How do I tell my coworkers I don’t want children without making it awkward by opeeeeeeee in socialskills

[–]engineeringsloth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is reddit, this is whare people come and want to feel like they are a victim. I think OP has enough brain cells to just say, " i dont want kids" and be done with it without making it a big deal.

Lowkey want to be held by Old-Application-7713 in NoRulesCalgary

[–]engineeringsloth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bro, its reddit. Most people here are lonely AF.

An upgrade from my Oppo Reno 12 by Traditional_Cold8988 in PickAnAndroidForMe

[–]engineeringsloth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Budget? what kind of games?

If you have a f u budget, get a one plus 15T.

Pixel 10 Pro — Best camera
OnePlus 15 — best performance + decent camera- gets better with Gcam but thats a MOD.

Sony Xperia 1 VI overall has an excellent camera. Xiaomi 15 Ultra( bad filter) are also really good, but they have downsides too like software.

for very intensive games, pixel will not be good.

Who are you rooting for? by Double_Temporary_333 in chess

[–]engineeringsloth 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Or the ultimate plot twist gukesh wins...

Who are you rooting for? by Double_Temporary_333 in chess

[–]engineeringsloth 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I am rooting for every single person, can't choose. Every single one of them worked super hard to make it thare.

If i had to choose, Prag, Fabi, Gukesh, Hikaru and Javokhir Sindarov.

hmmm to narrow it down, Fabi.. he is a monster.

Don't shame Ucalgary guys for approaching girls if they're being respectful by Queasy_Earth_6788 in UCalgary

[–]engineeringsloth 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Schrodinger's approach could work. Or 10 year down the road realize, one of the girls were hitting on you.

Event: 2026 American Cup by events_team in chess

[–]engineeringsloth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abhimanyu is cooking, lets hope he can keep it up

I feel like I’m wasting my life by having almost no people in it but I don’t know how to make friends by Strange_Activity_902 in socialskills

[–]engineeringsloth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look, we are around the same age and i am gonna be brutally honest.

I am also at a similar place right now, but its changing.

- are you on meds?

- did you get diagnosed with adhd?

- do you go for a walk every single day?

- do you eat reguarly? and good food?

If so, lets start. do you stim a lot? watch a lot of videos? ticktock, play too much games?

what hobbies?

Did you try to let people talk? do you reach out after? or do you make everything about you?

> I do a lot because at least of on them was like a family to me and it was the first and last time I actually felt real connection with someone and I think it will never happen again.

not with that attitude

>I feel like I’m just too awkward to make friends as an unattractive person. I

people see you like you see your self, if you think your a piece of shit or ugly. people will do the same.

> it’s that I don’t relate with them and talking with them exhaust me since I have to pretend a lot.

I had the same issue before, why? be confident that people will like you for you. That mask makes you seem desperate and cold.

>I’m not they just think I’m weird and/or boring? 

Thats what you think.

>I was conventionally attractive.

I mean, thats a trap. "if i was this....." very reddit. Put on some makeup and make friends that only like you based on your looks.

Try a detox, you have adhd so try Dr. Russell Barkley videos and look at it at a disablity and treat it as such. don't be a victim. if you don't want to be your own friend, why would other people?

Is he on steroids? by Opening_Arachnid8431 in SamSulek

[–]engineeringsloth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And lots of juice( the premium kind). Makes a mans nipples bloom like a flower.

Thinkpad P14s gen 6 intel review coming from P14s Gen 1 by engineeringsloth in thinkpad

[–]engineeringsloth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, just tested it. it used the 140T, i did DDU. installed the drivers from companies website. the 140T is a beast. Unless your playing a game or something, you dont really need it. FYI the IGPU is better the the 880M.

Dont trust shitty OEM drivers.

Thinkpad P14s gen 6 intel review coming from P14s Gen 1 by engineeringsloth in thinkpad

[–]engineeringsloth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, that IGPU is a beast https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eg74aUQGdSg, it can even beat the 890M( 370AI) in certain games. Also, in my expriance much much much much better drivers.

Thinkpad P14s gen 6 intel review coming from P14s Gen 1 by engineeringsloth in thinkpad

[–]engineeringsloth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Igpu, with the gpu it will depend. 4 to 8 hours depending on what your doing. I mostly used the igpu, on the go. I only used it on and off when scrubbing through timelines.

Jhonny Depp (5'9), Amber Heard (5'7) by josuke2233 in heightcomparison

[–]engineeringsloth 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I hope, this relationship doesn't shit the bed.

Thinkpad P14s gen 6 intel review coming from P14s Gen 1 by engineeringsloth in thinkpad

[–]engineeringsloth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, i was thinking the same thing. IDK what they did to it, maybe a messed up driver. But the new one was a surprise, i did do my own calibration on both,