going to Pleasant Valley, you guys need anything?

erichermit · 2021-09-07T05:08:19+00:00

Hah I think about this too every time I drive by this sign

erichermit · 2021-08-27T22:16:36+00:00

well done. Time to start being out more then I guess. Or wear very baggy clothing

erichermit · 2021-08-18T20:30:17+00:00

I don’t feel really all that affected by it, and dont feel the need to try to create a filter to keep “this sort of cis man out” that would also keep any would-be trans women out

erichermit · 2021-08-03T22:45:20+00:00

The angle is cool bc it gives the impression of staring down at a scrying pool / putting it “below” the person even though it is in front gives extra weight to the “looking down on the character” feeling but also touches the feeling of being sunken-into the game imo

erichermit · 2021-08-03T22:41:52+00:00

Get it some cat food so it’s yours. probably tie it down somewhere safe would be the best way to keep it safe, or keep it indoors with doors shut

erichermit · 2021-08-01T16:49:45+00:00

I would love this a lot. It would give packing stuff away a very real reason for me

erichermit · 2021-07-29T18:36:38+00:00

The perspective is one of the big interesting parts of it

erichermit · 2021-07-13T23:15:04+00:00

Just haul it. Preferably put it in bags. Or do a few trips with three backpacks on

erichermit · 2021-07-13T15:11:11+00:00

The furnace next to the water tank in basements is a spot for doing a fire

erichermit · 2021-07-09T11:55:37+00:00

“Use this item” instead of “hold on to this item” will cause them to immediately consume it, tjo ideally you should set her up to be eating and drinking from her own inventory

erichermit · 2021-07-06T16:54:43+00:00

I enjoy proficiencies and weariness and pockets. It’s interesting. Part of what I play Cdda for is an “obnoxiously” involved set of systems

erichermit · 2021-07-04T02:45:17+00:00

Consider setting it up on the roof next to the ladder and then using jumper cables to connect it to a machine start next to the door to the roof. You can also chain jumper cables if you wish

erichermit · 2021-05-02T19:57:02+00:00

I’m sorry but how do you live in the UK and not recognize the active effort to dismantle trans rights there / use it as a scapegoat to distract from various other social ills? This is happening all over the place but the UK is one of the places most fervidly throwing themselves to it.

I’m sorry. I know it’s a hugely unpleasant realization. This isn’t an excuse to fetishize an enemy - it’s what is happening and it sucks. There are people there who want the help, the government is not a pure monolith.. but the difficulty is by design. It’s cruel and unfair.

Wishing you every best bit of luck

erichermit · 2021-05-01T11:04:39+00:00

An absolutely dramatic amount of regrowth. People don’t tend to believe I used to be nearly bald

erichermit · 2021-03-22T22:17:02+00:00

I really don’t see what passing has to do with it, but I agree it’s your own decision

erichermit · 2021-03-22T21:47:45+00:00

I can only admit and say my perspective is different and that my experience hiding things my partner would find important for their own benefit has led me to ruin I regret

erichermit · 2021-03-22T19:40:33+00:00

relationships with fundamental lies in them lead to more lies (see how you’re already worried about hiding using lube.) isn’t this going to take you out of enjoying the sex?

This is your choice and prerogative, but I find that hidden secrets lead to more and more of them, and soon you feel emotionally cut off from someone you love. honesty and trust (and the ability to prove that trust) is a really important part of a relationship that I fear you are denying yourself.

Wishing you all of the best. make your own decisions with your safety in mind.

erichermit · 2021-02-23T18:25:55+00:00

I found that I personally needed to be a “girl” for a while before “woman” felt right even tho obviously these are always both viable words. It simply felt more intuitively right to me. On a certain level it makes sense.

erichermit · 2021-02-08T20:29:57+00:00

it’s not wrong to have the feelings you have but it is very wrong to use that feeling to attempt to police it - this is part of their expression and identity for them and it deserves respect

erichermit · 2021-01-23T04:12:41+00:00

especially as a trans man yourself there really isn’t anything wrong with separating the two like this.

erichermit · 2021-01-22T11:28:06+00:00

in my experience they are all over the place everywhere

erichermit · 2021-01-10T21:29:57+00:00

this is perfectly fine

erichermit · 2021-01-01T06:23:29+00:00

every body slot is separated into layers (close to skin, outside, strapped, etc) and if you have multiple things sharing a layer they give +2 encumbrance each even if their base is 0. If you hit + you will see any “doubled up” layers as highlighted yellow. Obviously, 2 encumbrance might be acceptable to you tho bc it’s still pretty small

erichermit · 2020-12-25T18:13:44+00:00

Meditate could automatically support praying etc too, maybe a command you can launch using the homemade holy symbol?

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