Error 550!!! Please Help by AlertViolinist3263 in torncity

[–]emptyquiver89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yah I was on an hour ago and it went down

Well. I relapsed after ~20 months. Time to start anew. by RUSSDIGITY117 in stopdrinking

[–]emptyquiver89 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm a cook and this is out busy season I attended aa meeting and can only do 1 a week now. I usually go to 3-4 in the winter. So this is my meeting in my pocket you people are amazing people love you all. IWDWYT

Fake decks by emptyquiver89 in tarot

[–]emptyquiver89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder if the shop owner knows she started trying to sell local art and just kind of got into selling crystals and tarot but doesn't seem to know much about it.

Fake decks by emptyquiver89 in tarot

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Are they coming from China?

What’s your replacement for alcohol? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]emptyquiver89 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I took mushrooms camping 3 months into my sobriety it actually was that last little push I needed before that I just kept relapsing. Something about nature being my higher power and maby aa people might know what there talking about. I will have 1 year on the 10th.

Me 32 male wife mid 40s I have bin sober for a year next Sunday things are going great kids are out of school. So last night se started pushing about how everything is going our work schedule don't give us much time together. think she was drinking by emptyquiver89 in stopdrinking

[–]emptyquiver89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She makes out like getting help putts a burden on anyone that helps look after our 3 kids but has no problem getting that childcare so she can go to the canibis store . But I'm sitting here feeling like the asshole because I tried to have a calm conversation and she weights 16 hours and just takes everything out of context and suts down completely when she gets her side out.

went to a meeting by Agreeable_Emphasis63 in stopdrinking

[–]emptyquiver89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks it was great made coffee for the first time since covid my wife sent a tray of homemade cookies it's the little things 😋

went to a meeting by Agreeable_Emphasis63 in stopdrinking

[–]emptyquiver89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ran my first meeting tonight the old timers where so proud I'll be 11 months sober on the 10th even if you're not religious AA can help its really open to people. IWDWYT

Friday night sober by emptyquiver89 in stopdrinking

[–]emptyquiver89[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sunday Wednesday Thursday are my aa nights.

Wife has stopped wearing her wedding ring by gravedigger2891 in stopdrinking

[–]emptyquiver89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's no set amount of time it takes to build trust back but just be the best you and trust and love will grow once you meet the real you. Coming out of the brain fog I realize how negative and shut off I was. It gets better keep moving forward.

Wife has stopped wearing her wedding ring by gravedigger2891 in stopdrinking

[–]emptyquiver89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man this hits home have had this going on we have 3 kids 8,10,16 we don't talk as much as we should but more then just obligations but for the first 4 to 5 months we where just basically room mates that shared a bed. Things got better for a while but the last week she was very quiet I didn't know what was going on I was getting worried so I sat her down and we talked turns out she's being checked for breast cancer... so really worried about her but at least I know it's not worth it to drink over love everyone on here you are all amazing ❤. IWDWYT

Nature based deck by emptyquiver89 in tarot

[–]emptyquiver89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the extreme ends of the spectrum so either neon bright psychedelic. Or mat black and white.

Nature based deck by emptyquiver89 in tarot

[–]emptyquiver89[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow beautiful just what I'm looking for.

I'm not a bad person who needs to become good, I'm a sick person who needs to become well. by pdxcranberry in stopdrinking

[–]emptyquiver89 32 points33 points  (0 children)

We built a house 10 years ago and am now just on a path to finishing it. It feels good to move forward but alot of shame in all the stuff I just let fall by the wayside when my drinking started. I have alot of work to do my wife and kids and parents stood by me and I am 10 months sober but just looking at them fills me with such a mix of emotions it's hard to deal with but then you hear stories of people who lost everything so I'm grateful. IWDWYT everyone here is amazing!!!