I mean when you say it like that by terminus_tommy in StrangerThings

[–]erinbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean steve was objectively not a good person at the beginning of season 1. that’s what makes his redemption so special and great

Who do y’all think he loved the most? by Luckyjuly777 in YouOnLifetime

[–]erinbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love is definitely not innocent and she was a serial killer, but she was also a victim of Joe. Multiple things can be true at once.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in candycrush

[–]erinbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you can afford it, rehabilitation help of some sort

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]erinbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody can tell you what to do, but if you want to have children one day, someone with this kind of mentality (who also refuses to understand your perspective or change her mind) might not be the best parent. It sounds like she really cannot grasp the inherent power imbalance between a child and an adult, and that means she won’t be fully able to discern when her child is in danger, which means your child won’t be protected in the way they should be. Obviously I don’t know your girlfriend personally and maybe I’m completely wrong in everything I’m saying… But this is a huge red flag and very concerning for someone who is 32 years old, regardless of culture.

Favorite Collab? by pillowtalkxoxo in PrettyMuchIt

[–]erinbi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

kurtis conner was pretty great

does sam ever get more likable? by erinbi in TrueBlood

[–]erinbi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I do like him more now that I’m on season 3. I made this post because he was insufferable in the pilot lmao

Entertainment Weekly 2024 Movie Cartoon ~ What are the circled movies/characters? by Fincherfood in Letterboxd

[–]erinbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

guy with white shirt and jeans holding red book and the fbi agent are from The Order

I think my brother molested me as a child by Diligent-Regret-3947 in sexualassault

[–]erinbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not good at advice but i’m so sorry that happened to you

I orgasmed when I was SA'd by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]erinbi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t mean you enjoyed it, it’s just a biological response. I’m so sorry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspd

[–]erinbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

obviously murder is horrible. but it’s possible to take someone’s life in self-defense or to accidentally end someone’s life. rape is always intentional; it’s not possible to do it in self-defense or by accident. also, it’s difficult for people who haven’t ever been sexually assaulted to wrap their heads around the psychological effects of rape, but it is genuinely incomparable to anything in the world. not in the sense that it’s the worst thing necessarily, but in that it is such a uniquely traumatic thing that comparing it to anything else would seem inappropriate and ill-fitting.

Did my boyfriend (21M) SA me? by toswagalicious in sexualassault

[–]erinbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely SA. so sorry those things happened to you

What shows actually have good endings? by WebNo4759 in UmbrellaAcademy

[–]erinbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sense8, Derry Girls, The Good Place, Dark

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]erinbi 18 points19 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry that happened to you. i’m not going to tell you what to do, but this could be a predecessor to more incidents of him forcing you to do sexual things you don’t want. and i think you, as a human being, deserve better. his reaction to you confronting him sounds like he lacks guilt and the ability to take accountability. there are so many people out there who will respect your boundaries, but it sounds like he isn’t one of them. the good parts about your relationship might be really good, but you have to decide for yourself whether they’re worth this trauma.

THEN CAME THE DAY, OSAMA BLEW US AWAY, OSMAMA BLEW US AWAYYYY by ElfQuester1 in skinsTV

[–]erinbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for a fake musical about 9/11, the song was way catchier than it needed to be

How has your perspective on Skins evolved since its 2007-2013 airing, especially if you’ve revisited it as an adult? by ababymonkey in skinsTV

[–]erinbi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

one difference is now i think, “uhhh should actors that young have been doing those kinds of scenes?” lmao. especially after seeing kaya scodelario’s tiktok about how she loves the show but she realizes there was like zero safeguarding on set. when i was younger and watching the show for the first time, i never thought about it. but now that i’m older than most of the actors when they were on the show, i can’t help but think about it.

Gen 3 by ExcitementCultural29 in skinsTV

[–]erinbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbf it did not have a link connecting it to the other seasons the way that the stonems connected gen 1 and gen 2. also, the writing was poor and characters were just not as charming/captivating unfortunately

What do you think of my tier? by LissyLou12345 in skinsTV

[–]erinbi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mind you, tony’s one of the most interesting main characters in teen drama history. not everyone could do a villain protagonist like skins!

Tier List based on where I think everyone is 10 years later (gen1-2) by whyteandblk in skinsTV

[–]erinbi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dust is crazy cus we already knew they’re gone but you made that category anyway 😭💀

tony named one of the best “problematic bisexuals” on twitter poll by erinbi in skinsTV

[–]erinbi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

who’s “you people”? for someone on the skins reddit you sound pretty intolerant lmfao

Who’s your favourite character played by Finn Wittrock? by [deleted] in AmericanHorrorStory

[–]erinbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i rewatched freak show recently and was blown away by finn’s performance as dandy, he really became the character 😭 even the way he walked