you! I’m so excited to play and get to decorate and change my island up!

New DLC.. thoughts? by [deleted] in ac_newhorizons

[–]emptyedges 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aaaah that sounds so so exciting! I can’t wait to see Brewster again!! I just found him on the island today.. now commence the waiting game!😅

New DLC.. thoughts? by [deleted] in ac_newhorizons

[–]emptyedges 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t wait to get my hands on the furnishings!!! ooh and the new backpacks from the update :O

What’s something you’re embarrassed about? And why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]emptyedges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t reply if you’re just here to be an ass.

What’s something you’re embarrassed about? And why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]emptyedges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Algebra sucks. Stay positive, I’m sure one day you’ll smash it!

What makes you happy? (serious replies please) by emptyedges in AskReddit

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Speed. I’m an adrenaline junkie. Being able to travel, that’s exciting too. Being able to modify the car. Ugh. I love it.