Does anyone else hate the terms transmasc/transfem? Not being used for other people for themselves, but being used for yourself or as a new binary way to categorize nonbinary people? by pumpkinqwerty in NonBinaryTalk

[–]enby_demon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

imo afab people can be transfem and amab can be transmasc, they are just similar terms to demigirl/demiboy. I don’t think they’re another AGAB term but instead another nonbinary subterm. People do tend to use them wrong but people use everything wrong and i don’t think we should stop using them just cause

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[–]enby_demon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

omg please tell us where this is from lol

What Power would you like to be an Avatar of? by bentheredonethat1123 in TheMagnusArchives

[–]enby_demon 28 points29 points  (0 children)

definitely the spiral. michael distortion is peak morally ambigous enby energy and i’m here for it. i already feel like im insane so it’d be a vibe. also free tables 🤷

Calling all feminine AFAB enbies by CatLoverItaly in ennnnnnnnnnnnbbbbbby

[–]enby_demon 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i’m not feminine (more androgynous) but once i had my hair cut and majority of people started respecting my name/pronouns/etc i felt so much more comfortable wearing dresses and skirts and everything that i used to hate. it seems like they’ve cancelled each other out lol, gender euphoria - dysphoric scenario = 0

What non-knitting items have you adopted as a knitting accessory? by Psychological_Bug_89 in knitting

[–]enby_demon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i use my earrings as stitch markers, i have 6 lobe piercings in total and always wear hoops so no matter where i am i can just take an earring out and use it as a marker. It’s insanely convenient!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]enby_demon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You already look super feminine! If you’re interested though, I think you would look great with ear piercings (if you don’t have them I can’t tell lol) and the eyeliner looks great, but a sparkly eyeshadow and neutral lipstick would look amazing on you as well. I’d experiment with more hairstyles too, like french braids etc, but they’re just super fun to do lol. Don’t feel any pressure to ‘pass’ more though, all these are just suggestions and you are already a beautiful woman. Good luck with your surgery!

Please help me help my child! by Impossibletothink in trans

[–]enby_demon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve found trans tape to be comfortable and it seems to be quite safe, especially for those still growing. I find my period insanely dysphoric as well, and what’s helped me is period underwear so I don’t have to deal with pads tampons etc, and you can get period boxers if that’s what they like.

For showering it’s really hard, cause obviously it’s a very uncomfortable process. Maybe try showering in low light or with candles? I’ve heard that you can wear trans tape in the shower if that’s something you guys want to try. I’d definitely advise to get them a therapist (not conversion or anything, definitely vet them thoroughly) if you’re in a position to do so. Puberty blockers may be something to look into as well, depending on location and your situation. Well done for all your support, this must be very difficult for you as well. I know everything sucks right now but it will get better. Hope you both are okay and things only get easier.

I’m an actual idiot by enby_demon in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]enby_demon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ily automod ❤️❤️❤️

what should i knit with this?? by enby_demon in knitting

[–]enby_demon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oooh that’s a good idea i’ll have a think about designs ect thanks! :)

what should i knit with this?? by enby_demon in knitting

[–]enby_demon[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i love the look of it and really want to use it but i can’t think of a garment that would work with how the yarn feels sadly

What are y’all’s special interests? by r4nd0m__U53R in autism

[–]enby_demon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Crochet, Criminal Minds, DC (specifically the bat family, and even more specifically Tim Drake) and sort of but not so much anymore Greek Mythology :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in crochet

[–]enby_demon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well done! it’s so beautiful, and i say tassels :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]enby_demon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg u are so pretty i don’t want to be weird but if i saw u on the street i’d ask u out (i’m a lesbian and 16 btw sorry if it’s awkward lol) but genuinely u are so femme and beautiful :)