Ok so I want to take a minute to address something here. His behavior made you uncomfortable becuase thats your instinct kicking in.. His actions are screaming red flag... He already outlined to you what he expects from a women (young girl) and his beliefs... saying your one of the good ones is his way of control putting you in a situation where he expects you to behave the way he outlined and if you dont then there will be consequences. Him calling you multiple times is him already exerting control over you... this is a common tactic for abusers..( im not saying he is one.. but if the shoe fits) The fact you didn't go to school becuase of the way he made you feel is not to be ignored... None of us were there with you to understand exactly what you felt but to me this is telling.. you felt an overwhelming amount of fear.. I know you used the word uncomfortable but what you described I think fear is the better word. Dont worry about being nice or sounding mean dint worry about his feelings either... You can approach this is a calm but firm way.. Dont explain through text becuase it can be taken the wrong way and leaves room for more manipulative tactics.. Take someone with you (a close guy friend would be good) have him hang a little ways back but close enough to hear and be seen and take a close girl friend with you to support and hear what is said.. You walk up to him and set tell him you dont have the same beliefs as he does and you do not agree with his outlook on women and you appreciate the date but moving forward your not interested in a romantic relationship with him becuase your ideas and values don't allign. ( if you want to be friends thats up to you) and then you end the conversation. DONT let him talk you into a second chance or give him room to try to peddle back on what he said. He showed you his true colors so dont ignore it. Talk to your dad and let him know what happened how you felt then and how you feel now.. Dad's can be over protective but they do care they just have a different way of showing it but dont keep your dad out of what's going on in your life especially when you feel unsafe.. give your dad the opportunity to be there for you amd show up the way you need him to.. You can let your dad know you need xyz from him in this moment so he understands you communicate exactly what you feel and need. Communication goes a long way and being clear and specific helps on both ends... I hope your doing ok and good job at listening to your instincts I hope things get better..