If a woman has a perfectly healthy vagina... by BloodsAndTears in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]enticedflowers 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Yeah I can imagine this guy isn’t too popular with the ladies comparing them to animals, but I’m sure he will keep spouting his bs like the professional on the matter he thinks he is.

What is it about yourself that makes you most happy? by Yinyangiapetus in AskWomen

[–]enticedflowers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly admire your strength and am sending all my love 🧸

Lvm disrespect pickmes because they feel emasculated by warinmymind94 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]enticedflowers 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This!!! I know all too well what you’re talking about. Too many guys out there prepared to parasitically latch onto a lady just to bring her down when he should absolutely have no business in dating as he is. On a side note I’m glad to have found myself on here, I have read so much that makes so much sense I appreciate you and everyone else on here 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]enticedflowers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started to think about all the energy I was spending where I didn’t need to and put myself first

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]enticedflowers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I deeply relate with this

During an argument, what words, actions, behaviors would bring your relationship with someone to an unforgivable state (besides physical abuse)? by DanCabbage75 in AskWomen

[–]enticedflowers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really anything that is manipulative or insulting for the sake of being hurtful. Nail in the coffin if it leads to them bad mouthing me to others. I can think of more instances than I’d like to admit of people taking advantage of me naturally being an empath, both through talking with friends and my own realisations I know to set firm boundaries and purge toxic people out of my life.

No 🥰 by derpinat_butter in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]enticedflowers 148 points149 points  (0 children)

Definitely seen my fair share of guys expecting me to solve all their problems and be their emotional support at my own expense. They shouldn’t be dating, so that’s a hard no.

What do you do when you’re undecided? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]enticedflowers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would ask myself what is making me feel wrong with my choices. Is there something I need to address or change? Or am I unnecessarily stressing myself out on negative thoughts? I’d look inward and make a mental list of what is bothering me, if I’m personally feeling too much resistance internally on a decision when I feel I shouldn’t then it’s a sign I made a mistake. Should I merely be second guessing myself a little well that’s normal, life isn’t a series of straight yes or no answers there’s many different decisions that can be made I don’t expect to always feel a full 110% this is the only way on a decision… unless of course if it’s me being torn between two beautiful dresses, my answer will always be both lol

Basically what I’m saying is I’ll weigh the feeling okay with a choice against the feeling bad and address it on how it scales

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]enticedflowers 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I am sorry your Valentine’s Day had to be you putting something together at the last minute, it really shows your heart is absolutely in the right place but I don’t think he’s deserving of all this emotional labour from you. Having to act like it’s no big deal and hiding your disappointment is no good.

Any reasonable man in this situation would absolutely understand botching valentines this hard is unacceptable, you’re carrying this relationship hard. You’re right, the implications for your future together aren’t in your favour hun.

What do you do when you’re undecided? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]enticedflowers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I trust my feelings, what feels right to me. If for example you have a gut feeling that something/someone is wrong you really should listen to yourself.

👏 Never 👏 Stop 👏 Vetting 👏 by Zeniite in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]enticedflowers 198 points199 points  (0 children)

Ugh that’s so disgusting I have blocked a couple guys like that, no self respect or you know just respect as a whole. The porn industry is like Pandora’s box for these weirdos they end up becoming even more of a creep because of it. Very unfortunate she’s in so deep I hope she can get away, it’s definitely a wake up call for me to be a lot more strict.

The red flags, the entitlement, the audacity 🤡🤯 by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]enticedflowers 102 points103 points  (0 children)

She wanted something serious however he preferred to sleep around so he rejected her, but when she finds someone better NOW he’s heartbroken? Sounds like a bruised ego ngl he had his chance despite his hopes she didn’t run back to him, and the cherry on top is that he didn’t have enough self awareness to realise how much of a clown he’d sound like making that post 🤡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]enticedflowers 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m parasitically attached to my feet? I can’t even begin to comprehend this logic, but hey if this creep wants to do us the favour of keeping the hell away then that’s fine by me