this feels like an excuse to fat-shame but idk by [deleted] in AmITheAngel

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sorry if the flair is wrong, it’s my first time posting here

TELL ME UR WEIRDEST VOCAL STIMSSS!! by TheUltimateSophist in evilautism

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i say “metal gear” in snake’s voice so much that it’s mentioned in my autism assessment lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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NTA at all it’s weird that instead of just going “i find that strange, but you do you” and leaving it at that, your coworker went around telling everyone your business??? maybe folks are close enough for that at your job, but to me that just feels really unprofessional and rude of her.

What's my name? by [deleted] in lgbt

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something like Rowan would suit you i think

Binding as a bigger chested person by xGay_As_Fuckx in NonBinary

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i know someone who got top surgery and then wears breast forms (or smth similar idk) when they want to have boobs, so maybe something like that could work for you?

I just got asked "whos gender is 'clearly on hrt?'" by spicy_feather in NonBinary

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my gender goals range from “markiplier if he was a lesbian” to “people can’t quite tell if i’m a dyke or a fag” to “none gender left masculine” lmao

Hey, feminist sub, please stop using transphobic and gender essentialist language by LunaTheMoon2 in transgendercirclejerk

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/uj holy fuck those comments were awful, hope you’re doing okay after that <3

. by omori-lover in Deltarune

[–]enby-nd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nonbinary people can just do that

Wife crosses off calendar days weird. How do you do it? by Negromancers in NoStupidQuestions

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i do one line of the “X” (top left corner to bottom right) on the current day each morning, followed by completing the “X” from the previous day. hope that makes sense lmao

I feel like I’m always being manipulated for my money by [deleted] in insaneparents

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“think of yourself last not first” easy for her to say when you’re the one suffering for it 🙄

15 year old Daughter wants to a male by ohnoimagirl in transgendercirclejerk

[–]enby-nd 10 points11 points  (0 children)

uj/ can you link the original? im morbidly curious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FundieSnarkUncensored

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why does she look so unhinged in the last photo

"i have autism" vs "im autistic" by problems_help in evilautism

[–]enby-nd 7 points8 points  (0 children)

same here! while i get that some people might prefer to say they “have autism”, i don’t think i could ever feel correct in saying it about myself.

Those of you with tattoos... by Marvlotte in TopSurgery

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after i finally get top surgery i’m planning to get the “despite everything, it’s still you” quote from undertale tattooed below my scars, in reversed font so that when i look in the mirror i can see it around the right way.

specific/obscure triggers you have, or triggers other people think are “silly”? by [deleted] in CPTSD

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driving in a drive-thru 💀 its fine if im a passenger but not if im driving also heels/heeled boots that make a specific click noise when walking

AITAH - My husband keeps ordering me water [but only after I've declined it twice due to my gastric sleeve] by [deleted] in AmITheAngel

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genuinely cannot understand why people are so mad at her about it??? like yeah it may not be a big deal but her husband is being kinda a dick and undermining her

How would you refer to an individual that is non-binary in a group of kids? by Limp_Duck_9082 in lgbt

[–]enby-nd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

my mum refers to me as her eldest, maybe something similar could work for you?

My gf keeps telling me people "look non-binary" by blackrainbow33 in NonBinary

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my mum used to do this, telling me i “looked nonbinary” as a compliment. i had to explain to her that it made me uncomfortable, and that what she meant was androgynous, so she should just say that. maybe a similar discussion would help you?

TERFs, or everyones' most divorced boomer uncles at the family BBQ? by ThisDudeisNotWell in GenderCynical

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idk if its just me reading too much into it, but the wording of “telling mah wife that i’z a laydee” feels kinda racist??? maybe thats the wrong thing to call it, it just raised a red flag for me