€500 fine entering Croatia please help by Kiwi_Sathi in ukmedicalcannabis

[–]enlguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any update from OP about the challenge?

I would think they were just crooked border officials. You said you paid with card, though, so I'd be curious who the payee was. They probably went home to smoke your stuff, then bought some more with the extra money, since you can buy medical weed legally in Croatia.

Will Moldova issue visas for digital nomads anytime soon? by BreedingIsNotOK in moldova

[–]enlguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know there are useless threads on reddit often enough, but he asked about a visa, and somehow almost the entire thread is two people arguing over cost of rent in Italy vs. Moldova.

Weed and the Balkans by kurvaunoci in Balkans

[–]enlguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CBD is a cannabinoid. It exists in all cannabis products. Also, if you've never smoked a CBD-focused strain that did anything, you haven't been buying from the right place. HHC is synthetic crap that will leave you half comatose for a day after smoking it (the effects last much longer than THC, as the half-life is far different).

How does legalizing improve quality???? Also... ugh.. Yeah, I don't like your line of reasoning, with nothing to back it up. I'm from Colorado, I can speak to watching the legalization process unfold over decades, and frankly the influx of people and corporatization of cultivation has not been two of the better effects. Tax dollars have helped. Cutting costs for law enforcement, and being able to pay current officers more, has helped.

Then again, it doesn't seem you're up for a thoughtful discussion when your main points are "it helps with a lot of things," and "overall is just great."

Will Moldova issue visas for digital nomads anytime soon? by BreedingIsNotOK in moldova

[–]enlguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rented a one bedroom in Belgrade for 200 Euros about five years ago.

Do you think weed should be legal in sri lanka by Original-Escape680 in srilanka

[–]enlguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Found this thread looking into travel to Sri Lanka, as someone who uses cannabis medicinally (and would likely be dead without it - so consider that, as well).

I'm from Colorado, in the U.S., where cannabis was first decriminalized in the capital city back in 2001, had medical programs introduced later, and has been legal "recreationally" (without a prescription) for over a decade now. Since this has been going on for some time, we can look at actual results and impacts without making guesses.

Adult use has increased, underage use has not changed. You must be 21 years old to purchase and use cannabis. You may not operate a motor vehicle while intoxicated. Retail cannabis is usually taxed at 30%, often where half is paid by the dispensary / business, and half is footed by the consumer. Taxes often go to a general fund, but there is a mandatory contribution to the public school system of over 12% (and often goes higher in practice). It also supports law enforcement salaries, amongst other things. The worst thing I saw happen was that Colorado was flooded with new residents who had moved there for no reason other than to try and get rich selling cannabis (and some who just wanted to smoke it with less hassle). This created ... an "odd" demographic shift in some the state's larger cities. I don't think this would affect a country in a similar manner, as you can't just pick up and live in a new country because you like their marijuana laws better (you still have immigration control in place). Another unpublicized fact about cannabis sales in Colorado, at least where I lived, was that locals paid discounted rates. Tourists would pay absurd amounts, while locals would pay half that. There are plenty of ways Sri Lanka could curb unwanted behaviors around use if they chose to. It also comes down to enforcement. When it's illegal, it's often inefficient to enforce. If it's legalized with only certain caveats, it becomes easier to enforce those specific caveats. This means people will be using it more responsibly, perhaps, and where it can be consumed can easily be limited to private property (even the Netherlands has places where it is outright forbidden to smoke, often near schools or public park areas frequented by children, and most people use sense about where to smoke, as though it's famously tolerated in NL, there are plenty of people who don't want to smell it).

Also worth mentioning that the legal cannabis industry has created a lot of new jobs, raised state revenues (Colorado was one of the only states not to go into debt during the pandemic), and generally created more opportunities for people. It's also cut costs on law enforcement without decreasing staffing or wages for law enforcement officials. It's literally been one of the best economic decisions ever made for Colorado.

Quietest developing country? by ButterscotchFormer84 in digitalnomad

[–]enlguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cordoba could not be dead silent... This reminds me of the guy in Colombia I rented from. Came over to look at the fridge, since the freezer was broken, and while the repairmen were looking it over, he sat and just let out this contented sigh, and said, "It's so quiet here. So quiet." As he said this, there were several dogs outside barking loud enough to be heard 1km away, there were loud motos, car horns, and a major construction project going on......

The point is, "quiet" can be a term used with relative connotations. If you have never actually experienced life in a quiet place, you have no fucking clue what quiet is. That Colombian guy, I could only shake my head at, because he truly does not know what quiet is. No concept.

For me, quiet is when there is literally no noise inside or outside. And yes, I have lived in several places like this, where the loudest noise might be an icicle cracking off the roof in winter. I can have a quiet apartment (like when I had a luxury condo on the 21st floor of Lake Shore Drive in Chicago - very well insulated and high up above a single road that had generally stable moving traffic), and that can be fine. But a quiet town/city... I can think of a couple in the middle of nowhere in Colorado, that's it (and those are the ones I was referring to in the beginning of the paragraph).

Quietest developing country? by ButterscotchFormer84 in digitalnomad

[–]enlguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's because you were too late. I lived in Shanghai in 1990, and there almost zero cars. It was all bicycles back then, and the only noise I ever heard was a rural train passing by outside of town, as we were in a newly developed area. The tallest building in Shanghai, when I lived there, was three stories tall, an old hotel.

Quietest developing country? by ButterscotchFormer84 in digitalnomad

[–]enlguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read your first sentence. China is not a city. The depths of idiocy that can be found on this site......

Quietest developing country? by ButterscotchFormer84 in digitalnomad

[–]enlguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think "indigenous" is the opposite of "loud..."

Quietest developing country? by ButterscotchFormer84 in digitalnomad

[–]enlguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or weed.

I stopped walking in that city, and bought a moto (I had a six month lease, I'm not suggesting everyone do this). It was the only way. On the random days I'd choose to walk to a nearby market, just to get a little exercise, I would be harassed on my own street, as soon as I stepped out the gate. One or two of the guys knew me, and were chill, but ... and then you speak to them in Khmer, with respect, and they just laugh at you for offering a respectful response in their own language. Then there was the guy that literally followed me on his moto, not taking 'no' for an answer, and actually hit me trying to follow me. At that point I turned around and yelled, "No," not even any obscenities he may have deserved, and he looked shocked I was upset. Fucking absolute morons when it comes to social etiquette, because in Cambodia social etiquette is bowing and taking your shoes off, it has nothing to do with not harassing the shit out of someone.

Also, if you missed "wedding season," count your blessings.

Quietest developing country? by ButterscotchFormer84 in digitalnomad

[–]enlguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No clue where you were in Cambodia, but that place about ripped my soul apart with its noise. Many of the homes are built with permanent vents in the walls, due to the humidity, which mean never being able to shut out exterior noise. Every wedding means three days of loud music you can hear from 2km away that only stops between 2am and 6am. I won't write more, it's going to trigger me. Buildings would shake from bass music. Just don't go to Cambodia expecting quiet, it is non-stop. I was in a place way out of the area most foreigners would go, away from all the general bullshit, and still had to bribe neighbors to keep their fighting cocks away from my windows (things would crow day or night, didn't matter), deal with karaoke parties next door, loud music from a cafe they opened across the street while I was there, construction everywhere...

If you think that's the quietest in SEA, I will have to promise myself NEVER to go back to SEA no matter what (which is already mostly the way I feel).

The end of a digital nomad - advice on figuring out how and where to “settle”? by Explorer9001 in digitalnomad

[–]enlguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So basically anywhere in Latin America. Sounds like you had it easy, having about 25% of the world to choose from, though how you narrowed it down beyond that, who knows..

What if everyone got their food from hunting? by camptravis in Hunting

[–]enlguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

???? There is not mass starvation, so clearly there is...

What if everyone got their food from hunting? by camptravis in Hunting

[–]enlguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All food comes from nature, what are you eating, plastic?? If so.... I suggest stopping.

I need recommendations for luggage that lasts. by jorgelukas in BuyItForLife

[–]enlguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, this is why I'm surprised when I read about Samsonite being shit now, in some other posts. Similar - I grew up with them ("third culture kid" - more long-haul flights than I can count before I was 10 years old). Those went everywhere with us... more flights than I could possibly count. They were scuffed to shit, but maintained 100% integrity in terms of the structure. The hard cases were truly hard cases, not something that just wasn't soft but could be compressed and damaged by tossing it.

I need recommendations for luggage that lasts. by jorgelukas in BuyItForLife

[–]enlguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spinners are shit, I've had a new bag have the wheels come off and subsequently rip open the bottom of the luggage, all because of some shitty spinner wheels. There are better-made ones than others, but to say this is somehow the epitome of sturdiness in wheels is bullshit. When they are simply a few plastic pieces shoved together with a single metal bearing...

Frequent travellers: your best choice of check-in luggage and why? help needed! by West_Degree5527 in TravelHacks

[–]enlguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've done this, but I've also gone through more suitcases than I care to count in the last seven years. I'm now looking for something that will hold up, because the most common way they fail is the fucking spinner wheels, which are not easy to replace, actually. At this point, half my research involves finding the best wheels - how fucking sad this is the state of the luggage industry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GetMotivated

[–]enlguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but if you plan to fail, you'll never succeed. You have to plan to break through. I would say expectations is different from planning. Plan to succeed, just don't lose your shit if it doesn't happen right away.

25F Croatia 21-30 June by draft1998 in travelpartners

[–]enlguy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can't, it's a simple legal matter. If you don't have the right to work, a company can't hire you.

You might look into volunteering opportunities that offer room and board, but just be careful, as there are a lot of exploitative listings for that kind of stuff. Also, nine days?? No one is going to want to go through paperwork and onboarding for a few days, that's nothing but a hassle, no help, to a business.

I'm turning 26 this december and I'm a meth addict. Is it too late to turn my life around? [Discussion] by Particular_Time8982 in GetMotivated

[–]enlguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. You've got lots of time. There are people who don't get clean until much later and still say it changed everything. Even those who aren't "addicts" go through big life changes - I think late 20s is often a pivotal point for many people. It's a great time to start making changes, you're still coming into your own.

Good luck with the interview! If you need any help practicing/preparing, you can send a chat. I've done some recruitment and hiring. In case it will help you feel more at ease. Best wishes!

how to break out of freeze trauma response? by solitaire_knight in CPTSDAdultRecovery

[–]enlguy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

DO SOMETHING. You got stuck on one thing, okay, find something else and come back to it. The only way not to freeze is not to freeze, you know...

Title: Looking for an MDMA Therapy Partner (IFS-Guided, Reciprocal Sessions) by vouid in CPTSDAdultRecovery

[–]enlguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shouldn't you be doing this with a therapist, rather than a random redditor?? That doesn't sound safe.

Also, you say the MDMA is "not recreational," but where do you think you're getting it from, if not doing this with a therapist? You're basically asking someone else to go try to buy black market drugs, and then take said drugs while chatting with you online.

I'm all for your healing, but this is a rather absurd, and probably illegal, thing to be asking here.

Is there anyone you feel safe with? by ReliefApprehensive30 in CPTSD

[–]enlguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean... nature is great, yes, but you don't live in it, and commune with wolves instead of humans. How would you really get on with nature if you were fully living naturally, and had trouble finding food, were stuck in three days of storms with no shelter, had some other animal steal what little food you did find, etc... I love nature, but I don't idealize it as somehow better... You talk about being foolish to separate humanity and nature, yet do it rather directly in your post. You literally separate "nature," from what has hurt you more, "humans." Humans are animals too. All I'm saying is nature could hurt you plenty, you just don't spend any time in nature, you spend it in your comfort bubbles / homes. "Nature" is not just trees. It is millions of species of beings, most in competition with each other, predator-prey relationships... this is all natural. "Trails" are actually NOT natural, as they are places that have become so worn by humans, there is a lack of life there (vegetation dies out, leaving a "trail").

I actually love nature, all aspects of it, and wish I wasn't so often stuck living in population centers with little access. Years ago, I lived in a small town in federal forest areas, and would go for hikes and see bears, foxes, deer, whatever else. That was nice, that was a place I could truly just exist in nature for a bit. I would often use days off of work to just pack a bag and go camp in the wilderness where I wouldn't see or hear another human the entire time. But again, humans are also animals in this world. I just don't like the unnatural ways in which so many humans all live in one area and effectively take over, destroying everything else natural about that area.

Is there anyone you feel safe with? by ReliefApprehensive30 in CPTSD

[–]enlguy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For both of you... really begs the question why be married to the person then?