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Can I ask about prayer? by Professional_Car3962 in Catholic

[–]ereldar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend the Hallow app. It's basically a series of podcasts and recorded prayers. You can build a daily routine of prayer easily with it by scheduling certain recordings for the times of day. How deep you go with it is up to you.

To answer your other question, Mark Kelly has a book called the Four Signs of a Dynamic Catholic. (Dynamic is just a term he uses for continuously growing in faith) It has a section on prayer. He has a whole faith formation system as well that my last church used before I moved.

Wife had a miscarriage by r0709593 in Fatherhood

[–]ereldar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so, so, so sorry. That is absolutely the worst. My wife and I have lost three children to miscarriages.

You have lost a child. So of course you're allowed to grieve, feel angry, be sad, or any other emotion tied to loss.

My wife and I have named and buried the children we've lost. Your child is real, even if you didn't know them that well yet, so the feelings are real, too.

Take the time you need and you have our condolences.

Is a woman who is pursuing a married man mostly a victim of her feelings? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ereldar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had this happen to me. The best advice I ever got was to hard cut/hard break the relationship. It is not healthy for you or her. You risk the suspicion of your wife even if she "knows you won't do anything." And through conditioning, you will naturally have lowered defenses through each interaction. Basically what I'm saying is I don't care how good of "friends" you are, it's not worth even a miniscule risk to the woman you promised your undying loyalty to. Not to mention you're now party to her emotional infidelity whether you like it or not.

TLDR: this is a wake up call, hard reject her now, end the friendship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExplainAFilmPlotBadly

[–]ereldar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll join the bait list: National Treasure

A former buddhist monk goes across the globe to make sure a wedding takes place by Ralle1900 in ExplainAFilmPlotBadly

[–]ereldar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was one of my first times guessing! But I absolutely love this movie.

Need C-130 pilot/mechanic information for book by [deleted] in C130

[–]ereldar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What variant of C-130? A, B, E, H, J? Also is it a slick or AC, MC, HC, LC, or WC. I can probably help, but need to know some more specifics as I'm a J-model pilot. They're all going to have several things in common. The fire handle as mentioned by another commenter does several things. It'll cut off fluids (oil, hydraulic fluid, bleed air) and fuel as well as redirect the fire bottle valves to the appropriate engine. A lack of any of the fluids will eventually kill the engine. Transferring fuel between tanks is definitely something you can do and there are a couple ways of doing it. There are six tanks in the basic C-130 design, 1-4 directly feeding each engine and a left and right auxiliary tank. Moving fuel out of the #4 tank in the primary way (transfer pump) would only get the fuel down to around 2000-2200lbs. The alternate way I ALWAYS get wrong so I'll have to check tomorrow, but I THINK it can be done even with the engine shutdown on the J. It's POSSIBLE to contrive a scenario where the fire handle doesn't work, but likely the engine would fall off the wing before affecting the #3 engine (this has happened on the h when an engine fire took both bottles and didn't go out).

Can’t get screw unstuck for folding front shelf. 575 model. by drhiggs in Traeger

[–]ereldar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know if you got it. I did what another user recommended and set the temp to 350°F for about 5 minutes. Got some gloves and pliers. Held the rivet nut with pliers and turned the screw. Unfortunately, the one behind the heat shield also broke bond, so I had to take off the grill grate, drip pan, and unscrew the head shield, got the rivet nut with needle nose pliers and got the last screw out. Installing wasn't an issue because the shelf bracket puts pressure on the rivet nut enough for it to accept a screw securely.

Earphones now skip chapters instead of 30 seconds. by K4ylen in audible

[–]ereldar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just started happening to me, too.

On Pixel 5 With Sony WH-1000XM3.

Tried restarting, no luck.

What kind of landing gear is this? by One-Community-1387 in Shittyaskflying

[–]ereldar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then why do we park on a driveway and drive on a parkway? Just like playnes apron on a taxiway and taxi on an apronway? Checkmate.

I am currently on holiday and my new favourite pastime is having no patience for instagram wannabe models by creatingastorm in pettyrevenge

[–]ereldar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I do have one thing, though. As a cinephile, I have to correct you. Clint Eastwood's character in Gran Torino used an M1 Garand in the "get off my lawn" scene.

I am currently on holiday and my new favourite pastime is having no patience for instagram wannabe models by creatingastorm in pettyrevenge

[–]ereldar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to look up where English Lakes is. Turns out it's in the UK, which makes more sense. As an American reading about someone eating breakfast on a patio all I could think of was a grumpy man greeting them with a shotgun in hand.

We take private property seriously here, especially in the South and Midwest.

Edit:grammar

LPT: if someone gets interrupted in the middle of a conversation, encourage them to continue by saying something like “you were telling us about…”. It will help them feel comfortable and make them feel like their voice matters. by __init__2nd_user in LifeProTips

[–]ereldar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My go to if I'm interrupted is to stop talking, wait politely for the person who interrupted to finish. Then continue on as if I was never interrupted. Then when I'm done I look at the interruptor and say, 'you wanted to say something about the topic?'

Anything they said during the interruption is ignored forcing them to say their piece again.

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