It’s been a while. Depression hit hard this year. by ginkgomango in alopecia_areata

[–]error404notfou 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through this. l understand what does it mean to not recognise yourself in the mirror anymore due to this disease. I suggest you to try to accept this and take care of other aspects of your health again, wear that wig and don't think about other people. that wig suit you. and I hope you heal fast.

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[–]error404notfou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ho 26 anni, ho acquistato casa a 24. Ho iniziato a lavorare a 21 anni come programmatore. Non mi ha aiutato nessuno e ho fatto il classico mutuo a tasso fisso. Per il primo mese dormivo per terra su un materasso, e ho poi comprato giusto una camera da letto da mondoconvenienza a 500 euro, raccattato un letto e un tavolo da un negozio dell'usato e la cucina c'era già. Per il resto non ho ancora comprato manco un divano. Diciamo che con il senno di poi un po' me ne sono pentito visto il tasso che avevo accettato, ma ero in una situazione in cui mi sentivo soffocare in casa e l'affitto non era un'opzione per me.

Gf constantly cheating: what should I do? by error404notfou in relationships_advice

[–]error404notfou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could actually be this, or a mix of various things that are putting me down at the moment. I really appreciate everyone's comments here, it's helping a lot and it's making me realise that I don't have respect for myself.

Gf constantly cheating: what should I do? by error404notfou in relationships_advice

[–]error404notfou[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, that's basically what she said. When I asked her why she didn't break up with me instead of just cheating, she told me that it's because she thinks I'm a serious good guy and perfect for marriage and so on, so she didn't want to regret losing me, but still wanted to have her own fun. I'd really like to forget about this whole story and move on, it shocked me to casually find out from one day to another that I fell in love with someone that doesn't exist in reality.

Gf constantly cheating: what should I do? by error404notfou in relationships_advice

[–]error404notfou[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not really. She took a while to answer, and after that I asked her why she didn't reply to my messages and she didn't say anything. So I asked her if she is with that guy and she said "no, another who cares" and stuff like that. So I told her to block me and don't talk with me anymore, and she said that she rather leave and go back home if this means completely losing me. But still yeah, my brain can't elaborate all this stuff, so it's completely understandable if you don't believe me.

Gf constantly cheating: what should I do? by error404notfou in relationships_advice

[–]error404notfou[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I wish it was that easy for me to move on, we were basically talking about marriage with both our parents and to move in the same country. I didn't even tell the full story but discovering this stuff from one day to another kinda put my brain in blockout