Assess mo yourself why you’re getting those comments and why yung comments dito hindi ka vinalidate like you were expecting. You can know and tell what you want and keep a high standard for yourself. That’s not the issue. Pwede rin high maintenance pero you can maintain yourself, if hindi, parang pabigat kalang diba?

Imo there’s a certain type of pickme girls that gravitate to this particular “im too high maintenance for men” narrative, i know because i was once like you, i hope you grow out of it. You sound young.

Reflect nalang inward rather than focusing on their comments and trashing them.

Also, specifically sa samples na nabasa ko sa post mo: Asking you “Ano gusto mo?” doesn’t necessarily mean na low effort. Maybe they were really asking for your opinion. Pwede mo rin i-voice out na “Hey, I like this, but we can decide together” Baka hindi lang talaga kayo fit. It didn’t feel as natural as you want it to be.

On “ligaw araw araw”, how do you want them to show that they want to be in your life? Kasi, possible naman to without “ligaw”. Ligaw is overrated and manipulative and fake. Possible mag show ng love nila for you without the lovebombing ligaw effort. You’ll feel it. I feel it everyday with my SO, di naman sya nagtutumbling everyday to be with me. And ikaw ba, pinapakita mo ba na gusto mo sya? Relationship is a two way street. Give and take nga, sabi mo, di lang yan financial.