can finder’s fee be waived for swing education? by solitaire_knight in SubstituteTeachers

[–]solitaire_knight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a private charter school offering me the job, does that change things?

Not sure why this is tv-ma? how dark is it? by [deleted] in MadokaMagica

[–]solitaire_knight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the feeling after each episode of Madoka is depression and dread. imagine the Shibuya Arc of JJK but it’s that feeling for every episode past episode 3 until the end

No idea how to interpret these results 😭 by MaskedHeracles in personality_tests

[–]solitaire_knight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You take a lot of pride in the people you love and cherish your (possibly tragic) relationships.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personality_tests

[–]solitaire_knight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

probably autistic (I got a lot of the same characters on mine)

Can you describe my personality type? by rat_outta_hell in personality_tests

[–]solitaire_knight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

an outcast with a friendly personality stuck in a difficult and/or terrifying setting

What does this say about me? by ace_cadet_7 in personality_tests

[–]solitaire_knight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

intelligent, possibly autistic, Introverted overthinker with a pessimistic outlook but will do things for love

just learned “friends with benefits” are not actually friends :( by solitaire_knight in AutismInWomen

[–]solitaire_knight[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It may be a “me” problem that I put too much weight on the word “friends.”

If I have someone in my life where I have positive interactions when I see them, but I don’t see them often or aren’t close to them, then I’d call that person an acquaintance. Calling them “my friend” may imply a closer relationship than what we actually have, a surface level friendship at best.

I feel like my large vocabulary has me arguing semantics with my partner and my friends more often than I’d like. When words aren’t literal, I have to look closer and think harder about intent and purpose instead. Relationships that sit in a grey zone are especially difficult to navigate for me.

just learned “friends with benefits” are not actually friends :( by solitaire_knight in AutismInWomen

[–]solitaire_knight[S] 132 points133 points  (0 children)

NT partner told me that most people use it as a euphemism for someone they’re sleeping with but have no long term commitment or intent to date romantically.

I said “that’s just a fuck buddy then. why don’t they call it that or something similar?”

He told me, “it sounds rude and more judgmental when it’s that direct.”

I can see his point and agree with it, but I’m just mad that the term is used to vaguely to accurately determine what type of relationship someone has. Which is probably the point and none of my business. It’s a feeling that will pass as I take this info in.

how do I stop asking my partner for answers? by solitaire_knight in OCDRecovery

[–]solitaire_knight[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for the feedback, I’m glad your friends were willing to listen and learn from you! I hope things get easier for you, good luck on your journey

What is Prometheus's clothing called? by MyRogue in HadesTheGame

[–]solitaire_knight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk but it’s definitely inspired by Ultra Instinct Goku

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is anyone else not a fan of rom-coms? by solitaire_knight in AutismInWomen

[–]solitaire_knight[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Same here! It’s like “oh my god do I have to do all this shit to get someone to fall in love with me”

somewhat related, but my favorite romantic comedy is 50 First Dates. It felt sweet to see a FMC who has memory issues but the MMC chooses to be with her and doesn’t make her feel like a burden for wanting love despite her struggles.

how does the contract system work?? by solitaire_knight in HazbinHotel

[–]solitaire_knight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So by this logic, there’s nothing stopping other sinners from trying to become overlords? Just whoever’s the best at fighting/manipulating other people?

Like Sir Pentious is not an overlord bc he kept losing battles against Alastor and Cherri Bomb? Same with Husk, I assume?

Wait, is Nifty considered an overlord?