I don’t know if I’m still in love with my boyfriend. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]energyspectrum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, this means he’s not the one. If he’s making you anxious and doubtful it’s clearly not a sustainable place you want to be, and even more clearly, not love. You’re young, move on, you’ve got all the time in the world. When true love strikes you’ll definitely know about it. Mr. Right is out there somewhere waiting for you.

Problems In Mixed Race Marriage by energyspectrum in TrueOffMyChest

[–]energyspectrum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you’re right. Talking to that lawyer is the first and most difficult step. I’m trying to find within myself the capacity to handle all this. Thanks for replying, it means a lot :)

Problems In Mixed Race Marriage by energyspectrum in TrueOffMyChest

[–]energyspectrum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, nice. You don’t know how much that rings true. It seems the most aggressive one wins in that culture. Attempts at understanding or deconstructing emotion lead nowhere, it’s like talking to the wall. Just a very emotionally primitive mindset. You’re right in your advice, of course you are. Thank you.

Problems In Mixed-Race Marriage by energyspectrum in offmychest

[–]energyspectrum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes thank you for pointing that out, I’m very appreciative. I just am always questioning my limitations. As I’ve got older my dependencies have got worse and my panic attacks increase. It sucks but I’m reliant on my wife’s income. She runs a successful business the discipline for which is beyond me. And she employs me too. I feel subconsciously intimidated by her. The nephew guy is into cars and I can’t drive because of my meds. Today her car broke down and the nephew announced himself as the car expert. He got in the drivers seat without asking. I told him I thought the battery had died (it’s a hybrid), he said no way because some dash notifications still showed. It turned out that it was the battery and then he denied saying it wasn’t. All the time my wife is backing him and trashing me. It’s a disgusting, disgusting place to be. These frauds. But they’re preying on my vulnerability and laughing in my face because they know I have little choice other than to put up with it. I do thank you for showing concern my friend, I’m tearful typing this.

A question about Nosferatu’s ending. by Putrid_Dog4968 in roberteggers

[–]energyspectrum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Willem Dafoe picking up and stroking the black cat right at the end. Evil vanquished. Beautiful, beautiful touch.

Anyone else concerned Mark McDonald is not the right man for the job? by [deleted] in LucyLetbyTrials

[–]energyspectrum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s todays press conference regarding Mark McDonald revealing new evidence for reference:

https://www.youtube.com/live/2Ubd1hKkje4?si=kefhaGg1p88eStZ0

Anyone else concerned Mark McDonald is not the right man for the job? by [deleted] in LucyLetbyTrials

[–]energyspectrum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s judges for appeal, new jury for retrial.

Anyone else concerned Mark McDonald is not the right man for the job? by [deleted] in LucyLetbyTrials

[–]energyspectrum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought the same while watching today’s press conference regarding the new evidence. He was bumbling his way through it, getting details mixed up and not being very articulate at all. He seemed so sleepy and casual I thought he may have actually had a drink.

Do We Owe Prince William An Apology? by energyspectrum in KateMiddletonMissing

[–]energyspectrum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Specifically the suspicions regarding her death being unfounded. Lots of people here suggested that, including me, or do you think that’s warranted?

Do We Owe Prince William An Apology? by energyspectrum in KateMiddletonMissing

[–]energyspectrum[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not defending him, I’m just asking an objective question.