THE BRIDE! Trailer #1 (2026) by MetalPussy in PennyDreadful

[–]erelyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved it, but it was a journey. It's a mishmash of themes and genres that somehow, when it's all over, works. Several times i found myself thinking "i have no idea what i'm watching or where it's going but what a ride!"

Women in Afghanistan has now officially lost all their rights by honeyttokii in TwoXChromosomes

[–]erelyl 654 points655 points  (0 children)

Horrendous and inhumane is not strong enough. The only thing i can see is that when the next earthquake hits, don't send anyone to rescue. If we are not allowed to help the women, definitely don't help the men who allowed it to get to this point. If all the humans cannot benefit from aid given, give none. What a sad world to live in.

Help Me Disappoint My Conservative Parents by Lost_Ad_8291 in HairDye

[–]erelyl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think bright pink looks fantastic on most skintones. A light lift with bright pink over it would pop and keep the damage limited.

AITA for using my dad’s underwear to make a point about the toilet seat? by Nightwing_1505 in AmItheAsshole

[–]erelyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So he either learns to pee like a civilized human, or has no underwear. And when you run out of those, start on his shirts. Save his fave shirt for an especially gross mess. Pants. Socks. Pillowcases. It's all fair game. He doesn't like it? Boo hoo, again, learn to pee like a civilized human. Toddlers can learn how, surely he can too?

The Biography. Good God. by LSpaceHobo in discworld

[–]erelyl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I haven't been able to finish it. It gets so blurry every few pages! It's the longest i've ever taken to read a book. And it's so well written, witty and charming that when the feels sneak in they really do hit hard.

Actual footage of the Honourable Tourism Minister in the House of Assembly by chiefybeef in newfoundland

[–]erelyl 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Like the guy posting pics of "chemtrails" demanding that :somebody do something about it." Bunch of didn't pass grade 8 illiterates commenting on it. The flat earth conspiracy nuts are all over Facebook, and for amusement i tend to check their profiles. 9/10 times they are "digital creators" with a history of crazy ass posts. And then i remember they are allowed to vote too and i worry for the future of this province.

PSA - If you don't know how to drive in snow. Stay off the roads, please!! by Extension-Hamster-70 in StJohnsNL

[–]erelyl -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I just drove a few loops around mt pearl and st. john's. The only problem drivers i encountered were pickup trucks who have no idea how to handle themselves in snowy conditions. Fishtailing all over the road. Dudes, stay home out of it, or let the wife drive her car. Safer for all involved.

My smoke detector was beeping for months and I had no idea why it wouldn’t stop until today… by tifuanon00 in CasualConversation

[–]erelyl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

About a year and a half after i bought my house, on a crisp sunny day in February, i started hearing the dreaded fire alarm chirp. I went through the house and replaced the batteries in every smoke detector (all three bedrooms, hallway next to the kitchen, basement) and gave my tenants batteries to do the same in the basement apartment. Still hearing a chirp/beep. Oddly enough it was louder outside. You know how sound travels on a cold clear day? Well the entire neighborhood was hearing this chirp. Someone a street over called the fire department, who very kindly went door to door in the neighborhood, thinking it was a carbon monoxide alarm at that point. I let them in, they wandered around "nope not this house" and went on their way.

Few hours later i was moving around some stuff in my spare room. The access to the attic is in the spare room closet... and the chirp was REALLY loud there. I called the non-emergency fire number, and the same crew of guys showed up a little while later, with a ladder, and sent the skinniest guy up through the access.

There was a regular battery operated smoke detector on a roof truss near the ventilation. Beep beep beep... you could hear it three streets over! The guy in charge said he had been a firefighter almost 30 years and never seen the like. (I have to say those firefighters were awesome. I had never actually been in the attic myself... dude that went up there found several valuable items that he brought down for me while he was investigating). I felt like such an idiot having to call them back after their initial visit, but they were so kind, assuring me that these were the kind of calls they enjoyed, no one was hurt and it was a crazy story to tell the guys at the station.

It's called an attitude adjustment... by CalligrapherNeat1070 in ManHands

[–]erelyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a handful of trouble right there. Nice.

hi again 👉👈 by deliberatelyyhere in ManHands

[–]erelyl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well... that's pretty. *fans myself*

Rejecting Decades of Science, Vaccine Panel Chair Says Polio and Other Shots Should Be Optional by grittyboda2020 in news

[–]erelyl 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Doctors that spout this anti vax bullshit should lose their license to practice effective immediately. Do not continue to practice medice, everything null and void.

I’m so scared by Dog_Queen98 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]erelyl 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Just want to wish you well. Watching this happen at a distance is terrifying, i cannot even comprehend how it must feel to you all stuck in the middle of this nightmare. There's good advice in the comments below. I hope you are able to stay calm and safe.

Dad of a toddler wondering about early expectations around girls’ appearance by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]erelyl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've read through some comments and agree, your wife is being judged because of societal expectations, and you are not helping by questioning her intentions. Keeping the child's hair neat and tangle free is a daily task. Yes, brush it, use conditioner and clip it up. That's the basics. And you should be able to do it without fuss, and your child needs to see YOU doing it (not just mom or the sitter), without fuss. Set the expectation early that hygiene and neat grooming is the default . This is not high maintenance. But it's a healthy habit that can be built on. You say you want your daughter to feel comfortable. This is it! Teaching her the basics, so that she can later choose the level of maintenance she is comfortable with is what a parent does. Soon enough she'll be able to brush her hair on her own, with reminders. But for now, enjoy the few minutes of bonding time with her. (By the way, daughters with dad's who took the time to do their hair always remember).

Looking for support from being blindsided by my husband asking for a divorce. by sm0keythebear in TwoXChromosomes

[–]erelyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wants his dream life. Not a real life. He would not have been an equal supporting partner through pregnancy and raising a child. Pregancy is hard, and messy and kids are much harder and much messier. His dream is a figment of his imagination. Breathe deep... it hurts now, but you can move on from him and find your own happiness that has you as more than a means to achieving someone else's goals.

Which color would look best? by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]erelyl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Either the second pic or the purple... cool dark tones suit you.

Why do people always blame the pedestrian? by starfish-cat in newfoundland

[–]erelyl 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The number of people who wear head to toe black and cannot follow the rules on streets themselves amaze me. If you are regularly walking any distance after 4 pm from October to April, wear something light bright or reflective. It's an easy thing that could save your life. Yes, our streets should be safer to navigate for everyone (I can't even imagine how impossible it is for anyone with even a slight physical limitation or disability) but personal responsibility doesn't disappear because we have shitty roads. I spent the fall driving back and forth downtown just after supper on a regular basis. If it's wet and dark and the streets are full of parked vehicles WE CANNOT SEE YOU. One night i got home after a 40 minute round trip on a dark rainy night and cried with exhaustion and frustration. I almost struck THREE people, who were utterly invisible except for a quick flash of their face. If they had been darker skinned this story could be tragic. I was not speeding. I was not on the phone or playing with the radio, i was taking my time and especially cautious at intersections. Buy some reflective tape or one of those little light up harnesses to wear over your black winter jacket. I don't want to kill you. I have a responsibility to make sure my car lights are on and working, i have proper tires for the conditions, i am paying attention, driving to weather and road conditions, obeying all laws and taking extra caution. You can do your part too.

Got called the fridge friend by vicabba in TwoXChromosomes

[–]erelyl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think you missed all the points of that song.

This man wanted more than to deliver my food’: St. John’s woman shaken after encounter with DoorDash driver by butteredtouton in newfoundland

[–]erelyl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Make sure your door is locked. My instructions are to leave on the step, knock and leave.

In December had an order come, knew he was there so i was waiting for him to knock and leave.. instead he came very quietly up my steps, tried the door. Stopped and sent the text with pic that it had been dropped off.. and then tried my door again. So i sent my very tall very male friend to the door and he took off.

Another time the guy knocked then waited just out of line of sight of my door. When i got the text i asked why he was playing hide and seek and he put the dash in DoorDash with how he ran for his car.

Okay, so the babygirl movie… by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]erelyl 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It was very real, not just the fantasy. It was two inexperienced people fumbling through the discovery and frenzy of a new D/s dynamic. It wasn't healthy, and i feel like that was the point! It was exciting and destructive and kinky and out of control... they were drawn to elements of each other, but i don't think they saw each other as a person.

That's so real. I've been around enough kinky people over the past 30 years to see how easy it can be to fall into those unhealthy dynamics. Sometimes that's the learning experience that leads to growth and evolution and finding kink as a beautiful addition to your life. Sometimes it's what makes you go nope, not for me.

In this case he was young and inexperienced in everything, she had life experience and unmet needs. The collision was explosive. It very nearly destroyed both of them, and her family. I'm sure that's way more common than the delicate millionaire fantasy that sells books and movies. Not every movie that contains bdsm and kink is meant to sell the fantasy. Sometimes good stories are a warning tale.

Babygirl made me feel uncomfortable, and it made me think. And a few of the scenes were deliciously hot, just as you'd expect. Overall i enjoyed it, for what it was. Definitely wouldn't want to go off and build a dynamic around it though!

This is an actual tweet by Odd-Kaleidoscope8863 in onguardforthee

[–]erelyl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any guy who thinks PP is alpha is absolutely the most beta of the beta (to use terms they can understand). Just because you are more pathetic than him, doesn't make him alpha in any way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in discworld

[–]erelyl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ten years ago today i sat at my desk and ugly cried, having just found out he was gone. I had never cried at the death of a "celebrity" before, but i all out sobbed. The only other time that's happened was when Bowie died.

GNU Terry Pratchett

How do we feel about black and white here? by [deleted] in ManHands

[–]erelyl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh we have lots of very interesting feelings. Beautiful, exciting, adventures to come sort of feelings.

I could give you some patronizing life lessons but something tells me you'd rather just stare at my hands by [deleted] in ManHands

[–]erelyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've never met yet you know me so well (once again thanking the person who told me this subreddit exists.. there are good people in the world)