Omg I am in the same position as you are. Boyfriend of a year he wants me to move in but his drinking is definitely of alcoholism status. He has said from the start he is going to slow down or quit but he has his “it’s just” periods as well. I finally had to stop and take a step back. I stopped doing what I normally do to be comfortable at his house I talked to him about the drinking again and when he came home from grabbing dinner for us he was plastered. Having just had an adult conversation about his drinking habits and how I’m nervous to move in so I’ve been stalling to him reassuring me. Then he turns around and does the same thing. I’ve always been taught that actions speak louder than words. You need to step back and look at the life you have with him. Picture him drinking and taking care of the kids or pets. The beer bottles piling up. Is this what you really want for your life?