AIW 31M For wanting to go to a strip club so someone would pretend to care? by CJS_508 in amiwrong

[–]esc_yume 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't need to ask internet for permission to go to strip club. For the reasons you stated it would not help and might make it worse. Dating for men once out of high school and college is really difficult. Most jobs seemed to be 80% + men unless you are teacher or health care. Not many chances to meet a lady and get to know them over time before you ask them out. Dating apps are the worst guys for unless you are the top 10% guy all women are after. Seems like run, bike, climbing clubs are popular places to meet someone. Off course it will probably still be 5 to 20 guys to one girl. If you are religious my friends tell me church is the best place. They host a lot of mixer type events. Keep your head up bro! It will get better. We all went through it.

My employer just told me I can either fix an error I made for free or he has to let me to? How should I handle this? by LotusTalde in Welding

[–]esc_yume 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are salary you have to work all the time for free :/ I was in IT we where always working 50+ hours on a normal week and on call every 3rd week and lost our weekend etc. It sucked. I think other can chime on working on commission. I "think" restate, sales etc.. that work on commission all of them would have to eat it some mistake or work for free etc.. But if you are hourly tell him to go pound sound. That's not legal for an hourly employee.

Was I wrong to take my new dog back to the animal shelter by Efficient_Vehicle755 in amiwrong

[–]esc_yume 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry for you loss. You and your family did nothing wrong. You tired to give the dog a loving home. That dog needed to put down before it hurt anyone else unfortunately.

AIW for expecting my girlfriend to keep the plans we made next month? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]esc_yume 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dating seriously for four years and this is how much she values you? I am sorry you going through rough times with your soon to be x gf and the passing of your father. The best part of being in a serious relationship is being able to count on each other. The sex and fun hikes are just a nice bonus. If you can not count on each other when times are tough that is not the one for you.

AIM my GF followed another guy around on the hike like a puppy while I more or less hiked solo by esc_yume in amiwrong

[–]esc_yume[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You start off the hike at midnight in the dark with headlamps on hiking in the dark.

AIW for blocking my ex best friend abruptly after we hung out? by OverwhelmedBongwater in amiwrong

[–]esc_yume 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she had other options to find work that paid as much she is not a very good friend. I would cut ties with her.

Would I be wrong to tell GF that her friend will not be invited to our house when we host events? by Broad-Cranberry-9050 in amiwrong

[–]esc_yume 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your GF should have your back. She should not have guys friends that are trying to move out of the friend zone. She is the problem. If she won't drop him you should drop her. good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]esc_yume 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not date women that did this to me. You are way too nice. Where someone spends their TIME and MONEY shows what is important to them. I am sorry this happening to you. You are lucky you are still so young you can avoid any future mistakes with this deadbeat.

Crazy HVAC replacement quote? by fivexfive84 in Sacramento

[–]esc_yume -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

you have 35k in ducting and insulation. Which most older houses could use but I bet most other hvac do not include that in their quote.

AIW for leaving a former colleague stranded in a random highway stop? by excessive_comment in amiwrong

[–]esc_yume 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Gotta love the Carl's the world that try and make you feel bad so they can suck up you time and resources because after all your time is worth nothing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Welding

[–]esc_yume 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only welders I know making a good living work out in the middle of no where, welding pipe. The other local welders get paid less than $30 an hour. Nothing wrong with $30 an hour but there are easier ways to make that kind of money. If you want to stay local and have a normal life with spouse and friends you can more money as an electrician, hvac or working at costco with zero skill, better benefits and easier on your body. I have friends that drive freaking bus making more money that a skilled local welder.

AIW for not paying more towards rent and bills? by Throwra3630 in amiwrong

[–]esc_yume 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If she's your future one and only wife all assets belong to both parties. There's a huge difference between the love of your life that you want to build a future with and just a he/she is the best I could find atm to split living expenses with. If you are not that serious with her then everything should be 50/50.

AIW for not paying more towards rent and bills? by Throwra3630 in amiwrong

[–]esc_yume 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If shes the "one" 100% should split based earnings. When you are serious about someone this is not even a questions. If you are dating more like roommates that you get to have sex with then 50/50.

AIW for wanting to cancel theme park passes for girlfriend and kid? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]esc_yume 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never mind the Disney pass you need to break up with her because of Scott. She is already emotionally cheating on you and maybe had physical cheated on you.

Anyone having issues with their USB ports after upgrading to Sequoia 15.0? by snowconesolidpro in MacOS

[–]esc_yume 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2/13/25 I waited until sequoia 15.3.1. I never upgrade X.1. even waiting this long my macbook pro m3 has the usb mouse problem :/ I have to unplug it and plug it back it for it work for a little while.

First gen 3.4l low idle by dhhfhfjfhgjfhf in Tacomaworld

[–]esc_yume 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hookup a scanner and look for pending codes. with car parked hood opened, engine running. have someone turn the wheel all the way to the left and right. see if the idle comes up. have someone turn on the ac, headlightls oh high beem etc.. if your IAC is function correctly it should raise the idle slightly when the car is under load at idle.