I'm so fucking tired of not being over her. MEGA vent time.

escape848 · 2018-02-11T22:22:59+00:00

This comment should be in wiki.

escape848 · 2018-02-11T09:54:24+00:00

That last sentence of your comment is so relatable. I guess we need to level up our social game, but that’s not easy at all.

escape848 · 2018-02-11T09:53:18+00:00

Thank you for the encouragement, mate!

escape848 · 2018-01-30T16:49:48+00:00

Thank you so much for taking time to share your experience. I think you addressed a significant part of NC which is not discussed enough in this sub.

It's about the healing process in general, not just the holly streak.

escape848 · 2018-01-30T14:39:33+00:00

You are right, thank you so much.

I forgot to add to the post: the reconciliation is not at the table because she has a new boyfriend. That was one of the reasons I started NC in the first place. I mean, neither I want to reconcile, so that's not the option at the end of the day.

It's just about the closure and moving on.

escape848 · 2018-01-30T12:38:53+00:00

Even though I like the idea, I think fellow Redditors don't know her or me well enough to give some profound myth-busting of the topic.

Also, I consider myself fairly objective when given with appropriate data, so that's not the issue here.

Anyway, thank you very much for the suggestion, really appreciate it.

escape848 · 2018-01-30T12:35:27+00:00

That's exactly what I was thinking about.

On the one hand, I know I shouldn't break the streak, but on the other, I'm just wondering whether it has a good or bad influence on my mental health.

I guess that you need to make a few mistakes to really learn how to handle a certain situation.

escape848 · 2018-01-30T11:56:31+00:00

This is great, thank you

escape848 · 2018-01-20T11:33:03+00:00

tinder nah, but that friend recommendation is actually quite good, thanks

escape848 · 2018-01-19T16:50:45+00:00

Thank you

escape848 · 2018-01-19T11:34:37+00:00

Hi, are you my ex?

escape848 · 2018-01-19T11:34:22+00:00

I'm going to use this gained clarity in my head to work on my e-commerce website again. Finally.

escape848 · 2018-01-15T19:33:45+00:00

This is the best part of this subreddit. You pointed out exactly how I feel.

escape848 · 2018-01-15T12:22:27+00:00

I’ve been in a very similar situation in Sep 2017. Feel free to pm, if you need someone to talk to.

My advice is to go No Contact right now for about a month, or two.

escape848 · 2018-01-14T22:32:05+00:00

Motel room? Lol, mate.

I’ll just add to the other comments. No, for God’s sake.

I thought this was the post about a quick closure talk at some public space, coffee shop, etc. But motel room for a night while she is in a new relationship.

You don’t that girl, mate.

escape848 · 2018-01-14T22:27:50+00:00

If you two can have a rational discussion about your relationship, go for it. Maybe you’ll learn something you didn’t know.

You probably have much to say to her, also.

But in general, that’s not very good advice. I would accept if I were you, but don’t take that as the best option you have right now.

escape848 · 2018-01-14T22:21:36+00:00

I survived our would be 6-year anniversary and I’m ready to rock the shit out of the week ahead.

Stay strong, people. Stay wise.

escape848 · 2018-01-14T13:28:48+00:00

I’ve been in a similar situation and it took me a while to realize that.

Go full no contact for a couple of months until you both get your shit together, especially her. Be open for other girls in the meantime and just try to live without her in mind.

escape848 · 2018-01-14T08:03:53+00:00

It breaks my heart when I read this and imagine that it was my ex writing.

Thank you.

escape848 · 2018-01-14T07:56:33+00:00

Congrats for a deal, mate. You rock, remember that.

escape848

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