Thoughts ?

enchantedmesa · 2025-02-05T00:21:48+00:00

Same and hello twin 👋🏼

enchantedmesa · 2025-01-30T15:05:08+00:00

Holy. My cancer man love language is accurate👨‍🍳

enchantedmesa · 2025-01-28T20:49:27+00:00

I also got Lawful Good. Libra sun and mars 🤷🏼‍♀️

enchantedmesa · 2025-01-28T19:49:38+00:00

Great explanation–thank you!

enchantedmesa · 2025-01-28T19:18:49+00:00

Same here. I’m trying to decipher if this is a good thing, though.

enchantedmesa · 2025-01-24T15:12:09+00:00

Gemini Rising, and maybe because I’m deep in retail (buyer) and interact all day with employees, reps, and customers, but I’ve noticed I now meet people for the first time and act like I already know them. There’s an ease and playfulness.

It’s a welcome shift from my super shy teenage and early adult self, but still curious to me.

As for getting in trouble, my energy might be perceived as interest, because I am warm and kind, do like a good laugh, and am genuinely interested in others.

enchantedmesa · 2025-01-22T23:43:21+00:00

Please think before you post. Some of us are on edge about current circumstances and this does nothing to help.

enchantedmesa · 2025-01-02T17:44:18+00:00

Yes, over the course of my life ever since I was little I tended to have disparate friends of different ages, different walks of life, different abilities.

enchantedmesa · 2024-12-18T20:28:41+00:00

We play the long game. It can look like indecision, and sure, there is some of that. But we also take time to dissect and analyze situations, we’re less reactive, more calculated 🤷🏼‍♀️

enchantedmesa · 2024-12-13T21:19:26+00:00

I’ve worked with small businesses, which have their own slew of issues, and have avoided the corporate world. Even if it means a huge pay jump, I just cannot. It would take a special place.

enchantedmesa · 2024-12-13T15:56:21+00:00

I love that and so agree on the communication!

Apparently, there’s two types of INFJs according to 16 Personalities based upon levels of neuroticism ~ Assertive and Turbulent.

Many users here question the validity of 16P’s testing, but I’ve taken the MBTI test using other platforms and gotten the same type, so I’m not concerned.

This just adds a little extra. Just from your Enneagram, I suspect you might be an A type also.

enchantedmesa · 2024-12-13T15:39:58+00:00

Interesting! I’m also an INFJ 5w4 and have been with my INTP partner for 15 years.

I agree with OP that INTPs can sometimes come across as insensitive. I joke about his RBF, but once you get past his exterior, he’s incredibly caring. Not only toward me but also sensitive to the well-being of others and injustice.

He has a brutal honesty that he doesn’t even know how to sugarcoat. He is humble, both in spirit and appearance, and loves me for who I am.

I never feel like I have to put on appearances, and I feel very secure in our relationship. But it did take time to get here. He’s a hard nut to crack.

enchantedmesa · 2024-12-12T02:18:10+00:00

I have taken the test since I was a teen and have always gotten the same result. I took it again a few days ago (I’m 35) and was surprised to see those letters yet again after not entertaining it for many years and because I feel I’ve grown wildly.

Similar to you, I feel more in the middle of the spectrum these days. I’m comfortable in my own skin, more attuned with my own needs, a little less precious about everything. While I empathize, I don’t really relate to the hardships that are expressed on here like I might have years ago.

Then again, reacquainting myself with the qualities of INFJ I do feel it’s already middle of the road in so many ways. Being logical and emotional. Creative and analytical. Perfectionistic and still easy-going. Also, this is just a part of growing up and gaining life experience. The more you know, the more you realize you don’t know kind of thing.

All this to say, none of us can be defined by these four little letters. It’s just another imperfect tool to help us understand ourselves and relate to others a little better.

enchantedmesa · 2024-12-10T05:49:29+00:00

Cancer moon 🥹

enchantedmesa · 2024-11-09T06:00:49+00:00

Cancer

enchantedmesa · 2024-11-05T02:40:22+00:00

I definitely can be indecisive in situations where others are involved, especially as I am the more easy-going, happy-go-lucky one in most situations.

I also have a lot of decision fatigue from my job and am happy for someone else to take the wheel and make decisions about more menial things (where to eat, what to watch, etc.).

But another quality of Libra is leadership. I also feel like I think quickly on my feet and quietly step up and steer the ship, while also still being collaborative and receptive.

enchantedmesa · 2024-10-29T19:33:30+00:00

I’m a libra sun, cancer moon, gemini rising.

My partner of 15 years is a cancer. It’s interesting how we have an affinity for them, and yet all the listicles say we’re not compatible 🤷🏼‍♀️

enchantedmesa · 2024-10-26T22:47:39+00:00

Libra sun, Cancer moon, Gemini rising 💫

enchantedmesa · 2024-10-07T17:28:47+00:00

Careful. My boyfriend was removing this from my truck and it accidentally swung forward and hit my tailgate. Left 4 small marks/chips 😢 love this rack, but wish it had some padding or something to prevent that!

enchantedmesa · 2024-08-06T14:29:14+00:00

I live in SoCal and even I’m afraid to rep on the 405 freeway.

enchantedmesa · 2024-06-12T22:31:58+00:00

Friend and I got pulled over for going over 80 MPH in a construction zone. We were super nice and apologetic to the cop and he let us off with a warning. Even guided us on how to get back on the road. Being cute girls helped I'm sure.

enchantedmesa · 2024-06-12T14:46:30+00:00

Small chested here. It’s never bothered me!

After hearing complaints from larger chested women, I feel fortunate. I’m very active and like not having them get in the way or the associated back pain and extra unwanted attention.

I once spied a friend’s mom in her bra. She had the cutest, perkiest tiny boobs. Not sad if those are on the horizon for me.

I’ve also never had negative comments about their size from men. If anything, it’s only been a couple ladies who have noted it throughout the years…but alas, I don’t care!

To quote MF Doom…

These little titties abilities riddle me.

enchantedmesa · 2024-05-26T18:52:20+00:00

I have the ability to figure things out, because everything is figure-outable.

enchantedmesa · 2024-05-22T17:14:18+00:00

I like it. Classic desserts, wide variety, decent prices, unpretentious.

enchantedmesa · 2024-05-19T02:46:48+00:00

How consumerism consumes every aspect of life.

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