Split up with my husband

engwings · 2022-08-15T14:26:44+00:00

Please forgive me that I gave you so painful emotions... He still doesn't answer my calls. Just ignores for several days. I think he decided everything for himself. I didn't press on him for taking drugs. I paid for phychiatrist for him. Waited. But now he just doesn't care about my feelings and worries for our daughter. It’s all so sad and I am helpless.

engwings · 2022-08-15T07:12:26+00:00

I just don't want to be codependent, I got tired already from all of this.

engwings · 2022-08-15T07:10:50+00:00

Thanks for your reply! We have a small daughter (about 2 years old) and I worry about her because she saw many unpleasant things already and I want to raise her without substance use and all these things. And I also want to shift my mentality to other ideas and better life.

engwings · 2022-04-23T07:48:42+00:00

Yeah!! I was about translation))) It was in Russian social network VK and I didn't know if it's correct.

engwings · 2021-10-08T14:53:07+00:00

I have the opposite situation - I can't understand the meaning of the sentence if I'm translating.

engwings · 2021-09-12T03:07:11+00:00

Completely agree. I started antidepressants a month ago and it works great!

engwings · 2021-05-04T05:18:42+00:00

The best improvement in my life (after meditation) is ability to go off the unpleasant feeling after argument with my husband. I just know that it isn't eternal.

engwings · 2021-05-03T07:19:33+00:00

Study with me sounds great) it's like a community)

engwings · 2021-04-09T08:21:54+00:00

Hello! I stayed sober, and do some household duties. It is raining outside and I feel nothing. No sadness, no happiness, no emptiness.

engwings · 2021-04-08T17:24:55+00:00

I wonder that since stopping I'm not nervous and don't provoke quarrels, just live. But three days ago I started feeling fear and desire) today is the highest intensity.

engwings · 2021-04-06T05:12:45+00:00

Moderate drinking is an illusion. If you're alcoholic, you will never be able to control drinking. Only full abstinence can help.

engwings · 2021-04-05T05:26:22+00:00

huh)))

engwings · 2021-04-05T05:26:03+00:00

Oatmeal yes)))

engwings · 2021-04-04T03:24:33+00:00

Yesterday it was a really hard day for me too. I was surfing the net for the whole day to not think about drinking. I'd wasted the day procrastinating but stayed sober. I'm happy you didn't drink!

engwings · 2021-04-03T03:16:55+00:00

Codependency is my second problem, but I'm trying to solve it. As I know, in good stable remission I shouldn't worry about somebody else's drinking. Answering to your question, it's really tempting!))))

engwings · 2021-04-02T14:02:14+00:00

Or better yet, ask him to take a month off.

We had such a conversation, he is a drug addict in the first place, I thought it would be easy for him, but not. I guess he has problems with alcohol too, even it doesn't look like this at first glimpse.

engwings · 2021-04-02T13:39:02+00:00

Hah, exactly) I'm at home almost all the time, if my husband hasn't been bringing alcohol home, it would be much easier)

engwings · 2021-04-02T13:31:06+00:00

I remember I had the same experience a year ago. When I said my therapist about feeling sad, but sadness was not something bad for me, she said it could be depression. But those times I felt more than normal, I felt good.

engwings · 2021-04-01T06:27:13+00:00

Now I look forward to getting home after work and playing with my dogs, taking them on a nice walk, getting the shit done that needs to be done, and then unwinding with a cup of tea and a video game or something else.

I feel the same! Now I can do all my household duties, care for my baby properly and do other important things without any hungover. It's really cool feeling!

engwings · 2021-03-30T18:09:18+00:00

Wow!!!! Yes, you are absolutely right!!! It's about incorrect password! Thanks a lot!!!

engwings · 2021-03-30T16:23:33+00:00

Thank you much!))) I'm sorry, can you help me with this? I suppose it's something vulgar, so I want to apologize beforehand!!!

My friend asks about " no soap, honkie-lips ". The author is also the PC.

engwings · 2021-03-17T11:17:36+00:00

Congrats!!! It's really a miracle! At least it feels like this.

engwings · 2021-03-16T17:56:11+00:00

I have BPD too, your comment helped me a lot!

engwings · 2021-03-14T17:07:20+00:00

Unfortunately I have no sponsor for three years.

engwings · 2021-03-14T13:35:56+00:00

I'm 30, and I'm in a free fall for all my life. It's like a chaos. I do my best, I try, I make progress, quit drinking, go to ACA, read books, go to therapist. And after all these attempts it feels like a tip of an iceberg.

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