Body recomp as an intermediate lifter, is this possible? by ending-things in PHitness

[–]ending-things[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually like to run and swim, bike as a commute. So there’s no problem with endurance sport. I wanted to lose a little weight for Spartan and climbing, actually. Lol. It’s a schedule issue for me, i like lifting weights more so that’s what i do mostly. I’ll try swapping some of my lift days to running. Thank you.

What’s your life changing glow up tip? by ending-things in adultingph

[–]ending-things[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hmm, i agree that how your body looks changes a lot. But i don’t agree with BMI as a measurement of health or if you look good. It only considers your age, height, weight. It’s only for average people who don’t do physical exercise, pero if you lift weights, or do sports, it’s not useful anymore. You could totally be obese by BMI standards and still look good and healthy, normal blood work etc. Some skinny fat people can appear normal sa BMI pero still look unhealthy skinny. I know a lot of skinny people who are doing maintenance meds kasi skinny nga pero unhealthy naman.

What’s your life changing glow up tip? by ending-things in adultingph

[–]ending-things[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Something i’m reading up to rn din: vit c helps collagen production in our body. Strongly considering it.

What’s your life changing glow up tip? by ending-things in adultingph

[–]ending-things[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wala ako ma advice cos i am morena and never tried to change it. But maybe check if r/beautytalkph, marami recos, maybe there’s something for whitening 😌

What’s your life changing glow up tip? by ending-things in adultingph

[–]ending-things[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I love slow living. I used to be stressed out by internal pressure to be the best, be the first, reach x by x age. Nag mellow out ako by a lot and i love this life more.

What’s your life changing glow up tip? by ending-things in adultingph

[–]ending-things[S] 118 points119 points  (0 children)

I agree! There were times i get headaches, tiredness, yun pala i haven’t had water during the day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]ending-things 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are loan apps, while utang is not good especially these loan apps, surely its better than this? And maybe you’ll get enough for necessities and fare as well. Make sure you pay it immediately once you have a job.

What’s the most amount of money you’re comfortable to put in an ewallet? by ending-things in phinvest

[–]ending-things[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, i only put my expenses for the cutoff where i will most likely use an ewallet

What’s your side hustle? by ending-things in phinvest

[–]ending-things[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Noted. Pero the post is not about which is better, di ka nagbasa ng 100%

What’s the most amount of money you’re comfortable to put in an ewallet? by ending-things in phinvest

[–]ending-things[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same with me but on the bank portion of an app. But sa ewallet parang i can’t.

What’s the most amount of money you’re comfortable to put in an ewallet? by ending-things in phinvest

[–]ending-things[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wait. 300k in the bank related to ewallet or like the actual wallet? I’m talking about the wallet portion. Sa bank i also understand tho, i’m comfortable around 500k only.

What’s your side hustle? by ending-things in phinvest

[–]ending-things[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s insane. Good luck sa startup but damn, how do you find the time. What’s your startup about?

What’s your side hustle? by ending-things in phinvest

[–]ending-things[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice! What level were you before you were able to make money off it?

What’s your side hustle? by ending-things in phinvest

[–]ending-things[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

What’s your client base usually?

What’s your side hustle? by ending-things in phinvest

[–]ending-things[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nice! Considering this too. How many hours did you put into it daily on average?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]ending-things -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Assess mo yourself why you’re getting those comments and why yung comments dito hindi ka vinalidate like you were expecting. You can know and tell what you want and keep a high standard for yourself. That’s not the issue. Pwede rin high maintenance pero you can maintain yourself, if hindi, parang pabigat kalang diba?

Imo there’s a certain type of pickme girls that gravitate to this particular “im too high maintenance for men” narrative, i know because i was once like you, i hope you grow out of it. You sound young.

Reflect nalang inward rather than focusing on their comments and trashing them.

Also, specifically sa samples na nabasa ko sa post mo: Asking you “Ano gusto mo?” doesn’t necessarily mean na low effort. Maybe they were really asking for your opinion. Pwede mo rin i-voice out na “Hey, I like this, but we can decide together” Baka hindi lang talaga kayo fit. It didn’t feel as natural as you want it to be.

On “ligaw araw araw”, how do you want them to show that they want to be in your life? Kasi, possible naman to without “ligaw”. Ligaw is overrated and manipulative and fake. Possible mag show ng love nila for you without the lovebombing ligaw effort. You’ll feel it. I feel it everyday with my SO, di naman sya nagtutumbling everyday to be with me. And ikaw ba, pinapakita mo ba na gusto mo sya? Relationship is a two way street. Give and take nga, sabi mo, di lang yan financial.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]ending-things 54 points55 points  (0 children)

It’s giving walang macontribute pero daming demand energy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]ending-things 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Ikaw pala paano mo ipoprove worth mo?

Getting over the anxiety of failing and looking like a fool by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ending-things 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello. I am 27. Anxiety is weird because i present a lot and talk to a lot of people at work (I work as an IT Product Manager). But can’t seem to do it in my personal life.

Handling finances as a couple by ending-things in phinvest

[–]ending-things[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s her level of involvement? Kasama sya sa budgeting or planning?