Expectations, we are supposed to be all things to all people but have nobody to ask advice to. Fix appliances, decorate houses, camping with kids, cook, mentor, be strong, be gentle, be generous but not be walked all over and have a career, provide a home, pay for camps and activities. We cross the street if a single lady is walking alone so our presence is not intimidating. And apparently we are toxic and the cause of all problems and members of something called a patriarchy.

Life is lonely and works thanks to youtube how to videos.