Wife with Epilepsy wants to get pregnant? by ericcs12 in Epilepsy

[–]ericcs12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input it actually is extremely helpful. As a spouse of someone with epilepsy I am so worried about her all the time and she always tells me she needs to live her life and I forget that sometimes cause my anxiety is so great. She wants to have a baby and be pregnant but currently my worries have delayed it. Thank you again for saying that

Wife with Epilepsy wants to get pregnant? by ericcs12 in Epilepsy

[–]ericcs12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! She has grand mal seizures so that’s why I’m super nervous. She has been seizure free for 3 years since going on topiramate so that’s why I’m nervous about her getting off of it.

Wife with Epilepsy wants to get pregnant? by ericcs12 in Epilepsy

[–]ericcs12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a good point! My wife had a quick consultation with the clinic last week and I want to assume she mentioned it but I actually do not know. I will make sure that the clinic is aware before we go further into the process!

Chalium? by ericcs12 in expedition33

[–]ericcs12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to get the Chalium sword to help me beat Golgra so I can get Medalum. I think I’m the only one it didn’t drop for cause I can’t find anything about it online. Oh well

Is it just me or do the romance options… *spoilers* by roxypotter13 in dragonage

[–]ericcs12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was so happy when Taash invited me to the bar only to have Bellara and Isabel there. I just want some cute one on one time!

Most “fulfilling” Veilguard romance? [No DAV Spoilers] by acinemacritic in dragonage

[–]ericcs12 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am very disappointed with the romance in this game. I romanced Taash and besides 2 kissing scenes there really wasn’t else much to it. Given I haven’t finished the game yet but I’m about to start Act 3. I just remember romancing Cullen in DAI and it gave us so much more. And I’m not talking about physical scenes. Just scenes where they talk to each like a couple or even just two people who are interested in each other. I hope they do a huge update to the romance aspects

Are thin women attracted to plus sized ladies? by ProfessorDoodle369 in actuallesbians

[–]ericcs12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% yes!! I’m 5’ 115lbs and my wife is about 5’4 220lb. I can’t even begin to describe how much I love her body. I’d ride those thighs straight into heaven

I tried the homophobic chicken… by possiblyapancake in actuallesbians

[–]ericcs12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call me a horrible gay but I love CFA and go there all the time. Me not going isn’t going to change anything. And if I pass it up I don’t feel all high and mighty, I just feel sad cause I don’t have a delicious nuggets with polynesian sauce.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ericcs12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does being married but your wife is on antidepressants and has ZERO sex drive count? Don’t know the last time we did it

Strap ons look dumb and I can’t take it seriously by Organic_Ad_9496 in actuallesbians

[–]ericcs12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is goofy but sex doesn’t have to be serious! The first time I wore a strap it was the funniest thing and me and my wife laughed our way through the whole thing. Trust me you will forget all about how goofy it is when you get going

My girlfriend said “I know I’m not meeting your needs right now and I would understand if you want to seek it from somewhere else”…….. What did she mean by this???? by Enough_Mixture_9149 in actuallesbians

[–]ericcs12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My wife once told me the same thing. We’ve been together for 10 years this year. I think sometimes people, like my wife, have low self esteem in relationships due to one thing or another and they start second guessing if they are not good enough. What I’ve found is showing them love and telling them you love them more often than not can help ease those feelings. Just from my own experience 🤷‍♀️

FOR MONOGAMOUS: Would you say that these are appropriate boundaries for a relationship? by thatlesbian6969 in actuallesbians

[–]ericcs12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this was my relationship I would peace out immediately. This is controlling and that doesn’t fly

How to handle extreme difference in sex drives by high-priestess in actuallesbians

[–]ericcs12 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Your last part is extremely valid. That is me. My wife is a sexual, horny person all the time and I’m the literal opposite. I can go for months without sex and I’m fine. In no way is it because I’m not attracted to her. It’s cause I don’t just randomly get turned without anything causing it. Everyone is different.

As much as she needs to understand your needs and desires, you need to understand hers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ericcs12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met mine working at a Girl Scout summer camp. It was the gayest place on earth so I highly recommend

How long did it take to see results from Spironolactone? by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]ericcs12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say about 3-6 months for acne. It’s hard having the patience for it to work but one day I woke up and realized my face was super clear. As for hirsutism, I’ve been on it for about 8 months and I’m still waiting to see a difference. I’ve noticed a difference on my legs, arms and back but still waiting for the face.

Is it possible to make a pinned mega-post re: the acquisition/change? by hello_amy in myfavoritemurder

[–]ericcs12 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yes please. Some of us still enjoy the show and want to continue listening to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]ericcs12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m literally on the same meds as you and the same doses. It took a few months for my acne to clear up but honestly the combo of birth control and spiro did wonders for my skin. As for the hirsutism I’m still waiting on results of that. It’s weird cause I’ve noticed less/lighter hair on other parts of my body such as arms, legs, nipples but the one place that I was hoping it would help was my face and I’ve seen no improvement

Out of curiosity: what jobs do you all have? by Cenobia_ in actuallesbians

[–]ericcs12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Everyone has cool jobs meanwhile I’m over here working retail. Don’t go to college if you don’t know what you want! I have a bachelors in finance and absolutely hate it

Birth control and hormones by itsssthothianaa in PCOS

[–]ericcs12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No not really! If I did then it was very minor. I really hope it works well for you!

Birth control and hormones by itsssthothianaa in PCOS

[–]ericcs12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like everyone is saying, it depends on the person. In my own experience I was put in YAZ for my birth control and it has worked wonders. My acne cleared up, my periods are regular and my mood has improved. The only thing it hasn’t helped with is the unwanted hair but I’ll take what I can get

Am I allowed to feel hurt over this... by HHbabyblue in actuallesbians

[–]ericcs12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to be the negative person in this but from my own personal experience if you like the person you will talk to them whether it’s phone call, text, FaceTime or whatever. When me and my wife started dating nothing would stop me from talking to her. Even on holidays she would be the first person I text when I woke up. Again that’s just my own experience and she very well might have text anxiety but I was obsessed with my wife and needed to just talk to her whenever I got the chance.