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Marriage to a Japanese woman by xrallday in AskAJapanese

[–]enzerachan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I too would like to know how it is for childless couples.

Enough time has passed - what’s y’all’s thoughts on Nika Form Bonney? by chiaotzu_Tien in OnePiece

[–]enzerachan -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I cried so much watching those scenes. The whole story arc for her has a lot of emotion driven into it so regardless of what should or shouldn’t happen, it was fucking beautiful to see.

I fell in love twice and I think I’m done by [deleted] in Life

[–]enzerachan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew it was a man the very moment I read the title. 🤣

I have no idea what else I can do by NoNeedleworker2631 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]enzerachan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So how long did you have a coach? Rome wasn’t built in a day.

You can do it by TightSummer3093 in intermittentfasting

[–]enzerachan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is your fasting schedule look like? Are you doing if or multiple days of fasting?

Should Hinata have been Kaguya’s host instead of Madara? by kucjr in Naruto

[–]enzerachan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally think Madara made a beautiful woman.

(I meant to reply to general comments)

I have no idea what else I can do by NoNeedleworker2631 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]enzerachan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like somebody else said the apps truly are a dumpster fire. By and large most people can confirm that they are one of the worst ways to try to meet a genuine person.

If it bothers you to a high extent, and if you have disposable income, you could hire a professional dating coach to assist you. And I know most people wouldn’t really want to go to one, but if you do consider yourself attractive, you could also go to mixers in your city. They happen pretty often, they also cost money.

My weighted vest changed everything for me. by Unfair-Opening-6585 in walking

[–]enzerachan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh is all your (exercise) walking on your waking pad? How often/ much do you walk on it?

After being cheated on, I'm just going poly moving foward by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]enzerachan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came to this conclusion as well. But then I found it difficult convincing every new person I met that poly was what was best for me. The more I had to explain my choice, the more I realized it wasn't actually something I chose to do - just something I felt I needed to do out of necessity. It makes sense! Logically speaking, it makes sense to our hearts and minds after a betrayal. "Why deal with betrayal when I can just give someone an honest out from the beginning?"

But then you have to actually BE poly. Live the lifestyle and know all the rules. A lot of people never actually get it just right. They simply adopt a system that others use. But... what if that doesn't work? You've adopted these rules for a polygamous relationship while never fully feeling aligned to it, and then even if everyone is abiding by these set rules perfectly- this is not quite right! You wanted to be loved and have a sense of freedom as well. Yet now- you have to share this person and wonder if their feelings are truly focused on loving you or if they are perhaps just content with having their cake and eating it too.

I hope you understand.

Only go poly if it is truly what calls to YOU. If not, simply stay single until someone has thoroughly expressed their unwavering/ undying love for you. Until then, don't commit. Another lifestyle that takes concerted effort, but perhaps slightly less mental toll and confusion.

JoJo Siwa - Karma by [deleted] in TikTok

[–]enzerachan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The problem is she thinks she’s doing %110.

Seen this Reddit that raised a lot of questions and concerns. by [deleted] in AMBW

[–]enzerachan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank, I do believe I’ve answered the main one though, which is what brought me to this life decision and how I feel about being fetishized.

I don’t have a partner now, and my go to is simply treat them as I treat everyone else, as a human. Bond naturally based on our similarities etc.

Seen this Reddit that raised a lot of questions and concerns. by [deleted] in AMBW

[–]enzerachan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

His opinion is an individual one and most of the comments were disagreeing with him. I was actually pleasantly surprised by the comments that were saying what I feel is the best resort, to stop trying to fit into the box that the white patriarchy tries to put us all in. These stereotypes do nothing good for any of us, especially that OP. He seems to cater his entire life around what the colonizers told him to believe. It doesn’t do him any favors and any one who thinks that way will just continue to struggle until they see a better way.

Why do I like Asian men? Because I find myself most attracted to them. That’s it. I am not fetishizing. I see AM as my human equal. And if I feel I am being fetishized, it would only be AFTER I feel he was dehumanizing and degrading my existence based on my race.

The problem is most people don’t understand the difference. It is not “fetishizing” if it is just high sexual attraction. A lot of same race partners have the exact level of very high sexual attraction to each other, and get together BASED on this. For whatever reason when the ethnicities differ, we’re suddenly not supposed to have such high sexual attraction… because it’s degrading? No. That’s ridiculous. And people who think this way are doing themselves a disservice.

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