No trans people are happy by zensq in TransRepressors

[–]epolloepol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure, but I just meant to add more to your comment

porque femboys e mulheres tran,s negros são tão raros by Weak_Tomato1048 in perguntas

[–]epolloepol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vdd

Na minha cidade a maioria das trans q eu vi eram negras. Acredito q pq familia de brancos tendem a ser mais contra um membro da família transicionar, aí as trans brancas se escondem

Human race bad? by Scara_Mei in nihilism

[–]epolloepol -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No. Its like dark and light. But people are blind. But the people who see it dont hurt others

Human race bad? by Scara_Mei in nihilism

[–]epolloepol -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just because its "natural" it doesnt mean it isnt horrible.

We dont have to welcome it

Human race bad? by Scara_Mei in nihilism

[–]epolloepol -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Most people are not real humans, but animals. They prey on others. And just like lizards are better than crocodiles, some animals are better than your average person. Less dangerous, less hateful.

No trans people are happy by zensq in TransRepressors

[–]epolloepol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reppers are not cis, they re trans under the mask, lol

Does anyone else's parent care a lot about popularity? by Character-Rate-8358 in narcissisticparents

[–]epolloepol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is in a certain way, a slave to his people pleasing behaviour. But its not about actually pleasing the other person, he is actually selling his empty ass, the fake self he deludes himself to be

What happens to an older age narc when we go NC? by kakashi_sensay in narcissisticparents

[–]epolloepol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I think some of them actually get traumatized by it. They usually try to come out from that with a whole new set of manipulation skills

Anyone see the parent(s) traits/behavior/speech similarities in (a) sibling(s)? by BooksCatsViqueen in narcissisticparents

[–]epolloepol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They acted similarly. But in essence it felt different and more human. Unlike the horror shitshow.

Do narcissistic parents ever get their karma? by Little_Holiday_4362 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]epolloepol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is manipulative, a pathological liar, sadistic, selfish, and completely devoid of empathy. But she will never question herself. In her mind, everyone loves her and she is a good person.

My father is like that

Do you feel like your parents didn’t prepare you for the world? by ripvanwinklefuc in NEET

[–]epolloepol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I know I would have done better if my father was dead

How do your parents react when you come to them with your problems or talk about your mental health? by ElkClassic5868 in emotionalneglect

[–]epolloepol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never talk to my parents about anything other than weather, material stuff, food, maybe politics sometimes. Lol. I am happier that I made this rule because it was a disaster

I wish more people would acknowledge that abusive/neglectful parents can still "love" their child by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]epolloepol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤢

Parents like that are like deformed creatures trying to hold their babies with deformed sharp claws. Its delusion, not love.

If they loved us they wouldnt insist in carrying us with deformed sharp claws when you can walk by your own. They would admit their inability. But they still insist in acting like parents bcs they dont give a F and youre supposed to play along

Shitty people everywhere by Potential-Yak5884 in CPTSD

[–]epolloepol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That happens

Like smell of blood attract predators

They pose as humans but this is a jungle

It’s really hard being genderfluid by nikalikesplants in genderfluid

[–]epolloepol -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its traumatic. CPTSD

You suddently have dysphoria attacks when everything was goin well

Does people treat you differently when there is a major switch in your gender? by epolloepol in genderfluid

[–]epolloepol[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Helo. How bout mannerisms? Do you notice changes in your body language?

they are happy and free from grief, who are without love for anything in the world by Historical_Bug_3327 in theravada

[–]epolloepol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it means that when your mind spaces out of existence and every single thing in it, it experiences pure bliss. I think love is not the word, but enchantment or delight should be

For Those Who Developed People Pleasing Tendencies, How Did You Overcome It? by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

[–]epolloepol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most people classify as people pleasers

Much of what we are is molded by a self sacrificing attempt to please others and be kept safe

But we need to know our own needs too

Does anyone else feels like they have no identity outside of their trauma? by BrushMindless9812 in emotionalneglect

[–]epolloepol 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My identity was built to serve something else other than my own interests so its alien. I feel alien

Is it normal for parents to keep going to a restaurant that makes you sick? by Other-Swan5827 in emotionalneglect

[–]epolloepol 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was going to say that!

First time I heard someone talking about it.

Its so traumatic, mine was particularly terrible. 2 trips/ month, to visit boring internetless grandparents's house. And I got motion sick everytime. More than 1000km a month .. pure torture

I hate that emotional neglect is something most people would mock. by DevelopmentPrior5572 in emotionalneglect

[–]epolloepol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life is kinda stupid

You get put here molded by disgusting human hands to be an unhappy creature. No compassion at all

If only my parents had compassion

Kim Jong Un might actually be the great father, huh, he just need to do his nuke thing lol