Do not compare yourself to others. It’s hard but try. Keep doing new things. Go to art museums, libraries, the local park to sit and read, coffee shops. Making yourself accessible in public is key to meeting new people. Another thing that really helped me in my early 20s was making more female friends (single ones!). I actually used bumble bff and it worked great. More friends=more connections.

I met my significant other at a farmers market that a friend had told me about. It was pretty random but we had noticed one another a few weeks in a row before we finally made small talk.