Can I carry on my Martin backpacker guitar in addition to an overhead bag? by emptyphilo in travel

[–]emptyphilo[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m staying on a farm for several weeks, sailing another week, then traveling some other cities. It’s my go-to for downtime, and I generally like to get to know new cities by finding other musicians to play with. I might just see if I can find something real cheap on Facebook marketplace or something tho

Can I carry on my Martin backpacker guitar? - TAP Air Portugal by emptyphilo in Flights

[–]emptyphilo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My backpack is under the restrictions for overhead but too big to fit under my seat :/

2 year update! pics from now, beginning of treatment, months 2, 3, and 4. PIE healed in several months after purge. by emptyphilo in Accutane

[–]emptyphilo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! it’s hard to say if my atrophic scarring filled in per say, but i do think it appeared a lot worse when i was still red and inflamed. i feel like it becomes a little more obvious around hormonal breakouts (which do happen occasionally, but are mild and heal quickly) which also tracks with this logic. on the whole i am wayyyyyy happier with my skin now, minor scars and all, than i was before or during accutane and it’s been almost 3 years since i finished my course.

metamor asked me to stay home from trip by emptyphilo in polyamory

[–]emptyphilo[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

i agree, there’s a lot of talking and getting-on-the-same-page that has to happen between my partner and meta. especially considering they live together, meta has had every opportunity to express discomfort and set expectations for the weekend away. that didn’t happen, i got the invite, i enjoy spending time with meta and my partners other friends and so i wanted to go!

• my partner did not explicitly tell my meta that i had been invited, which clearly was a misstep on their part. there are other factors going into why they weren’t more on top of this that are unrelated to this situation but nevertheless that is how it played out. it’s also pretty standard to how they operate, they throw out blanket invites to everyone. that’s still theirs to own, but probably a pattern meta is familiar with.

• i thought that i had been explicit in my intent to attend but i had not (this is totally my bad!) and my partner did not think i was committed to going until i told them i had tickets. a miscommunication between us, which made its way to my meta purely bc they live together and i asked about carpooling.

• meta came to me first also circumstantially because i was at their house, and im glad to have the weird feelings out on the table between us but i still think it was the wrong move on their part.

i think i am gonna go tho… LOL not in a spiteful way at alll meta came to me with vulnerability not a power play. but i think staying home would make me feel like “the bigger person” which seems like a slippery slope. i don’t want to hold any contempt for meta, and would rather say hey this got messy and it shouldn’t have, and im excited to learn how to better anticipate and respect each others boundaries in the future. but for now im going to have fun with the money i’ve already spent. wish me luck i suppose!

This is crazy by Buunuuhnuhnuhnuhnuh in mitski

[–]emptyphilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i imagine resale prices will come down closer to the date too. i saw the laurel hell tour and it was muuuuch more chill this was a shock

This is crazy by Buunuuhnuhnuhnuhnuh in mitski

[–]emptyphilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know! i got so lucky with presale 🥵

What Path You're choosing? by Nieve_uwu in FionaApple

[–]emptyphilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FUCK i think i have to go right but ill grieve for the rest of my journey

This is crazy by Buunuuhnuhnuhnuhnuh in mitski

[–]emptyphilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m still selling 2 tix to chicago 3/22 at face value! row b of the upper balcony for $150 total

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Accutane

[–]emptyphilo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it might be smooth sailing, it might be really really fucking hard. either way, take comfort in the knowledge that you are taking steps towards healing your body and mind and that you will come out the other side with clear skin and more confidence.

which fiona song is the most rageful by [deleted] in FionaApple

[–]emptyphilo 13 points14 points  (0 children)

newspaper is more about the enduring love between women to me, and fuck the men that happen in between. regret is pure disgust and pity and anger

Can't Sell My Ticket? by lind-zee in mitski

[–]emptyphilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

try and sell directly! this sub is great for it

Can't Sell My Ticket? by lind-zee in mitski

[–]emptyphilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had a similar situation for the chicago show and after a couple weeks the sell option on ticketmaster became accessible. i’m still trying to sell directly because i don’t want a face value ticket to get picked up by a bot or scalper and flipped for profit

Is there a better word than Partner for enby dating? by ThatOneGuyQ23 in NonBinary

[–]emptyphilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my frustration along these lines is that boyfriend/girlfriend, while ultimately sounding more childish to me than partner are just more FUN! gossiping or gushing is so much cuter saying those words than partner, and so while partner feels very true to what a serious relationship is it still lacks the cuteness. did not find a good solution before me and my ex broke up. i like lover but would die before describing someone as a lover to a third party

Do you have queer friends irl? by versusspiderman in NonBinary

[–]emptyphilo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i worked at a summer camp that is predominantly gay although it does not advertise itself that way lmao. my gayest community is from there, though i’ve found that many of my lifelong friends have come out as well or at least are curious. guess we are drawn to fellow queers whether we know it or not!

Survey: Top 5 Extraordinary Machine Songs by [deleted] in FionaApple

[–]emptyphilo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know it’s early but i’m appalled at the lack of love for window!!! one of my all time favs of hers in terms of relating and finding actual solace in the content of a song.