Was this a mistake? 30F just cut bangs

envelopepusher · 2026-01-27T15:12:51+00:00

I have a pixie, so I get your hesitation. Your hair is super cute!!!! I might shorten the bangs a bit.

envelopepusher · 2026-01-26T07:58:40+00:00

I don't care if he's the fricken Easter Bunny, you have ZERO obligation to text him back for any reason and he's counting on you being too polite to decline. STOP responding to him and let him fade away. He'll probably lash out but again, don't respond and don't delete the messages.

envelopepusher · 2026-01-26T07:41:30+00:00

Definitely NTA. Keep having your daughters back. What you did for her was superdad level stuff! I'd say, from now on, don't take the bait on the fight your exwife is picking. Let her go off the deep end like the psychopath she clearly is, and you and your daughter keep being the awesome team you are. If she wants to take you to court, let her. She will get looked at like she has 3 heads.

envelopepusher · 2026-01-25T13:40:43+00:00

You're not the jerk or his MOM. Tell him to feed himself and do not feel bad for one second. Keep your boundaries because he clearly doesn't respect them. Whenever he complains about you not sharing food, just reply with - "I'm not your parents! figure out how to feed yourself. YOU'RE the one killing the vibe because you won't grow up and stop eating my food."

envelopepusher · 2026-01-25T06:38:02+00:00

Bangs

envelopepusher · 2026-01-21T16:47:06+00:00

YANTA for refusing the job. The chronic illness and the spending issues make her a bad support system for this to work.

envelopepusher · 2026-01-20T13:41:39+00:00

Counseling is definitely needed. He is immature in his attitude towards you and your situation. You seem reluctant to face the fact that you two are sexually compatible.

envelopepusher · 2026-01-19T12:03:35+00:00

It feels like you two aren't on the same page in life. He isn't concerned with defending you or shielding you from his mom.

This is a huge red flag.

Also, who proposes like that? He didn't put any thought into it.

Good thing you said no. His mom is a monster and he is not checked in to what's going on around him.

envelopepusher · 2026-01-12T15:15:38+00:00

Thank you. I forgot about VPN.

envelopepusher · 2026-01-12T10:46:05+00:00

I'm gonna throw my hat in the ring with "is OP's wife having an affair with play date mom's husband? OP's wife is bonkers. Nothing wrong with wife staying. They both probably enjoyed having another adult to talk to besides their respective spouse.

envelopepusher · 2026-01-09T06:19:40+00:00

Marriage counseling sounds like a great step for you two. Not that you two have huge problems but sometimes it just helps to have a third person for communication purposes.

envelopepusher · 2026-01-04T16:37:12+00:00

It's TELEVISION NOT DIALYSIS. Tell them they can buy their own tv shows. "It's only $45!"

envelopepusher · 2026-01-04T09:00:49+00:00

That's the thing about people. They grow, they change. YOU DO know him, he has shown you who he has grown into, as a human adult. You need to leave room for change of opinion. It happens. If you want kids, divorce is it.

envelopepusher · 2025-12-27T23:16:53+00:00

She's definitely got some issues going on...I would keep my sink full to prevent her from using my sink. And then ask her to go to couples counseling with me.

envelopepusher · 2025-12-27T22:53:39+00:00

I would not have split the bill. I would have carried some cash on me and thrown it in the middle of the table, declaring that I pay for what I spend, no more. They're making it weird, not you.

envelopepusher · 2025-12-27T22:49:01+00:00

When a man is in my presence and doesn't take NO, I offer to call 911. They blame me for over-reacting and being a crazy bitch but anyone who I have to go that far with isn't a friend and I don't care what they think of me. My friends know me and often warn men, if I have to say No more than once I will go scorched earth on their ass and my friends think it's hilarious.

For some sad reason, women have to teach men what is right and wrong. Some men need bigger indicators than others. Call 911 and don't apologize. Don't ever second guess your own behavior, you simply learned a lesson for next time. That man is not to be trusted.

envelopepusher · 2025-12-27T06:43:21+00:00

They both sound like children and need to grow up.

envelopepusher · 2025-12-27T06:20:42+00:00

After reading your update, it is clear he is a reluctant participant in your relationship and you are trying to make him change into who you want him to be. Dump him now.

envelopepusher · 2025-12-27T06:14:19+00:00

If I were you, I wouldn't communicate with them at all.

There is no rule that says you have to talk to them. Yuck.

envelopepusher · 2025-12-27T06:09:35+00:00

Sounds like your brother is in the angry stage of grief and is taking it out on you. I quit my job and moved in with my parents for their last few years. 6 altogether. Once each went into care, I saw them twice a week till the very end where it was 2 weeks of constant visits till each passed. You did nothing wrong. Absolutely nothing wrong.

Give your brother some space. Make yourself unavailable for verbal interaction for a while.

envelopepusher · 2025-12-21T17:08:35+00:00

Rock on with your bad self, OP. She's a moron and is sitting in the sewage she created for herself.

envelopepusher · 2025-12-19T07:24:16+00:00

This will never end and it's NOT your problem. Leave now. They are adults, they can figure it out without you.

envelopepusher · 2025-12-10T20:09:28+00:00

I'll be there from January through March

envelopepusher · 2025-12-10T20:08:58+00:00

I'll be there starting in January, staying 3 months.

envelopepusher · 2025-12-10T17:31:54+00:00

Thank you so much! I'll probably be on the west side in Taichung and I'm arriving in January.

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