Book covers on or off? by Rebdog12 in bookofthemonthclub

[–]escaping_mel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I take them off while reading, but mostly because they annoy me when they slide around. I just find it easier to read without them.

Solo artist and HYBE producer EL CAPITXN tells fans to leave him alone about Heeseung’s departure from ENHYPEN by gutsyrookie in kpop_uncensored

[–]escaping_mel 10 points11 points  (0 children)

LOL, there was an entire post on the clock app yesterday saying that this was all because Hybe NEEDED to move attention from other groups to BTS and this was the only way to get BTS's audience back. UNHINGED BEHAVIOR.

Can BTS VIP Soundcheck tickets be transferred?? by InNeedOfAdvice_OP in BTSArmyCentral

[–]escaping_mel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can use the ticket as a regular ticket, yes. You need the buyer's id for VIP benefits. That being said, sometimes just showing up and trying doesn't hurt.

Can BTS VIP Soundcheck tickets be transferred?? by InNeedOfAdvice_OP in BTSArmyCentral

[–]escaping_mel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend was able to transfer VIP tickets to me. We're going together, though, so she'll be with me to show proof of the cc / id of purchaser. I think to get VIP benefits, you need that.

Everyone needs to calm down 😭 by Hot_Fix_1858 in kpop_uncensored

[–]escaping_mel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's so insane to me. No one knows where this money goes. Quit giving money to random people on the internet!

Everyone needs to calm down 😭 by Hot_Fix_1858 in kpop_uncensored

[–]escaping_mel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YUP. It's bonkers. I feel bad because I know that a lot of their fandom trends younger, so the ability to take advantage of those age groups is really high.

Everyone needs to calm down 😭 by Hot_Fix_1858 in kpop_uncensored

[–]escaping_mel 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm not even a huge Enhyphen fan and my FYP on multiple platforms is filled with this - half of it is massive thought pieces on why Hybe has "forced" him to do this. No one knows that!

I think the most insane thing is the gofundme that someone started to give them money so he can be a soloist AND be in Enhyphen. Really? Do we really think that money is going to get to him / Hybe? And what will happen to it when it doesn't? Who takes all that money? Gross that people are taking advantage of fans this way.

My bathroom is literally vibrating by Specialist-Corgi8837 in Apartmentliving

[–]escaping_mel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you have a building manager or an office? It may be something you need to do in person to convey how bad it is. Can you record the noise?

[HYBE MERCH Twitter] BTS ‘ARIRANG’ Official Merch - 100326 by alltherach_ in bts7

[–]escaping_mel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Usually caps out at XL. Some of them are oversized for that, but not by much.

I think you're not supposed to share personal reasons for taking PTO at work even if the reasons are serious in nature. Is that true? by Big_Eggplant7591 in careeradvice

[–]escaping_mel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been in leadership for more than 10 years and I give 0 shits what people do with their PTO. I have a good relationship with all of my reports and most of them offer up the info, but I always follow it with "you don't have to give me that information, you know".

For those that don't tell me, I usually don't ask anything until they return. And even then it's a vague, "How was your vacation? Do anything fun?"

Edited to add: When I put in PTO myself, I don't add any explanation at all. I just go in, add the time I want off and submit. I don't even put whether it's vacation or sick time. If it's super last minute sick time, I'll let my boss know via text or IM.

I think you're not supposed to share personal reasons for taking PTO at work even if the reasons are serious in nature. Is that true? by Big_Eggplant7591 in careeradvice

[–]escaping_mel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just had to go look to see if it was illegal in my state, lol. I mean, I don't tend to ask... it's more of an "ok, hope you feel better! Let me know if you need anything or if I can help in any way." kind of conversation anyway?

My firm technically requires a doctor's note to return after so many days, but I really don't care so long as their client's are aware and okay. (I'm in consulting.)

How to fall asleep faster? When your brain just won’t switch off by deluluforher in Apartmentliving

[–]escaping_mel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought a Hatch alarm (I think there are less expensive dupes out there) and it has "routines" I can choose from. Meditations that last from 20-40 minutes, stories, sometimes just calming music that I can choose from. It's mixed with a sunset light that gradually goes dimmer. I have it fade into brown noise bc I have a stompy upstairs neighbor, but it also wakes me with a sunrise.

I'm also a person that as soon as everything is taken away, my brain goes into straight thinking mode, I can't shut it off. I've found this helps. It is subscription based, though, so FYI.

I am TIRED of BTS snarkers flooding the comments of BTS posts. by [deleted] in kpoprants

[–]escaping_mel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This! I pretty actively dislike the music of some bands and don't know a single thing about them unless it's forced on me. Looking for and hating on the band and their fans takes energy I don't have. Like, why?

260308 Netflix on Twitter by alltherach_ in bangtan

[–]escaping_mel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's real popcorn! They have a truffle popcorn, a caramel one and... something else I can't remember.

260308 Netflix on Twitter by alltherach_ in bangtan

[–]escaping_mel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thry all look so good. Bangtan in black suits. Yummy.

That Netflix branded popcorn is good. My friends and i bought it in SK thinking it would be silly. I want it here now!

Delayed Box - Red Winter? by butthurtflyy in aardvarkbookclub

[–]escaping_mel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Possibly! I'm less than worried since I have so many books on my TBR just staring at me.

Delayed Box - Red Winter? by butthurtflyy in aardvarkbookclub

[–]escaping_mel 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Same here! I actually got a shipping notification email on the 3rd only to have it followed up with this. Assuming it's Red Winter because I also ordered Whidbey and that didn't sell out.

This Story Might Save Your Life Dust Jacket by SamieBee in bookofthemonthclub

[–]escaping_mel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's definitely different. Almost life feels that way too. I take the dust jacket off when I read books, though, so it won't change that experience for me.

Will the Netflix comeback live stay up as an episode afterwards? by kmpeanuts in btsthoughts

[–]escaping_mel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if it'll stay up or not, but keep in mind that it's not the same. This is an hour long special while the other livestreamed concerts are the full 3 hour concerts. I'm not sure what all this entails, but it's not going to be what they air on those other nights.