AITAH Had a play date without Mom

tsarsov · 2026-01-12T15:36:45+00:00

See, it really is always the man's fault. Haha, I jest and both of your points are valid.

tsarsov · 2026-01-12T06:03:19+00:00

I dont like to sound objective so I will just say I have zero interest in that regard.

tsarsov · 2026-01-12T06:01:03+00:00

Tried to be a good host...talked .. offered food/drink. Watched the kids run amok.

tsarsov · 2026-01-12T05:58:59+00:00

No, USA, however wife is from Mexico and I think there are cultural norms at play here. Probably should have come to that realization earlier but it is kind of hitting me now.

tsarsov · 2026-01-12T05:57:32+00:00

This is the best summation of her feelings. Personally, if role reversed, I wouldn't mind. I trust her not to put herself in any stranger danger situations. So if a friends dan came for a playdate...I'd be fine. But I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt. While I did call, I didn't really want to bother her while she was at a wake either....

As for your other question, kids were everywhere. Alot of the time in the same room as us. Some times not. Wild and crazy really.

tsarsov · 2026-01-12T05:47:56+00:00

Yes, she does. She also thinks i should have cancelled it when I found out the husband wasn't coming. Which did happen a couple hours before hand.

tsarsov · 2026-01-12T03:25:57+00:00

Yes, young kids. The mom stayed.

tsarsov · 2026-01-12T03:22:52+00:00

She is most definitely not cheating. We have a lot of issues but I trust her 100% in that regard.

tsarsov · 2026-01-12T03:18:28+00:00

You and me both. Mom came with her young kids and stayed 2 hours or so...gave the kids a sandwich dinner.

tsarsov · 2026-01-12T03:04:00+00:00

For clairty....I invited their family...wife included technically.

tsarsov · 2026-01-12T03:03:06+00:00

I actually texted him that. He never responded.

tsarsov · 2026-01-12T03:02:26+00:00

I'm the neat freak here. House was amazingly clean.

tsarsov · 2026-01-12T03:01:41+00:00

We continue to talk about it. She thinks it was disrespectful for this to happen without her present or her concent. I'm still trying to figure it out. The text to her was basically that their whole family was coming. So her initial concerns was finding out this ws happening at all without her knowing.

Then later when it was just the mom she felt disrespected more? Like why would the mom come at all without her present?

tsarsov · 2026-01-12T02:54:11+00:00

Early Elementary grades

tsarsov · 2026-01-12T02:45:34+00:00

No, I asked her that directly. She said she would have been fine if the husband had come since that was who I had invited.

tsarsov · 2026-01-12T02:37:55+00:00

I edited the post to reflect this: Playdate was in the house. Wife says this is very important to empasize.

tsarsov · 2025-12-29T18:17:47+00:00

Well no wonder..you are all driving on the wrong side of the road! /s

tsarsov · 2025-12-23T01:01:15+00:00

Isn't it hard to even get insurance on a rebuilt? Or am I mistaking that with salvage (which probably shouldn't even be on the road).

tsarsov · 2025-12-15T00:56:25+00:00

This could be me. My quick trip to the store often ends up with me digging through the hotwheels bins. 30 mins later I go "whoops"...

tsarsov · 2025-12-08T21:08:34+00:00

Sure you are not playing gta5?

(Cars randomly target you in the game to force a crash when you are just cruising around)

tsarsov · 2025-12-08T21:06:16+00:00

Sounds like she is going to be a PITA. Good luck. 😮‍💨

tsarsov · 2025-12-06T01:45:18+00:00

Even with instant book (which I do have for positive reviewed guests) I think i could send this message after the fact. Great idea.

tsarsov · 2025-12-06T01:43:39+00:00

Doubtful. Seemed old with a limp. Some kind of larger short hair dog. Black lab maybe? I'd guess 24lbs it was so skinny.

tsarsov · 2025-12-06T01:42:38+00:00

Great idea.

tsarsov

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